So a couple of days ago, I sent in my story about me finding out my boyfriend cheating on me. It was a videocall of a girl showing her ass. After five days, he contacted me. Basically, he didn’t think he was wrong because I told him in a fight five weeks earlier that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with him anymore. But I said that out of anger, and that’s what I do allot, but I don’t mean that, and he knows it. Then he called crying, saying how sorry he was and he wanted to fix it. He said he talked to this girl for six weeks; she also lives in another country, so they never met. But I was already done with him; i didn’t want him back. We both have our own house, and I also make my own money. Yesterday I brought our daughter to him. Everything went good. I left, and he kept texting me that I should come upstairs so we can talk. I said no. Later I went home, but something told me to check his mail. I saw that he also had another unknown male. I hacked that one, and it was connected to a facebook account. I saw conversations between him and his aunt of 47 or something. These are not normal conversation. They had a very sick internet relation. This started while I was 5 or 6 months pregnant with our daughter. I honestly don’t know what to say. He and the aunt treated me if I would tell people. I told the rest of his family anyway, and we are all in school. I don’t trust him with our daughter alone because he treated me, and maybe he doesn’t want to give her back. I was already done with him, but this takes everything to another level. I’ve been living for six years with this guy, and I always thought that she was just a normal aunt. He never wanted to go there; she lives in another state. I always said we should go and see her, but he never wanted to. Now I know why. I’m sorry for the bad typing I’m not from the USA.
I don’t think I would trust your daughter along with him I mean if you don’t have an order where he has to see her then I would not let him take her. You never know if he’s going to bring her back. And you don’t wanna have any regrets about this. Also if he’s having relations with his aunt Miss is not the kind a guy you wanna trust around your daughter if he has no problem being with a family member if you know what I mean. I would not have anything to do with this guy I would not let your daughter go with him alone Unless he has a court order that’s my thought on the whole thing
wowww. there is alot going on here. i’m not sure of my stance yet, i’ll come back and read this again after i think about it for a few minutes
I wouldn’t trust him to be alone with your daughter. Supervised visits only.
Unfortunately, you can’t just keep him from her without a court order. I would get a lawyer ASAP and tell him everything you know. And, what your concerns are. Good luck!
I feel like y’all are both toxic and need to go seperate ways. Set up visitation through court and coparent as per court orders and be civil for the baby you share.
I can barely comprehend this gibberish… what exactly did he do to cause trust issues with him being alone with his kid?
I got lost after the Aunt part .
What do you mean he treated you? I’m so confused.
I think you need to report the relationship between him and his aunt. I’m not sure where to go about that at all though. Because if he never wanted to go and see his aunt maybe there was some form of abuse going on? I agree about him cheating I would leave him after that… but the aunt thing gets to me. Something isn’t right there. I think maybe you should take him to court. If you have proof of the messages between him and his aunt, you can request for him to be evaluated by a psychiatrist I believe and make sure hes okay. And until then limit visitation with the kid.
Get your child keep her away till you make a court date, tell the judge everything ( show the messages) and go from there. If he can be incest with his aunt online then who’s to say he wouldn’t try with his own daughter. This is sick and I hope he gets everything he deserves…
Wait… He had sexual talking with his aunt? Am I reading this right?
Drama 
whoever he likes or talks to is none of your business if y’all are not together… all that you said… I did not read a good reason for you to keep his daughter away from him
Well i don’t see why you wouldn’t trust him with your child just because he’s into other women. I’m missing something. I’m thinking because you said gee had am inappropriate relationship online with a supposed aunt that he won’t see in person. Are you sure that’s even really his aunt.? People use alias when cheating. I had someone tell me his ex gf was his sister n law when in fact it wasn’t it was an ex.regardless frm what you saod they never met and its online. I wouldn’t relate what grown people do with grown people to him doing anything wrong with your daughter that won’t hold up in any court.
As wild as this is unfortunately can’t keep a child from him because he has that relationship. It sounds like you’re both a little immature although he definitely trumps the issue part of it all lol 
You hack his email and think you have the right to act superior than him? You have some issues you need to work on. You told him you were done with him. Maybe he finally took you at your word? You can’t know what he thinks. You are done, so be done but quit doing illegal things that WILL be used against you in the upcoming custody case.
