I have feelings for someone at work. We don’t talk much. It’s mostly hey how are you doing or something related to work. Nothing else. I’m scared to express my feelings because I’m worried he might not feel the same way. Plus I don’t want to make things weird at work. Any advice?
1st make sure that he’s not taken. Just ask if he wants to grab a drink/ coffee after work. If he says no then you know that he’s not interested. Or maybe get a couple other people to go and just say that a bunch of you are going out for a drink and ask him he wants to go too.
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Don’t 
where you eat. Move on
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If yall don’t even talk talk how do you have feelings?…
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Dont shit where you eat. Work relationships very rarely end well.
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Or ask him if he wants to have lunch together
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Having dated a co worker before. Best advice is Don’t
Fishing off the dock at work is not a good ideal!
Low standards sheesh what feelings do you get by saying hello to someone you don’t have conversation with 
I must be getting old bc it takes more than that!
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You have to think of the possible outcome … and if you’re ok with that then go for it … say you sleep with him and he tells the whole office . Do you need your job so badly that you can’t quit ? …
Is there more to your story? I couldn’t catch any feelings for someone that I just say hello to or they say hello to me every once in awhile. Trust me been here done this and it didn’t go the way I hoped and I wished I would have kept my mouth shut. Work and relationships DO NOT MIX. That was over 17 years or so ago for me. I’d get to know whoever it is better and maybe feel their vibes before I just open my mouth to them or anyone!! Start with hello and maybe on break try a conversation after a few times of this you will know where you stand. Don’t just put yourself out there like that. Know your worth!!! I wish you the best in whatever you decide. 
I met my husband at work october of 2001, thought he was cute , flirted back and forth for 8 months or so. . finally . Asked. Him out. Here we are married 23 years later still married. But we hung out all the time after work for. Montbes.
Don’t crap where you eat!!! If things wouldn’t work,things can become quite uncomfortable!!!
Look I met my husband at work. We have now been together for 15 years. I made the first move and was honest about. “Hey I’m into you can I have your number, if not no worries” like don’t make it a big thing. But you’ll never know if you don’t ask
First and foremost are you both single?
If no then walk away and don’t even speak to home period.
If yes then try to build a friendship first and nothing more. If feelings are truly there you’ll eventually just naturally find yourself transitioning to more of not them you’ll maintain a friendship. Don’t push or force anything. My husband and I are getting ready to celebrate 14 years married and met at work. We became almost instant best friends and it eventually became more. Ot only complicates things if you make it or let it.