I get the blame for everything

I Need Advice. Every time my husband and I fight he puts the blame on me, for everything. I tell him this is the reason why we fighting and he will shout to me and say its your fault. His parents will also keep on interfering. They will have sarcasm remarks towards me and if I get upset he fights with me. They can be rude with me but I can not say anything then I get accused that I’m picking on his parents and he will say that is how they are I must change. Please help with advice!!!

That’s manipulation at its finest. I’m sorry, you don’t deserve that.