Okay, so coming from my own experience. When I was younger I was sexually assaulted and had tons of trauma. I would do similar things. I was so scared to go to the restroom. From 7-14 I went to alot of therapy. I still go to therapy and I’m 31. I finally stopped around age 12 and it took alot of work. My mom took me to the best. There’s definitely underlying issues here.
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This is not a potty training issue. I would venture to say it’s a reaction to some sort of abuse and a way to keep that at bay. But it’s def something psychological
Pediatrician then a child therapist IMMEDIATELY. That child has suffered some extreme trauma. That’s a trauma response. She’s hurting. Bless her heart 
Take her to a doctor
Many times young kids will do this as they can’t control what’s going on in their life but can control their bowels. She may have done it for so long now that she may need a surgery and not even notice it’s happening.
Take her to therapy and make her wear diapers
First off mama get her into drs and find out why and go from there. Good luck
I had a 12 year old foster child doing this as well. She, unfortunately, had been through a lot of trauma. I was able to get her trained by having set bathroom time each day. She was in therapy at the time as well.
Have you taken her fo the doctor? Does she have a disability?
Are they in therapy etc…
This could potentially be an underlying defense mechanism against sexual abuse. I would definitely take her in to be seen by a doctor who can provide more help. This is out of your hands mama. Be patient with her, maybe ask her if she’s uncomfortable using the restroom, and why.
Something isn’t right with her. 
Have to figure it out and speak to dr
I would be getting her checked out to see if she has been getting SA.
It is very common but not widely known that if a older child is popping their pants and they don’t care it’s usually a sign of them being sexually assaulted, with them popping their pants it is a defense tactic in hopes that their abuser will find them gross and will not hurt them
I would start by NOT seeking help on social media. Find a therapist and someone who is qualified to help with this situation
Could be a sign of autism or something along those lines. She needs 2 b seen by a professional
Anxiety & ibs. Sucks! Its common in kids who have been through alot.
Honestly talk to a doctor I know I kid that does this probably around the same age he has nerve damage and stuff so make sure you have her checked out
Get her some depends. Don’t get upset, it won’t help. It could be a medical reason, start with pediatric then ask to see a GI specialist.
Pediatrician and therapist asap.
You go to a therapist. You take that child to specialists for help instead of asking fb.
I believe and agree with some people that have commented that she needs to go to the doctor, she most likely was neglected!! Because thats definitely not normal. If you have any Love for this child i pray that u find patience and also speak with a child psychologist and maybe it will help u understand her actions. I really hope u get help for both of u because u might also need a counselor as well to be able to vent.