Girrlllllll leave his butt at home !
Don’t take him. Go with the people care for you. Let us know if you went with him/ didn’t!!!
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Eff no. She’s not invited and now neither is he. Stop being played girl.
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Take your daughter a d grandson. And stop talking to dude cuz he ain’t shit
Go by your heart and your gut. Not what fb says
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I would invite my daughter and grand baby and have a great time!
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That’s not your man…y’all aren’t in a relationship…go with your daughter and grandkid. They’ll be way more appreciative.
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That was such an incredible gesture you made and I’m sure your intentions were to bring the two of you even closer. He would have known that as well hence he wants to bring a buffer. You deserve much better than that / him. Invite someone else and tell him to bugger off for good.
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He’s hoping for a 3 sum in the woods 
so ya cancle he’s not trying to be serious with you so why are you wasting your time an money? Find man not a boy…
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F-no!!! He should not have invited anyone without asking you first!!! Since it won’t be romantic, why not invite others?!
Just tell him you were planning on just the 2 of you and Nikki makes you uncomfortable.
I tell him you hope that he and his friend should have a good time! His choice not yours so you don’t need to be there
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Take your daughter and grandson
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I would take my daughter and grandchild. I think it’s very rude what he has done.
Blood is thicker than water missy
You’ve been trying to make it work for years and haven’t because he chooses not too. You’re not the one. Been there and wasted 11 yrs of my life. Take family and find someone who actually wants you.
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Time to set some serious boundaries!!!
Tell him the plans are canceled, and invite someone else! Any one else!!!
No regrets 
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Why are you bothering with this loser? 
Bro block buddy and invite your kid and grandson!!! Bc deadass that’s weirdo shit
Throw him away… seems like he likes this “friend” a little too much.
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Your daughter and grandson. Take them. Please take them. He doesn’t deserve it. your family are ALWAYS your family, they deserve to go with you!!
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Invite your daughter and grandson. Period
I’d go without him. My instinct tells me Nikki is his side chick…
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WTF? Whoa! Wait… WTF?
Maybe I need to read it again.
I’m any of your going off,did you actually tell him you want the trip to be just you 2? And if it isn’t, you’ll pass on going?
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Uninvite him and Nikki and go enjoy the peace.
I’m not trying to be rude but why oh why is this even a question? Either move on or live a miserable lifestyle of not being a priority. Tell him to find an alternative place to go away with his friend. No explanation required!
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You need to listen to your own words. It isn’t exclusive, his choice not yours. So stop trying to get him to be exclusive. He’s not interested because it’s been years on and off and same result.
No amount of steak, crab legs ,and jacuzzi in the woods will change that.
He’s bringing a friend to take the pressure off you thinking it’s a private romantic getaway. When
It’s a chill and drink and hang out and get some sex on the side Weekend.
Take your family instead.
He asked if you minded. Be honest as say, yes I do mind. I did this for us to have time to ourselves.
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Invite your daughter and grandson you will actually enjoy your time with them more by the sounds of it. Your guy friend ant that interested if his inviting tag alongs
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Say you wanted a romantic getaway.
I would be disappointed too… sorry to hear that … expectations are just different & you guys might wanna talk about that real soon 
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I would rather spend time with my family & enjoy myself & so should you!
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Family should get this trip with you for sure.
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Show his friend more attention.
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Definitely take your daughter and grandbaby
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Please let us know what you say! 
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Invite your daughter and grandson! That was so rude of him to invite others without discussing it with you first. I would have been furious too!
Take your daughter and grandson
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Take your family. He isn’t worth it.
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Let him go with his friends. You go with your daughter and grand baby
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Invite your daughter and grandson! Dump him!
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Where you went wrong initially was you’ve wasted years on this guy that doesn’t want you on his side exclusively
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I would invite your daughter and grandson…and also probably drop the dude. He doesn’t want to be exclusive and he’s more interested in bringing a girl (with or without their boyfriend) sounds like he’s not for you.
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Leave his ass! He’s whak!
Tell him to kiss off spend time with ur kids
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Take your daughter and grandson. Romantic get aways dont need third or fourth wheels.
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Daughter and grandson
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Drop that man. Immediately. And take your family instead. Then, never speak to him again because all he’s doing is stringing you along and you’re allowing him to. There’s plenty of men out there for you to be able to find one who wants you, always, not just sometimes.
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Drop him and invite your daughter.
