Not intentionally meaning to sound jealous or anything, but I am definitely feeling some type of way… has anyone ever experienced like “abandonment” from a best friend? My friend has been through a lot don’t get me wrong, and i’m very happy that she found someone she adores but now it’s all about him and I barely hear from her anymore. She eats, sleeps and breathes this man, so at this point I’m saying forget everything.
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With how willing you seem to just cast your friendship aside it sounds like it’s a good thing she has someone in her life…
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The newness will wear off - it may take a while but it will.
Don’t do that. You know what’s happening, she’s falling in love and her focus is in the right place and space for her life, might you go out and make a new friend, or hang with some others? I don’t think she’s intentionally hurting you. She’s living and enjoying right now, you should too. Send her some friend flowers with a note like hey friend I know it’s busy and you have alot going on, I miss the time we had before, maybe we could do lunch and catch up? Don’t make this negative, remind her your here, that’s it. Never just throw people away, we are not disposable we all have feelings.
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If you have children you’re going to fill that way at some point when they leave home and same partners. Just consider this practice.
She’s just in the honey moon phase. Once it calms down she will be desperate for some friend time.
It sounds to me like your girl is falling in love and that’s a beautiful thing. I understand missing your friend so every once in awhile send her a text or call her just to let her know that you’re still there for her and that you’re happy she’s happy.
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You say you know that she’s been through a lot then be happy for her as she starts a new relationship. Drop her an occasional text or phone call ask her how she’s doing and how her new man is. You aren’t the only relationship that needs nurturing
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