Get yourself somewhere for you and your daughter to go
Your the one who ended the relationship/marriageā¦
YOU should move!
But DO NOT LEAVE your daughter behindā¦ you can lose custody for abandonmentā¦
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Every state has different laws. Consult a lawyer where you live and then figure out your exit.
Are you really suggesting that you leaving for a few days is gonna help your daughter adjust to this mess of a life you guys have created for her? She shouldnāt have to adjust. You should.
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Get help now! Never just up and leave without your child.
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Please donāt leave your daughter behind. He will more than likely be in a horrible place when u leave you couldnāt leave your daughter in that situation.
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Sounds like you left for another relationship?
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You can just go. The kid will be much less traumatized in the long run instead of staying where itās toxic.
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Donāt leave without your daughter he can use it against you when you do go to court as abandonment. If/when he asks where youāre going or been calmly and simply state you donāt wish to discuss it with him that you the relationship is over. Find a place for you and your daughter to move to because youāre just dragging it out and causing yourself more drama by not finding your own place
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Never leave your daughter like that itās abandonment he can file that ya just left and he gets custody you need to apply for a protection order yes all the negative is toxic to her mental and emotional abuse is still abuse whether he touches you or not
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U need to file for divorce and let the courts send him packing. U should also say something to cps and say how he treatsu infant of your child if u work thatās good. You need to get away from him if u go away for a few days make sure u take your daughter with u ā¦
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Do not leave your daughter. He will have legal rights to her bc you have no custody agreement. He could accuse you of abandonment. File for separation and custody with the courts
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It could be considered abandonment if you just leave without your child, even for a few days.
If he wonāt leave, maybe you & kiddo should.
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Is he on the lease? mortgage? if so he has as much right to be there as you do. you probably need to go to court.
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Definitely donāt walk out that door without your kid! Thatās technically abandoning her even if you have good reason. He may say you are not allowed back in
He supposed to leave firstā¦ When a woman donāt want a manā¦ He can leaveā¦ another woman out there is gonna do all she can to have a relationship
Not at all. You will go crazy if you donāt. I know, believe me.
Why would the thought even enter into your head to leave your daughter? I left an abusive relationship and had two daughters with him. When I made plans to leave, I made the plans FOR US.