Ok so u told u he was pulled over for drugs and a gun thats when u should have left lmaoll
Give me a pic and all the names. I will find who he is for you. ,
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Jesus … just RUN in the opposite direction! The simple fact that he’s LIED and is PRESSURING you is of major concern… then add all of the other stuff…you def do t need that in your life!! Love, family and commitment should feel natural and you def haven’t described that! Best wishes to you
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Break it off asap. Be careful.
Girl run for the hills. Block him if you need to but RUN… If not for your own sake but your children’s!
I’d cut off contact now. If he’s already lied about that much who knows what else he’s lied about or what his intentions are
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Better late but not too late to run.
I wondering how you ever started dating such a fella…
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Uhhhhh I wouldn’t even question it, I would definitely move on!
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yes and get out before it’s too late
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Get a restraining order on your way out
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I’m going to be the one to say this the D**k CANNOT be that good!!! Move along.
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I’d be scared of him. Stay far away and get a restraining order and a gun
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my mom was pressured by my dad into an early marriage, years & years ago. he said to her “if you’re going to marry me in 2 years anyway, why not marry me now?” and made such a big deal about it, so she gave in. he abused & treated her like absolute shit ever since they got married. my mom regretted it after just two weeks of marriage with him, but tried to make it work, and they lasted 5 years together. my dad is still a terrible man to this day, and I’m 22 years old now. DON’T ever pursue a relationship with anybody who pressures you into making serious long-term decisions, especially if you just started dating! EVER. it’s how people get you locked in so it’s significantly more difficult to escape their captivity & abuse.
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Lieing his name has prior charges an multiple other names yea he doesn’t sound like a good person at all. More like a lifetime killer or something
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comprehension is lacking in these comments.
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I was in a similar situation but had been with the guy for 6 months and living with him when I found out he was charged , stayed with him cause I didn’t believe he did the charge but it ended bad, 3 years of my life I won’t get back and trauma I can’t get over…
After 3 months and you having children and all the lies I’d be worried he could be a sex offender. Also sounds like a career criminal to have a bunch of aliases and lie like that.
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Better late than never. Say bye, move on get a restraining order 4 u and ur kids, and continue 2 live life with someone else who isn’t a complete phsyco
Do you any of you read? She’s not asking for your advice on what to do. Already said she’s leaving. She wants to hear of other people’s experiences, if you have ever dealt with something similar…
u need to run n hide. watch out for the stalking
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get away from him fast
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Can’t legal marry someone without a real name just saying!!! And I’m happily married to my basket case… who fought felony charges was an addict and yes he is clean finished trade school has a good career bought our truck and home so you can’t say they don’t change. I Have seen it all before my own eyes
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Due to my job and being around certain people like this… I would highly suggest you go with your gut clearly he lied about everything so he isn’t he’s acting to be. Trust me that one your looking for is still out there.
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Who cares!!! Break it off right now and run girl. And don’t look back
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Do it yestetday! (Break off with him ).
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I don’t think that she is saying man don’t change but if they want to make a fresh start you usually have to make amends with your pass like saying the truth and apologize for what you did and whoever you hurt and be honest going forward! He wants to get married after 3 months and have kids! He probably has kids and has a past that’s why all the aliases and the kid I feel to tie you down thinking you will not leave him when you find his shady past!
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And you’re still wondering what to do? Woman run as fast as you can!!!
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Yup and run don’t look back
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So many red flags here that my head is spinning. 
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Get away… nothing is worth being with a man like that!
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Sounds as if he may be wanting to move you in with him and trap you. He may have some animosity against your father and wants to take it out on you. Get as far away from him as you can and seek protection not only for yourself but your kids, mother & brother. Go with your gut instinct and run.
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Just in case by a gun practice with it learn to use it and run where you going to run to exactly I don’t know but break it off
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Am I the only one not pursuing relationships? Some are so desperate for love they kill themselves for it , makes me sad for them, I want to hug them all & remind them you are loved & you can do this alone-we don’t need much to survive , and to thrive -look inside you will find love 
Girl cut it off and run away, you don’t need controller…just tell him that’s not a relationship you’re looking for
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Get out and be careful about how you do it. I wouldn’t lead him on your idea.
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Why did u continue to date him after the first date and he told u all of that ??? Just curious?
Get out while you can!!