He seems like a really sweet person, BUT…before I began dating this man, I told him that I care for my mother, my brother and my 3 children so I could only see him once a week. He admitted RIGHT BEFORE our first date that he did not have a driver’s license because he was a convicted felon, that he’d been caught with drugs and a firearm that he wasn’t licensed to carry. He said he was in prison for 3 years, and that he had been on his best behavior, had a legal job and his own house now. I’ve seen for myself that all of that is true BUT he has been pressuring me after only 3 months to move in with him, get married, have a child and I’m not interested in that AT ALL! On top of that, I’m the daughter of the sheriff in my old town (he’s passed away now) and I had a funny feeling in my gut so I started digging…he’s outright lied to my face about his name…he has so many aliases that I can’t keep up with them, so I can’t even find his actual arrest record because I can’t figure our which name is real. He said that he was released from prison February of 2021 yet there are photographs on his mother’s Facebook via snapchat that are timed and dated with them shopping and going out to eat when he was supposed to be in prison, so he’s lied about the date he was released. Obviously I’m going to break it off with him, but I’m just wondering if any of you have been through this with a man?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I'm being pressured to move in with a man with a shady past
You have kids. Walk away. Don’t put them in danger or yourself!
If you’re not interested, then discontinue contact.
You, your mom, and your children’s safety first. Honestly what you said made me concerned for your safety. If I was in your shoes, I would March my ass down to the sheriff’s office and use your resources from your family there. Tell them everything and just say you have a really bad feeling and ask for their help.
Wouldnt put no thought into this leave him!! Them babies are more important
Good thing you found out now. Break it off and be very assertive and very clear. No wishy washy. Because he’s running some sort of scam.
I mean you knew all this about him to begin with, and kept talking to him, so idk what you really want to hear. 
Why in the world are you wasting your time on this looser? Run, those kiddos are not safe with this man. He is a looser and will take you down too!
Not while I was involved with someone, but after he hit me and left me for dead a whole slew came out about him. twice convicted felon…living under an alias…his kids were born and bear 1 of his alias on their birth certificate…just RUN!!!
I think calm and clear communication to end it…. Then run
Too many red flags. Time to go
I’m confused, if you know you need to break it off why does it even matter if others have dealt with similar? I’m sure they have, there’s plenty of crazies out there but you can clearly see the red flags yourself so please just try to be safe as you leave. That would almost be obsession imo and that can get dangerous
Watch dear John on Netflix
She’s just wondering if anyone’s been through it sheeesh some people are so rude
I haven’t been through this, but I’m glad you realize you need to go. And don’t just break up-block him on all fronts
Why are you being forced I am confused.
Obviously you know this is a bad idea so don’t do it
Hope he doesn’t know your kids and where they are
He also lied to you about not having a driver’s license because he’s a convicted felon… Felons can get drivers licenses
Bad news from the very beginning. He sounds controlling, and his “niceness” is only a mask until he gets you alllll to himself. Don’t do that to yourself please. 
That is insane. You don’t even know his name? No, I’ve never been through that.
Uh, noooo. Run. File a protection order.
If he lied about his name, he’s hiding something. I’ve been pressured to move in and have a baby, right after I became pregnant was when the cheating and abuse started. He knew I was “stuck.”
I hope he doesn’t know where you and your family live. You need to break it off immediately. This is scary .
Ha!!! Girl!!! Run!!! As fast as u can!!!
Red flag. Red flag. Red flag. Hell nah. Boy bye!!
This sounds like an unsolved mystery. Please try to avoid this guy because he did lie. You need honesty in a relationship. Be safe.
The choice should be easy!
If he lied about his name, move on. It’s only gonna get worse.
Use discernment. Let that go!!!
I’ve been through similar so my advice…RUN…Don’t Walk Away…RUNNNN🏃♀️
Some people just can’t help but lie, it’s like a lifestyle for them. I would definitely break things off though
If you’re feeling pressured, that’s your instincts telling you to think twice
Wow! Just Wow! I am so glad you will not be his victim! Thank goodness for your Dad giving you all he did!!! Xx
Soooooo, you’re wondering if you should move your kids in with a man who won’t even tell you his name??
(Read this again, aloud. Now again, aloud and slowly)
I’m glad your leaving…don’t even mess with that.
Not after 3 months
Girl bye
Get away from that person as soon as possible
I didnt finish your post but leave now. I saw my friend get pressured by a man to move in together after about the same time and 2 months in i had to rescue her, there were multiple holes in the wall from punches. You dont want to be suck in a bad situation
Yup been there done that. It was horrible. I ended up moving over night out of state to get away bcuz he went psycho and was stalking me bcuz i broke it off. Be careful!
You’re asking Facebook instead of blocking him? 
Your gut instinct is telling you what you need to do you’re hesitant for a reason and a person who truly cared wouldnt pressure you to do ANYTHING
How would you even believe he’s only been out 7 months and has a good job and his own house? How would you believe he doesn’t have a license because of those charges? After talking to him for 30 minutes you should have already known he was full of 
.
Red flags all over the map! Run… don’t walk… RUN AWAY!
Run, and get protection for you and your family. Take out a protection order to keep him away from you and your family before anything happens. Just make sure you cover yourself so that the police know if anything happens to you or your family.
