Take your daughter and grandson!
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Take your family , he can go jump in a lake
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Good idea you should do that.
Ummmm girl kick him to the curb!
This would depend on what you said about the “very big house” to him. If you talked to him about the size maybe he was just being nice.
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Take your daughter and grandson instead of this guy who can’t commit to you
Why are you wasting your time on someone who’s never going to be your man ?
He’s not going to commit and one day he’ll end up telling you
You’re not my girl and it’ll hurt like hell
Get rid of him
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Yes, take your daughter and grandson instead. That way you’ll still enjoy your time out there
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Make some memories with your family 
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You said not see each other exclusively “his choice” well how long you gonna let him keep making the decisions about YOUR relationship? You need to put a stop to that and you need to tell him HELL NO she can’t go. Explain you planned this for the two of you and since you fronted the bill that if he wants his friend to go that he can go with her and her boyfriend to their room they rent and you will be taking your daughter and grandson because they will enjoy your company.
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Yep, take your daughter and grandson instead. I think if you go through with it. It will be a hard weekend if you go through with it.
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I do understand that you feel that way
But as you arnt exclusive why can’t he invite his friend and her partner
Especially if they are getting their own room
I get that you wanted a romantic get away and possibly an exclusive relationship
But doesn’t he get a say in it ?
As for him not paying for half of the trip and costs
Did you discuss that with him before you made all the plans
Or just expect he would pay half
If you don’t want to go now cancel the trip (yeah you will probably forfeit any deposits)
And have a mom and daughter time
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Don’t treat him like a husband while you’re on the back burner to him… take your family. You’re wanting more and he clearly isn’t. You’re putting in all this time and effort for someone who wouldn’t do the same. Time to call it quits
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Sounds like he needs Nikki to pay his share… lol
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The fact he thought to invite someone indicates he either does not want to be alone with you or he wants someone else there to make it more of a friend vibe.
If someone’s into you they would want to be exclusive with you. Stop wasting your time and money hun and take your daughter and grandson.
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I would piss him off and invite your family atleast you will enjoy your time. This trips turned into something that won’t be enjoyable for you so why waste it on him
Have a wonderful time with your daughter and grandson. You will never regret it.
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Making family memories > trying to get an emotional unavailable dude commit
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I would take my family instead. It was suppose to be for the two of you not for him to bring another girl and her bf along .
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Daughter and grandson
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Daughter and grandson.
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If he doesn’t want to be exclusive, there is a reason. You deserve better than that. You can get better than that. It may hurt to let him go, but please do. Take your family and move on from him. If he wants to take a girl on this trip… There may be more between them than you think. What does your gut say? You deserve true happiness and this man isn’t it. I’m sorry.
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Tell him bye bye:wave:t3:
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Take your family 
screw that dude. He’s wishy washy cause he knows he can be. Uh uh 
dump him. It’s The Audacity for me!!!
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Spend your money on your family. If he really wanted to spend to time with you he wouldn’t be bringing a tag along. Find someone who feels and wants the same as you he’s not the one, don’t waste your time and money.
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I would be going alone with my daughter and that Nop that would pissed me off too
Take your daughter and grandson.
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Kiss him good riddance 
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Invite your daughter and grandson…he don’t want to be alone with you.I hope you have amazing time with your little family 
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Sounds like he likes her? is having an affair?
Hell no I wouldn’t be goonf
Daughter and grandson ,he’s not interested in spending time with you alone
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Make more,memories with your daughter and grandson. Bye boy
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I would invite your daughter and grandson
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You are tearing down your self esteem to go anywhere with this man. Dump him now and meet someone that treasures time with you. You already know this is true lady.
Take your family or BFF not him.
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Daughter and grandson
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Problems solved…INVITE YOUR DAUGHTER n GRANDSON!!! Eat n Be Merry n Enjoy Yourselves!!!
BTW she sounds more like a girlfriend than just a friend who’s pretending to bring her boyfriend which is just her friend‼️ DON’T DO IT!!! HE’S trying to play u‼️ He will get u drunk so u can pass out sleep n they’ll b n another room together if u know what I mean‼️
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No end of discussion that is just rude
Tell him to piss off and invite your family. He hasn’t even paid his half of it? No ma’am that aint it.
I wouldn’t pay for him to be able to have a date with someone else that he sprung on me last minute and didn’t say anything about beforehand. Especially if he led you to believe he wanted to go with you rather than just manipulating you into finding a good place to go so he could do that
Take your daughter and grandson. I absolutely hate when I invite someone somewhere and they bring other people!!
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Fuck that him and Nikki can find a place together to go vacation together I’d be happy I get away from that whole fucked up sitch he’s trying to entangle you in
Daughter and grandson
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Oh no, he can stay where he’s at. Take YOUR loved ones.
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Daughter and Grandson
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Take your family. He doesn’t look at you that way and is playing you.
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Go with your family. Get rid of him. If he cared anything at all about you he wouldn’t ask if someone else could join. He would want the same as you.