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Leave him tf alone. He doesn’t want you, you’re something to do to pass time. Take yourself a d family on vacation and leave him wondering at home with his friend.
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Your a fool if you take them
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take your kids have fun
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Hes not a boyfriend if he’s not wanting exclusive. He’s a fwb. Why waste time and money on him when he clearly sees this as a free trip not a chance for quality time with you.
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You sound like you deserve a lot better than the likes of him.
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I think it’s time to break things off with this guy. I’ll not basing it on this incident but you said he doesn’t want any thing serious from you. Move on and find someone who will make you their every thing
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Tell him to go stay with her because he isn’t going with you. He’s a freeloader. Kick him to the curb you are wasting your time
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Get you a friend and take her with you then he’ll have a girl and you’ll have a boy
Family …you deserve much more than this jerk has to offer! You got this…
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Tell him to kiss off! Doesn’t want to be alone with you!
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Nope. Why book a place to spend time with someone who stated they didn’t want to be exclusive, WITH YOU. Breakdown: He’s seeing otherS. Dump him. Have a Girl’s Trip
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Girl tell him to kick rocks!!!
Throw that whole boy in the trash can. Grab some girlfriends or your daughter and grandson and do something with them.
Invite your daughter and grand.
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He seems like he doesn’t want you, I’d look at our relationship and if it isn’t evolving, leave
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I would invite everyone you know.
Tell them its all free just show up. When u get there act like u gotta leave and get something real fast and leave his ass there all weekend
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You are doing all the work to create something that he doesn’t want. Know your worth, leave him behind and find someone who will put in as much effort as you were going to for this trip. The good ones are out there. Good luck xx
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Do not go with him. He’s not taking you seriously. You’re family is more important and they come first. I’d go with them and have fun. So sorry you have to deal with a jerk like him.
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Invite daughter and grandson
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Totally invite your daughter and grandson. And just don’t worry about that trouble.
Tell him he’s not going. You’re taking your daughter and grandson. If he doesn’t want a romantic weekend, neither do you.
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Give us an update on who you take! I hope it’s your daughter and grandson! 
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Take your daughter and grand. He sounds like a loser.
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That’s really inconsiderate of him and it seems like you’re just an option to him. Take your family.
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Invite daughter and grandson
Definitely daughter and grandson
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Be honest with him but in a nice way…and whatever happens you will be happier and feel better…
By being honest about how you feel …he can choose on his own whether he wants to go with you or not…
I would cancel it. What a joke! Didn’t even ask u of it would be alright first. 
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Don’t waste your time or money. I believe he is telling you he isn’t wanting an exclusive relationship with you. Take your daughter and grandson.
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You seem to be going out of your way to please a loser. Do you and only you.
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Daughter and grandson for sure! They love you unconditionally and will appreciate the time away
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One thing I know…listen to the voice inside…its probably already gave you the answer…in your gut you know…your disappointment and upset alone tells you …Im sorry because I know it hurts…do what’s BEST FOR YOU THIS TIME
Take your family and enjoy that time with them.
Its obvious that he is insensitive to your feelings. Why experience BS when you don’t have to.
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Kick rocks! Take your daughter and grandchild
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You said it yourself. It’s been years and you’re not exclusive. Red flag!!!
Lost me at “on and off for years”. There’s your answer.
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Not exclusive (his choice not mine)…why are you wasting your time with this clown?
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Tell him to kiss off
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Take your family elsewhere.
Yeah cancel. He’s fuckin her too
I’d go on the vacation with family and then come back and have a talk with him. Or talk to him before and tell him you’re going on vacation with the family and tell him to use the time and figure out what he wants because you’re looking for more?
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Take your family instead and tell that guy to kick rocks
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Take your daughter and grandson
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Tell him to get lost and invite your daughter and grandson.
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Make yourself happy and the hell with everybody else.
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U need to let him go on some place with his "friend Nikki " once u get there I bet everything that her man couldn’t show up or “dissed” her. You should have also put ur foot down once he asked. That right there is already showing that he has no interest in being alone with u. And once her man doesn’t show, u will be the 3rd wheel believe that. Cancel with THEM and take ur family. They will appreciate it more
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Don’t waste your money or time with this man. Take your daughter and grandson.
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Tell him how disappointed you are in him for inviting other people. How he’s ruined it for you. Give him the ultimatum of going together or you’ll take your family instead.
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take your daughter and grandson plain
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