Get away from him fast.
People on here commenting are soooo quick to judge… but they never stop to take a look at themselves…
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Nope can’t say that I have 
Nope. There would NOT have been a first date after he admitted being a felon. Sorry, not sorry. 
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Why would he say he was in prison if he wasn’t, and all the names,just bizarre whats his gain? Honestly he sounds mentally unstable, schizophrenia maybe,stay away,far away
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Get rid of him yesterday!!! What if he’s a child rapist?!?!! The first warning sign was “FELON!”
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Just because your a felon don’t make you a bad person 
He is moving to fast and that is scary!! People get felony for pot ctfu I guess we should all run then huh
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Nope, But from experience Felons and Lies don’t mix. They can turn around and live an honest life, but if he’s lying it’s for a reason. Trust your instincts.
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U was about to be a victim frfr
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There’s nothing wrong with giving a felon a chance… I’m a felon. I had a hard past and work really hard to over come it. Alot of felons become good people once they learn and over come what they need to… however, this guy obviously has not learned that lesson and you don’t need to be pressured into anything you don’t want. So that and the constant lies would make me run
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Take his name and birthdate down to the court house and have them do a statewide background check. Most states cost around 20 bucks. Then you will get the truth. Call him on his bullshit. And tell him that lack of honesty and not respecting boundaries are why you are cutting him off. See if that gets him to either spill the truth or more lies.
My fiance is a 4 time felon. Only in the last few years did he take the steps to straighten up his life and really do better. I also work with felons and my mom does too. I have noticed there are certain behaviors they have (like pushing for so much so fast) because of their old mindsets and being used to lying. Confronting them will show you that they are 1 of 2 types. Either the take it, come clean, are willing to work on being better and slow down and be honest (which isn’t a lifestyle they are used to so they have to learn it); or they double down and tell more lies and want to keep running the con.
Yea break it off say your getting back with your ex or something.
This sounds like a whole ass movie . But honestly why the rush? What’s he wanna rush into a marriage for ? He could’ve been convicted of raping children. And or if he was married before maybe he killed his wife like it could honestly be anything . But I don’t see why he would be lying about all this especially his name if it wasn’t really serious sounds super sketchy
please take care of yourself. Document everything he has your heart strings but please be careful.
Run for the hills do not look back.
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Run. However when you do, be really careful because he sounds really dangerous.
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At this point you can’t even guarantee that he was in prison for drugs/gun he could have been in for much worse… felons can change, However there are way too many red flags here for you to continue this relationship. Please close this chapter and focus on your family.
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No. Don’t continue any relationship that consists of you being pressured at any point for any reason. Do better.
Well if he only served 3 years he has a PO.
If ya really want to know……
RUN far and fast!!! There’s something very very wrong with him!!
I’m so glad you didn’t end this with “what should I do”. 
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Run girl run, tell them cops about him on your way out
As a person who worked at a correctional facility I am telling you to run. They are CONvicts for a reason and that have/had nothing but 24/7 to perfect ways to CON people. Especially if your father was a sheriff, you should know to stay away!
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And you are still entertaining this Idiot because???
Ya that’s a big red flag. Not the felon stuff, but the wanting to rush to marriage and kids after 3 months. He has more healing to do.
I’d leave him he could of been in prison for ANYTHING, and wanting kids straight away is strange for a man
Why would you wanna figure it out? Just dip the f out!
Trust nobody’s story. I had a neighbor who wore an ankle bracelet. Said the cops made him wear so they could “try to track him back to his moon shine still” I googled his name (his legal name on his driver’s license… again don’t believe what you’re told) he was a registered sex offender with a violence against children offense. He was living with a woman and two kids. Damn straight I reported.
Trust noone.
He might be one of the few that broke out and for away 
that’s why there is no official date.
You already know the answer…… if you are wondering it’s always NO
Take a good picture of his face & go to the sheriff/police department in his town so they can help you identify him incase something happens. They should definitely be familiar with him if his record is that extensive.
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I haven’t experienced this with a man but a childhood friend moved away and came back and lied about everything and still does. Good for you for realising it
tell him on his bike
Good for you recognizing issues before you get in too deep. I wasn’t that smart.
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Break it off? What in the world made it go on? Find me rude maybe, but seriously is this a joke?
Once a liar, always a liar. 
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Yep, something similar… I ran far away!!
He’s prob pressuring you because he cant get a place on his own but that’s his problem not yours. Red flags are red flags 
don’t do it.
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I met my husband 2 weeks before graduating high school. He had all the same charges and a whole lengthy list of criminal records and was fresh out of prison when we met. He told me the day we met he wanted to have kids with me and marry me. I laughed at him. Here we are 6 years later with 3 kids and married. After prison he realized he didnt want that kinda life for hisself. He wanted to make his family and friends proud. He is the best dad ever but I went through a lot of hurt. He cheated a lot. Had an addiction problem. A manipulator. But hes grown up a lot now. But I can tell you this. Dont do it. This guy probably wants a better life for hisself and men think havin kids and being married will change them. It isnt always the case. I went through a lot of heartbreak and a whole lot of cheap with my husband. But if he didnt have me and his kids he wouldnt be alive.