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Sorry dude had some similar shit happen, he’s into her. Call it off and see if someone else wants to go with you
Wow sounds like her rather have her there
Cancel with him and bring someone else, let him walk all over you now and he will keep doing it. Usuing you most likely till someone else comes along or he’d commit to you. And shouldnt have hang with a girl who disrespects you and seems like he thing for. Someone else treat you better, and apreciate all you do…his loss
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Invite your daughter and grandson and eat that 
and 
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He sounds like a loser. Doesn’t care about you. You’re just there for him. Daughter and grandson should go.
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Invite your daughter and grandson!!!
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Dude they fkng and let that guy go. The audacity!
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Yep enjoy this place with your family and start looking for a man who cherishes you.
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Un invite him & take your family. Lose the guy. It sounds like y’all aren’t going anywhere anyway
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That’s honestly pretty shitty. Sounds like you are too good for the likes of him. I know it’s hard when you put in the effort and get no appreciation or effort in return. Take your family hun, they will appreciate it more and you won’t have to wonder where you stand the whole time.
Yes,take your daughter…
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I would tell him that you changed your mind and take your family.
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Take your family, dump this guy.
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If it were me I’d love to take my daughter and grandson . I feel like it was kind of rude on his end and I don’t want to feel uncomfortable doing something I planned and put effort in .
Girl there is no such thing as on and off for YEARS he just don’t want to be with you and that’s why he’s bringing another party of people to make it not awkward or you make any advances towards him. He just wants the cooch and your falling right into his plan. Good luck but LEAVE HIM ALONE
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Just leave him alone he doesn’t want a solid relationship with you. Is that what you want?
If someone can’t commit to you stop doing off the hinge shit for someone who doesn’t care. Find someone who does and share this shit with them. Find someone you want to enjoy the company of as much as they do for you.
I would take the family. I would be crushed but tell him you canceled the reservation lol
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Invite your daughter and grandson
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Last minute changes piss me tf off, cancel his shit and take the fam instead.
Girllll, hell no. Fuck him. Fuck that. Invite your daughter and grandson. Screw him. Y’all will have much more fun then worrying about him all weekend.
Fantastic Sheila ,love your answer
I’d take your daughter and grandson. Tell him he’s free to get a room with Nikki and her boyfriend but your busy now
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I would go with my family instead.
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Quit being his backup plan. Walk away.
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invite your daughter and grandson 
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He sounds like a waste of space. Don’t give him the benefit of a weekend away together when he won’t even commit. Trust me, I know how easy it is to fall into this trap as I’ve been there myself. If he hasn’t committed by now, will he ever?
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Ummmm cancel that shit ASAP
Tell him to piss off
Tell him to kick rocks and block him
You don’t need that stress in your life. Find someone who can commit to you 100%, not this wishy washy crap. Life’s too short for games.
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Take your family instead!
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Take ur family how is he going to take a romantic trip you planned and invite another girl 
byeeee stop allowing yourself to receive less then you deserve. (Unless you want a open relationship, then totally different story)
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I’m so glad every answer i read was to TAKE YOUR FAMILY!!!
All signs point toward him USING YOU!, don’t fall for this trap!!! Experience talking here!
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Take your daughter and grandkids❤️ his loss!!
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Take your daughter and grandson!!! For the win! It’ll be a trip you won’t forget. And I promise with him you’ll want to forget some day.
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I’d take family. Please keep us updated.
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Omg please take your family.
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Def take your family. my heart hurts for you.
. Do you precious queen 
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Dump this guy NOW! He’s a user.
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Kinda sounds like your the third wheel with benefits and the one who pays for everything, I’d be mad too. I’d tell him to go do something else and spend some time with your family!! Hope things go well.
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Take your family definitely xxx
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Family take your family !!!
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I’d, tell him " my family needs me, it will be a bit too crowded. I need you to leave to make room for MY family.
Invite the daughter and grandson. If I did that for my boyfriend it would be us alone no question.
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YES and uninvite him and his friend!
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This is a joke I hope. Go by yourself or bring a friend and try to figure out this "relationship ".
Unfortunately you are just a fleshly desire to him not a woman to marry and he is just trying to fill his wants and needs not being faithful and marry you as I’m sure sex is a thing, it’s sad 
hope the getaway is cancelled and either he changes or you find a man to marry.
Take ur kid and grandkids tell him he’s no longer invited
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Yes. He obviously doesn’t want a romantic relationship so he invited them. I’d take my family and have a great time then text him and tell him how much fun you are having. Lol
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Tell him to kiss off and take your family. He’s not worth the time and effort you put in. Don’t don’t even sweat it, dime a dozen. Have fun!
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I would take my family
Invite your daughter and grandson. Forget the dude you’re talking to and his “friend”. Tell him how you really feel.
Grand kids are the best decision you could ever make…not real religious but I am thankful for a wake up to fight another day… your kids will never forget the outing with their gma… ask the lord. Your heart will tell you…
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Tell him to kiss off and take daughter and grandson !!! I sure wouldn’t pay for someone to make me feel uncomfortable!! He has no respect for you nor does he want a romantic getaway with just you!! I think he is more into Nikki than you! Not trying to be mean but Nikki wouldn’t be apart of my getaway weekend!! Oh boy wouldn’t either, him and Nikki could shre the weekend but NOT zone my dime!! I don’t care how big the house is!!!
Invite your family, you deserve better.
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Take you’re kids instead