Do you know for sure that she’s actually related to him, and that he didn’t lie about who she was to you?
Wait…so he’s in a relationship with his aunt?! 
If he is trying to have sex with his aunt, and you found really disturbing conversations between them, I don’t blame you for wanting to keep your daughter away. Take him to court. He’s a sexual deviant looking for a thrill and I wouldn’t trust him with children.
A woman can come on here saying she found child porn on her man’s computer and women will still comment “Oh My GoD dOn’T kEeP a MaN’s ChiLd FrOm HiM!” So many of us had mothers that let us get molested, and our mothers were idiots like ya’ll.
I have no idea what this says.
I am so sorry for all that you are going through. 
The first thing I think you should do with a clear head is go back in time and start composing everything unusual or bad that has happened in your relationship. If there is anything weird with his behavior or attention with your daughters. Try to stay on point. Then research a good attorney make an appointment and take your list. See what your options are. Also separately talk with each daughter. Just general conversation, gently ask if there is anything that daddy does that she likes. Follow that with is there anything daddy does that makes feel uncomfortable or don’t like. Good luck, prayers for you and your girls. 
I feel like the page is just makin up stories at this point. Bcuz they get wilder and wilder
Sounds like incest and I call BS on him blaming you for him cheating on you. Just get as far away from him as possible. I’m glad you told everyone what you found. Good. Don’t keep it a secret. Definitely go to court to establish custody and if you want child support but hopefully you have proof of everything you found it can help you put restrictions on him if you have reason to believe he might harm your daughter.
As for all of those attacking and blaming her, just wow. God forbid you find yourselves in the same place one day, we’ll see how YOU react. Because I know that if the same had happened to me and I was blindsided by cheating I would want to know what more he had been doing behind my back too. And whether or not that’s his BLOOD aunt it’s his AUNT and they were afraid of anyone finding out for a reason BESIDES his cheating. I would be afraid for my child too. Just the stupidity, victim blaming and enabling going on in this post is despicable. She isn’t doing a damn thing wrong besides protecting herself and her child, get over your high and mighty asses. It’s because of people like all of you that people like him get away with that BS and even abuse. Which one of you will be there to help her if he cheats again or even worse molests her daughter? None. But I’m certain you’ll be the first to judge her for not having prevented it knowing everything she just found out. It’s misery loving company instead of supporting a woman in need.
This has nothing to do with the type of father he is or how he treats his daughter.
Him being a shitty boyfriend doesnt make him a shitty father and being sad and bitter about him cheating on you doesnt give you the right to withhold your child from him
That has nothing to do with with his child. You can’t stop him from being with his kid.
First off if he is a good FATHER an takes care of his daughter, never gave you any reason to think he would miss treated his daughter then at the end of the day that is ALL that matters. Regardless of his conversation with his aunt sexual or not regardless of another girl he has never met sending ass shot ALL OF THAT is irrelevant if he is a good father. And second you said your done been done whatever whatever but your hacking his email for what? Just because YALL can’t be together and are not together let him have whatever conversation he wants aunt or not.
If you worried about your child safety get a parenting order in place but none what you said makes me question it just because he don’t wanna or you don’t wanna be together does not mean or give you any right for him not too see his daughter it sounds petty and childish.and if you telling him you don’t wanna be with him. A fight or not then you have no right too compain about it cause wether you mad or not don’t say it then cause you kinda asking for it then
I really don’t think thats his aunty !
he’s having an affair and pretending it’s his aunty 
Ok let me try make sense of this BS first u told him that u did not want a relationship how many times u say that to him mad are not its sounds like he took u at ur word and tried to move on it do not matter 6 years six weeks if u tell a man that he going start to look else where so cheating in unlikely in this case sounds like u got problems with anger sec before u take his kid away from him u better be dem sure it right because it really sounds like u are mad that he left u with the sentence I told him I did not want be in a relationship but I was mad and he knew that Is enough to understand this is bull crap
Its more then likely not his Aunt I think hes just saying that.
Take your daughter and stay as far away as you can. He’s perverted!
You don’t trust him because you hacked his account and read things you didn’t like?
