does someone snore? Or hog sheets? Can you have your own bed in the room? Whoās house is it? Who made this a thing? I have so many questions before I can give advice on this one
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Aim higher. Get you a whole new relationship.
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Confusing, bed or no bed? No bed, time to go get a bed. Donāt even know what sleeping on a sheet of love word is. But, sounds magical.
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Youāve been with him 5 fān years! Either get in the bed, or get out. Thatās just so wrong. What the actual (beeppp) This isnāt 1950 anymore. 2022, couples sleep in beds together.
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Iām confused as to whatās actually being said but it sounds to me you are being emotionally abused and are in a toxic bond with someone if you have actually gone that long not sleeping in a bed. The physical problems for you would be taking a real toll by now 5 years? The emotional would be worse why are U having to sleep on the floor in the first place?
Something doesnāt feel right about this post so itās very hard to actually answer. But you have children.
Seek help from your nearest community service.
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Where are your children? Where are they sleeping? I worry for you . Please leave him and contact womenās aid refuge they will help you .
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Alright so what Iām getting from this is. You moved in with your partner and his child along with your own child. They have a room or rooms your partner doesnāt want to share his room and bed and has made that clear from the beginning so the problem is after a few years of sleeping on the sofa itās became worn out and uncomfortable. May I suggest you look into a sofa bed so during the day you have a functional room for lounging and entertaining yet at night it pulls out into a bed for you.
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Then get a bed?? Or a pull out couch?? Come on now.
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Leave. Him. Whatās up w this dude??
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Do . fucking . what .
How do yāall find these strange ass people that donāt need relationships Iām so lost . Who bitches about a bed. Sleeping in a bed . Of all things . Iām sorry but WHAT !?!?
So he wonāt share his bed with you but you moved in with him and have been together for five years? What part of any of that makes any sense, get out
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Leave his ass in 2021 with the rest of the chaos
There are truly some odd ball posts in this group ā¦ wtf? You sure he knows heās your boyfriend?
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Sounds more like a glorified roommate not a partner to you.
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If Iām reading this correctly thatās abuse. Get help and get out!
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Is there a medical reason he doesnāt want you in the same bed? Does he not want his child going back to the family-momma and saying yāall sleeping in the same bed? No you are not wrong at all
You deserve betterā¦this is insaneā¦
Iām sorryā¦but what are you thinking??
Is this a question? I donāt understandā¦ Why is a bed even a reason for an argument? Why donāt you just get one? Why do you need his permission to get one? Is there not enough room for a bed in your house? Do you not have a bedroom? Not enough information here to understand why is this even an issue
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Why are you with this dude??? You donāt have kids together, run. I canāt believe youāve stayed this long
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What in the actual heck!!! Youāve been with this āmanā for 5 whole years and he refuses to let you eep in the bed in the house yall share? Baby you need to read what youāre saying to other peopleā¦ That is abuse and I humane you just need to go ahead, pack yours and your kids things and just leave, if after 5 years still refuses to share a bed, and itās a whole war when you want to talk about itā¦ You either get in the bed and his behind sleep on the couch or you need to leave, if you think itās weird and crazy why go to a bunch of strangersā¦ itās crazy to you but even crazier to us, leave now! Thereās no reason in the world that you should live like that and be on the couch while heās sleeping like an angel on the bed, baby this is controlling and abusive donāt put yourself through another second of this
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Without being crudeā¦ how do the ādoā. Do you just do it then he kicks you out of bed after? Like this is a maaaajor red flag and in all honesty, I would have walked within a year!
Is this a troll? No way this is a real situation
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5 years and he wont let you get a fucking bed?! And you are with him why?! The shit yall will put up with amazes meā¦
Whatās the problem? Does he have mental issues? Pretty much sounds like a dictator. Major 
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You deserve better.
Why do you stay in a relationship that treats you this way ?
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How do people put up with crap. You are lucky you are not married to him. What do u ever expect to have with him. If u are smart u wonāt have any kids withhim!!
Whatš¤Ø this whole post is nutsā¦girl are you seriousā¦you with a man who cant even supply a bedā¦better yet why havent you supplied your own bedā¦im lostā¦do better frā¦cause wowš¤¦āāļø
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Man U need to stop begging for a bed and move on!!! He doesnāt control u and u donāt need him to exist in life. He is a scum if for 5 years u have been sleeping on the damn couch!!! But itās worse because u have allowed this behavior to go onā¦. If he doesnāt love u enough to allow u to sleep with him or even just have ur own bed freakin move on stop playin paddy cakes with this fool!!!
Pack your shit and go, this is insane. Donāt allow your kid to see you getting treated this way
Why would u stay with someone that u have been with for five years especially if your not sharing a bed especially if your couple why are you even there are u his maid or what . Leave you need to find someone who wants to be with you and some ok w who wants you.
What is a āsheet of loveā???
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I had to read this twice and I still feel like Iām not reading it right
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Iām really not sure whatās going on hereā¦ He has a bed he wonāt let you sleep in with himā¦ Or thereās no bedā¦ What the hell is happening!?
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what on earth? are you mad?
āYou asked for a bed??ā
Iām sorryā¦ what??
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I seriously feel like heās cheating on you and telling another chick or chicks that youāre just roommates and you sleep on the couch. Something is VERY WRONG with this!!! I wouldnāt put up with that and I would say ADIOS!!!
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Thatās so weird to me. Why is it an issue to want to sleep in a bed? Does he have commitment issues? Idk I personally wouldnāt waste anymore time with it.
