I’m on the other side of this. I am 63 and would still like to have an intimate relationship but everything stopped 2 years ago when he hurt his shoulder and found lung cancer. But it wasn’t good before that due to his bloodpressure medicine and his lack of skill. I guess it is what it is but I miss the closeness. I do know taking the extra time to going her with you will help. Keep trying.
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Be romantic don’t just initiate sex make compliments throughout the week make her feel good about herself buy her some lingerie you think she would like make dinner one night for you two or go out for dinner somewhere nice plan a getaway Vaca or just do something you both really enjoy doing together and see where the night takes u
Feed her oysters and romance her, rub her feet snd Starr kissing her legs and up! Oysters arevan aphrodisiac and work so well when we are in a lull
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Im Phillip McConnell and Thank you all, the comments are greatly appreciated, and are taken seriously. I am also going to say, even though yes it would be nice to start having sex again with my Wife, even once in a while. I feel real true love isn’t having sex, it’s what’s in the heart. Sex is just one of the perks of having your Best Friend and Soul Mate to love and live with the rest of your life. Again Thank you Ladies. 
I’m sure at this point you have already learned everything about your wife and have mastered communication skills. I’m only 32 years old so I’m not sure if my advice is valid. I would try it all. Therapy. Maybe a sex specialist for couples. There’s a game called " loopy". Gets u in the mood. Good luck.
Hormones are such a bitch. I bet she’s not feeling like herself in many ways. Maybe she can see her doctor to even out her hormone levels.
If she doesn’t want it she doesn’t want it… It’s her body and there is no rule written that to be in a relationship it has to include being intimate
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Sir. 
You are very loving and kind.
Do the little things you did when you first started out as a couple. Sit her down and make dinner if she does it all. Breakfast in bed as a treat. Run baths and candles.
Dont expect things to happen be a bonus if they do.
Cuddle her with just the joy of being in each others company. Flowers/chocs for no reason but i love yous.
The closeness of just being together.
A trip together to docs. So she has your support. Full female health heckup and wellness mot. As they can give stuff to help. Natural foods.
If not little things she can do for you even if shes not comfotable down there. Im sure will help that side of things.
Good on you for this post and reconising her feelings toward this and wanting to gain more understanding.
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Make her fall in love with you “again” 
date her, court her, make her feel like the most desired woman in the world and just wait and see what happens!
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