People this is my story it is not fake. My account is tho but i do not want to keep him from our daughter!!! I brought her there myself yesterday so she could see him. But he called and said that if i told his family about him and his aunt (and yes it’s really his aunt) people would come to my house and he could not stop them. I have full custody of our daughter. I only want supervison visits because i am afried that he wont give her back because i told his family about him and his aunt! And i told him i did not want to be in a relationship with him anymore but then later we talked and everything was fine he slept at my house almost everyday we were together everyday he told me everyday how much he loved me he hugged me everything. So we were actually back togheter.
Whether it’s incest and he willingly partakes or he was sexually molested by her at a young age and to him this is just “normal”… there is some sort of illness there and NO, I would definitely not feel comfortable with leaving my kid there.
If you don’t want him stop hacking into his shit 
you’re the one that sounds untrustworthy.
I wouldnt let her near him again. Print the convos for court.
What’s with the dumbass hashtags on everything now, this isn’t even divorce or seperation related, just a break up LMAO first off, stop hacking into shit that’s not yours, you will usually find something you don’t want to n since y’all are broken up, you have no right to n just look like a psycho at this point. Whatever he does n says to someone else is none of your business anymore. It also has NOTHING to do with him as a father, so don’t be stupid now. If you have full custody like you say, then you have nothing to worry about. Worry bout your own life now and leave him alone n let him be a father 🤦
This story was wild start to finish 
Honestly you sound immature and psychotic. You are using your child as leverage. You are upset that he cheated but from what you wrote about the way you treated him- I can’t blame the guy. Not even sure if you guys were together. This is weird. You need to grow up. You have a child now and it’s about what’s best for her.
Trust your gut. If you feel something is off about his character, don’t send her over there. 
You already left him don’t deal with him take his ass to court keep any threatening messages he is not mature I don’t think there is any more mature men out there I am going through a separation myself and he and I have a daughter and a week before we would get married I found out some cheating and lies join the club I feel for you
This doesn’t make sense
Keep your daughter away. He is sick if he is dating an aunt.
Ok. Do not “hack” people’s mail and messages. Even if he’s your kid’s father that is not your place. Take him to court and live your lives. Co parent for your child.
If you left him then let it be, why go out of your way to check and hack his shit if you say your over him. Quit keeping tabs on him and go through court instead of you
Don’t fully trust him with your daughter alone. But don’t take the child away just cause you found out about old shit.
There’s a whole lot wrong with this story, and we only have the information… just saying for a friend
Are you sure it’s even his real aunt?? Regardless, you need to stay away from him and go to court to get full custody of your child.
Please keep your daughter away …
This doesn’t make sense.
It might not be a real aunt, just a family friend that people call aunt or by marriage or something. Your behavior though is totally our of line and a little psycho. You guys shouldn’t be together if he is cheating and you are hacking and stalking. Go to court, set visitation… he is her father and cheating doesn’t make him a bad father. Move on with your life and try to find a healthier relationship.
sounds like that may not be his aunt! maybe you should take the info you have to court and see what they can do for you and your daughter instead of facebook. they can take better legal action
get your child back call the cops if need be and do supervised visitation till yall go to court… take copies of everything to court with you
Get your baby don’t let her go back
Sounds like he is threatening you with the people who are going to show up at your house… anybody like this is definitely psychotic and you should only allow your daughter visitation with him in a public place while you are there
Her side, his side and the truth, we’re missing two players in this game
What he did to you should not affect his time with his daughter. Yes you’re hurt but you would punishing her for his actions and not him. Until he hurts your daughter or shows any sign of being abusive towards her, then put differences aside and co-parent.
Ok. I feel like if you had typed that in your native language and we google translated it, we might still have a better idea of what’s going on than we do now.
Regardless of whether that woman is a sibling of one of his parents or even a first cousin, or if she’s just a family friend, she’s 47, not 7. He’s not a pedophile (and even if he were it doesn’t necessarily mean he would touch his biological daughter). If she were a minor, however, I would absolutely say file for custody immediately because obviously there are no guarantees. But sexting with a full grown woman who he may or may not be related to, doesn’t endanger your child. Just makes him a freak. 
And frankly, your hacking into his accounts and spying on him, looking for dirt, doesn’t make you any less of a freak. So the only person I feel bad for here is that little girl, who is almost guaranteed to grow up to be some kind of crazy asshole. So congrats on that.