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Wait what?! You donāt have a bed? Is he sleeping in a bed? Iām soooo confused on what is happening here. Do your kids have beds?
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Nope I would never be ok with this. I would have left as soon as I wasnāt allowed in his bed
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Grow up! Wtf kinda ? Is can I get a bed? Girl go by u a bed & dare his ass 2 sleep in it!
Major girl you need to leave
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Sooo confused right now??
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What the actual ā¦? Are you kidding? You know sleeping on the couch isnāt that far from the floor or the door mat!
You think the kids donāt see how wrong this is? How embarrassing for them that this is their household. You need to give him the ultimatum or just go. You canāt possibly love someone and treat them that way. Appalling!!!
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What in the actual f?!!!Where are you located?! Id bring you a damn bed! No one deserves to live like that especially for 5 years! Throw the whole man out and do whats best for your kid and you cause he obviously doesnt give a damn.
He could be having severe anxiety and is too afraid to tell you. Maybe he has night terrors or something he doesnt want you to see while hes asleep. Talk to him about THAT firstā¦ and if not thenā¦ ya something is seriously wrong.
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5 years, really!?! I wouldāve left right away.
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Question do yall have sex but i would of left along time ago bc i am good enough for sex but not too be in your bed BYE
Everyone deserves the right to sleep in a bed, if he doesnāt want you to share his bed Iām sorry but that isnāt a relationship
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Weāre all going to need a follow up to this one.
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Wth you have been with him for 5 years and donāt sleep together and sleep on different beds thatās weird
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When it got bed time Iād take my happy little
a$$ in the bedroom and get in the bed. If he didnāt like it then he can take his grouchy a$$ to the couch!!!
Youāre sleeping on a couch while he sleeps on a bed? Pathetic partner. Dump and run.
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Maybe he wets the bed?
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A sheet of c**??? What???
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What the hell are you still doing with him
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You need to be done with this one girl
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What the actual fuck?
Justā¦ get your own bed? 
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5 yrs?? Girl I would have left LONG time ago js
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What in the actual f? Who does this Iām sorry but aināt no way!
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Are u sure yāall are together? Like is he on the same page as u with yāall being together? If so Iād leave BC thats a form of abuse to deny u basic things like a bed.
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LEAVE!RUNNINGDONT LOOK BACK! Thatās denying you basic needs abuse! And in my opinion Definately not an ounce of Love!
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I would not tolerate this. He doesnāt even like you.
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Why are you still with him???
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There has to be more to this.
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Maybe he is dirt poor but Iām sure someone would give you a bed
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Iām sorry you have to go through this 
if you ever want to vent pm me. I will listen without judgments 
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Wtf is going on here? 
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Wtf. Get him the hell out n buy ur own bed.
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A bed is necessary and good for your health. Iād be healthy and comfortable. Not sure of your situation, but changes should be negotiated.
Wait what? No. Leave. Now. Please.
Umm Seriously?!? No way, all couples have issues but husband and wife sleep together. Even if we were on the floor we would be together.
What the hell is wrong with you donāt complain get off your a and leave
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For gods sake find a human being
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Seriously! I just would like to No why your still in this situation 5 years
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None of this makes sense
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Iām not understanding the reasoning. More info pls.
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U donāt sleep in same room even ?? Wtf ?
Get a fān bed. Then find a whole ass house to go around it and go live in it without a partner.
This whole post is confusing
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5 years and never???
Wth? Why donāt you have a bad?!
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?? Youāve been together 5 years and never slept even in the same room? Something aināt right here.
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If you canāt respect, do no expect anyone to respect you back
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Buy yourself a bed sweetheart and ditch the boy. Heās not a man.
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Apparently he doesnāt care. I have seen people in my past job experience love and not care for family members. I have also seen caring but no love. Itās sad really. He may love you but, he doesnāt care FOR you. You need to care enough for yourself and love yourself enough to see that you deserve both. Go get both. Theres no sense in staying with a person who refuses to wake up next to you every day. God has a man for you who will respect and love you. Itās not this one. Iām sorry. Get out before your child gets too attached.
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I donāt understand this post.
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Do you think if you clean your room heāll consider it?
Gurl he is not your parent.
Dump his ass.
Itās amazing how much dumb shit gets posted on here.
I wouldnāt ask for his approval nor would I even bring it up to him again! Just go out there and buy a bed and sleep in it. A bed is a necessity not something that is up for discussion(In my household anyways). Iām confused as to why your still unable to talk about this and solve the problem after 5 years!
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On a sheet of love word? ā¦ This post is hard to understand without any punctuations, itās just one big run-on.
So, why does he hate beds? Need more info
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Wait what?!!! Did I read this right?
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Why have you been together and never done it for 5 years
Regardless, get you a bed hun. If he canāt even give you that then I feel you should think about staying with him. Heās arguing with you over a damn bed? Ridiculous.
Did I have a stroke reading that or did you have a stroke writing it?
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āsleeping on a sheet of love wordā what does that mean?? Are you guys intimate at all? 5 years? Iām not sure I understand? Does he sleep in a bed but he doesnāt allow you to sleep in there with him? Or??
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Get off fb and do what you have to do. You want a bed then go buy one. SMH
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You gotta get out of thereā¦
Is he in a bed and doesnāt want to share???Is this some made up on the moment post??If you want a bed go get one. This is the 20s are you being held hostage???Why are you with such a baffoon
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