Think of your children keep them safe. Give him the high road use your head.do what is right.
Why would you even consider married or living with somebody that is a bold face liar, your children need their mother moving in with This Guy is not fair to your children I would tell him to kick rocks and don’t come back you would never be able to trust him no matter how much he claims he’s changed I would not trust him as far as I can it’s wrong good luck with that don’t set up the rest your life for misery what is the point
Nope but please don’t confront him. Just tell him it’s not working not, blocked him. Don’t meet up with him.
Prayers for you to leave this already red flags everywhere relationship . Be kind to yourself and your children . It will not get better could be very dangerous 
Why do people date felons. So funny
I wanna say wtf are you thinking, but love or what we think is love makes us do some crazy things. You know in your heart babe 
wishing you the absolute best
Run! Never look back!
Doesn’t matter if someone else has been through something similar,this is your life and my advice would be , if you have a brain cell run like hell,sounds like this relationship is not going to end well!
Iv been with plenty of men that turned out to be walking red flags but never would I have even considered that dude…
Hes pushing you to move in something isnt right. You got several red flags. Say your goodbyes and move on. He’s definitely scetchy.
I’m beginning to think some of these questions are legit made up for shock value!
Follow your heart and intuition
I have never put myself in a position like that with anybody, man or woman. Those red flags are not a carnival. What are you thinking??
Run and don’t look back
Just be very careful
God almighty, what is the point of actually asking for advice about this. Use your head and get rid 
If he hasn’t come clean or given you any sort of legitimate explanation, then yes run.
What would your sheriff parent say? Being a law enforcement professional?
Run and block him on everything . He seems super fishy
Get out now! Thankfully my relationship kinda of just fell apart, but I had one similar… he pretty much ghosted me thank heaven, and 2 weeks later got picked up for drugs, got out, and now has a warrant for probation revocation (he told me he served all his time and wasn’t on papers). Glad that’s over tho!
Uhhh if he knows a lot about you I’d also let everyone around you know just in case he goes crazy and maybe even ask the no emergency line advice to have it documented you tried to inform them if something does happen. If he’s not being honest and says he has a record who knows his true side and what he’s capable of doing to your or those around you…
Too many red flags. Get away.
Sounds like an episode for who the &!*$/ did I marry?
Girl block his number and leave you have babies and y’all don’t need to be hurt he seems crazy. Js
Uhm… are you stupid or something?
Sounds like one of my ex’s named “Jacob”
RUN
When I was 18 I was on this dating site and met this man dated him for about 6 months and he got arrested and called me from jail and told me that he got arrested for having weed and paraphernalia on him so I called his grandma and she was like o he’s in it for the long haul and I was like it’s only weed and she was like honey he’s not in there for drugs he violated his probation and she told me that he lied to me about his last name so I wouldn’t know his past but she wouldn’t tell me what he had been in trouble for but she told him his real last name so I called up to the police station in tears and they told me that he was a convicted sex offender! I’ve never felt so dumb or betrayed in my life from then on I started doing background checks and looking at ids of the men I dated. Gave me severe trust issues!!!
Run. Just break it off and leave him be. He’s clearly hiding something
Amanda Rognlie bruh read this shit 
I didn’t date
felons or people with sketchy criminal pasts after I found out my ex husband had a mile long criminal record and that he had lied to me about it before we started dating. I found out halfway through our 8 yr marriage that he had several warrants, a suspended license, and a drug problem. He slowly started slipping back into his criminal ways. Shortly after we divorced he went to prison for almost 10 yrs. Everything he told me about himself and his family had been a lie. He ghosted our 2 kids, just like he did his daughter from a previous relationship. I started paying for background checks on the men I dated after him. Fuck that shit.
Always trust your gut…If you have to ask…you know the answer…get away from him…he’s a taker…and will take and take…
You better run while you can.
Sounds like my ex:laughing:
. Yeah he’s not gonna change. It’d be best for you to get out now.
Girl run in the other direction!!! Like right now.
You stay as far away from him as you can
You might want to get a restraining order asap before breaking up. This could go really bad… it’s happened to me and he tried to kill me.
Nope. Run don’t do
It
Run from this now and don’t look back
RUN before it’s too late
Why are you asking Facebook and not just ghosting him? Sounds to me like you just want attention.
RUN! Stay as far away as you can! Before its too late!
Definitely cut him loose.
Leave. Run away from him. And block him on everything. Stay as far away as you can.
Join investigation pages on fb… these people live for this shit and can help you
How many red flags do you need?
Theres plenty of men kick him to the curb you’ll cry and you’ll get over it
No I’ve never put myself in a position like yours! When he said he’s a Convicted Felon is when you should have said bye bye! Girl you already know your answer, follow your gutt instincts and get away from this man. You can’t be that desperate for a man!!
Probably shouldn’t of started that relationship up in the first place. Especially since you had kids. Seemed like a bad idea from the start.
Umm yes I have. My advice to you is…RUN!!!
Girl… I know you said you are going to break it off. Honestly just get away ASAP. Be safe❤️
Run. Run fast and far
Run and don’t look back
NO NOT I!! DAMN, GOD gave US GOOD sense,well at least most of us!! I would never waste my time like this & dig for info!! NO! NO! NO!
So shady!!! Run girl!!
A liar is a liar! Will always be a liar!!