Dudes been cheating with another girl AND having creepy, inappropriate convos with his aunt and y’all are giving her shit for checking his facebook? Like what?
Perspective people! What hes doing is wayyyyyyyyy more fucked up than what she did.
Id say his cheating dosent have anything to do with his daughter. You mention an aunt. But you dont say if its a blood aunt or is she married to his uncle.
If you dont feel safe with him alone with your child then DON’T LEAVE HIM ALONE WITH YOUR CHILD. Kinda a given. Lots of key info is missing
I’m really confused but if I’m understanding the issue is some inappropriate texts with an older aunt (who may not be an aunt given his history of cheating and lying) shouldn’t impact your daughter. Even if she is a blood relative and that’s very weird, she’s older. You have no valid reason to suspect your child is in danger. You need a custody agreement for sure but you shouldn’t keep him from his child just because he’s a cheater. I’d also rest assured that your daughter probably interferes with whatever life he’s trying to live so I wouldn’t think he’d keep her forever or whatever. I’d have a different opinion if we were speaking of a much younger girl that he was cheating with.
Well… difficult to really understand what is going on here. It sounds like he’s a cheater and your kinda stalker-y. But really, in the end no matter what kind of person you are and what kind of person he is, you still would benefit from going to court and getting visitation set in stone. It keeps you from having to worry about him just taking your child and not giving her back. As far as what to bring to court for your case? The court isn’t gonna care if he is a cheater or has a weird relationship with someone who may be his Aunt. What they will care about is if he takes good care of his daughter when she is with him. So you have to look at what impacts her time with him, and stick to that.
I’m sorry but blood related or not, or even a family friend, is gross. Like this woman is clearly way older than him and is a predator, and if he’s okay with that kind of relationship than he should be restricted with interactions with his daughter. Not saying he’d do something to her but obviously hes okay with really inappropriate relationships so who knows what he’d do. And this is kinda victim blamey but I’m just basing this off of a relationship taking place when he’s an adult.
I would leave & get full custody with supervised custody for him for awhile. Incest is disgusting even if it’s an “online relation”. Sexually talking to another family member can lead to so much more. I definitely wouldn’t trust him alone with my kid. Cheating is one thing. Cheating with another family member is another. But that’s just my opinion!
Has he ever hurt the child???
I’m sorry but to stop a father from seeing his child just because of some inappropriate messages or because he’s a cheat is a joke!
Sounds to me like your using your child as a weapon and it’s not fair!
And I’m sorry but it’s your own fault for snooping therefor the trust was already gone! And you quite clearly stated you said on a numerous of accordions you did not want to be in the relationship so who can blame him for looking else where!
I feel there is so much information missing here and yet again because a scorned woman has been cheated on all of a sudden the man is made to be a bad dad this that the other! Get over it cause the only person who will end up suffering her is the child
Weeewwww why do so many women in this group jump to he can’t see the child?! I mean you really wanna be 100% responsible of all those diapers and Late nights?!
You can always apply for full custody and see about supervised visits. I dont thinking cheating merits that he is a bad parent. If she had molested him when he was a child, but you dont know. That might not warrant that he would do something to your daughter. You could raise your concerns in court about his behavior.
Fuck this page is not about no damn holiday it’s a damn release your problems page now wtf happened
Why ais this stupid writer hastaging divorce if he was your boyfriend you were never legally tied to him lol . Besides this page is for my favorite holiday type a mile long letter about your favorite and why instead!
What does this have to do with
My Favorite Holiday
What has this got to do with. My favorite hoiladay
Why are all these ‘fan questions’ on this page lately? Totally irrelevant
Save the conversations so you have proof when he trys to keep the child and takes you to court
Who comes up with this shit ? This Page is a joke !
I really don’t think people should air their dirty laundry on facebook.
Sounds like my sister n my ex husband I was married to him for 26 years he lies n a cheater so I left they are together now have been but they say I’m the bad one lol karma will come around just waiting
Wow, sounds like my sisters ex husband to be honest and she doesn’t trust him with her kids either. He was cheating on her the whole relationship but at the end he started cheating with his first cousin and even had a baby with her.