If she go to the bar late at night get her an Uber car also look into Senior bus some of been them could run her to the store and help her run errands if she has money she could ride a bus or maybe hire a part time aid and stop being at her beck and call you need space and time for your husband to relax look into services such a Scat they take people places for a reasonable fee or no fee at all
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Stop catering to her. She sounds my daddy’s mother and she is a master at playing the victim. Can’t stand the old b.
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If at 80 she is that active get her into a senior community where she can go and do things w other seniors. It will give you a break and give her something to do. It does sound not too fun and bad behavior isn’t ok. She probably just wants to live. She’s 80! It can’t b easy bring at this point in her life. Did she want to live w you ? Does your husband support you w all this? You can’t decide for him what he is willing to do but you can decide for yourself. Did you know this was the deal when you married him? Some things to think about
Been there done that for 10 years… Never again
Have you tried karate chopping her neck?
Hang in there girl she won’t be around for ever ijs she’s 80