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Ma’am if you don’t run
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Going to??? You should have RUN already!!!
Tell him you didn’t think this is going to work out. That your just not interested in him. If you have to get a restraining order
Never believe a man who wants to move u in or get married right away! Red flag and he’s hiding something
For some women it can rub off as awwww he really loves me- Not! He’s controlling and only abusers do this “ lock it in quick”
Stupidest is who ever falls for this crap!!
Good luck… he may be a stalker after u dump him!
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Wanting to move you in and get married so.soon is the way narcissism starts.
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You obviously need to RUN.
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Tons of red flags girl, why are you even seeing him still?!
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Run away!! Nothing you said about him was good!
Run the other way as fast as you can!!! Once a liar, always a liar
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This sounds like the beginning of a criminal minds episode 
girl you better be in a safe house writing this post out
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Wwooooowwwwww…I have no words
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Run fast you don’t need that in your life
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Ummm…how is this even a question? Trust your gut. Dump him. To me, it sounds like you are asking for attention in here.
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I just want to be friends with you so that we can figure out who he is! Girl, we could have a whole posse of people helping with this mystery. It could be fun!
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Yes I’ve been involved with a couple filthy liars. You’re lucky you figured it out so soon.
Does he know where you live?? Because if he does, I highly suggest buying a firearm
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Run fast. No 1st date
Run. Also after you break up be careful of him possibly stalking you…
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Move away and change your phone number. Seriously, are you actually considering moving in with this guy?
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Sounds a lot like my soon to be ex husband, my suggestion is run like hell. Whatever you do, don’t look back
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Going to break it off? That would’ve been done before I took the time to message this fb page. Lol.
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He’d be out the door faster than he can say why
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No, I would’ve left in the very beginning
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Girl run and fast get to gitting
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Thats sum freaky shit
Run. Block him on everything.
It could be that your father put him in jail and that’s why he’s lying. Hurting you could be a revenge plan to get back at your Dad.
Be careful he may also end up stalking you.
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You haven’t left yet? 
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Sounds to me like he wants to control
Girl RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK!
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The record is not an issue, but the current lies and fraud say run
Yes I married a con when I was 16 and 40 something years later still know nothing of truth. Mind you haven’t seen him in 35 plus years although I did have 2 kids with him. Better left alone
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Omg sweet child please run and do not look back!!
Run…… what are you doing?
Girl I would run for the damn Hills… girl lie and say you have an STD or something he will run from you…
Oh yeah we’ve all been through this before
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Girl Run and don’t look back protective of ur self and family
Girl… RUN! That’s no relationship at all. Not saying convicted felons can’t still be decent people and have good relationships… but lying is already a first bad sign. And it’s not a little lie either. I would advise you not too . And marriage!? Yeah no cus then he’s got half your shit if you don’t work out. Idk it all seems way to sketchy.
Had a housemate who I discovered was a compulsive liar. Not sure why, just habit maybe. Could be sweet, interesting, philosophical, funny, but drank my booze, stole things, was drunk or high much of the time. Told him to leave & changed the locks.
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Oooou let’s see what chall had to saaayyyy:hugs:
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He sounds like a catch lol
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Think of your kids. Don’t put them through that.
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He might seem like he’s legit now. But you know he isn’t. Run!
Do you think his red flags are a carnival? Why even question this?
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I would leave like now. Like can you go to another town away from him where he can’t even find you?
Nope because I had enough common sense run and say as fast as I can in front of you up with a low life like that it’s back in the day I love them and leave them and I found a real man and I’ve been with him for 40 years next month
You can find his real name since you know his moms .
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Your family comes first… that wouldn’t ever happen with him in the picture… run fast 
and don’t look back… A restrain order may be needed with all his alias names too… ??? I won’t put my kids into a situation that your gut keeps refusing… please Run 
No red flags everywhere. Yikes run!
You’d better get the kids and go you have seen all the red flags
Break up with him in public and don’t go anywhere alone with him or break up with him through phone. Also, you may want to get a restraining order if he already knows where you live!
Glad you’re following your gut!
It’s called a con man sweetie
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I wouldn’t be with some one who’s a felon let alone gone to jail for any reason.
Lifetime who? RUN GIRL RUN!!!
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At least you did your research. You know what you need to do. Do it. Always follow your gut instinct and know it only tries to protect you. I wish you luck
I dated a conman in my early 20s. 0/10. Do not recommend.
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No. Common since should of already kicked in
Go with your gut and in a relationship u must have trust
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This cannot be a serious post?
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There are so many red flags there, I don’t know how you could see anything else. Don’t do it, girl.