Is 23 to old to start over?

23 is barely the beginning of adulthood, so no it’s not too late

You are never too old to better your life. What happens if you don’t do it? You’ll still be 2 yrs older with no college & your life will not change. Do not wait for someone else to save you. 23 is like nothing in the spere of life…

Dump his ass and go do your schooling. Your never too old to start over!!

23 is still young, do it! It’s never too late to better yourself

It is never too old to start over and do better for you and your child

Our daughter is married with 3 kids and started Nursing School last year. She will be done in 2022, with a BSN. She will be 32 when she graduates.

No it is not. U dont need a cheating jerk.

Oh please my start over was 57 with 4 adult kids and a dead husband.

what? u are just starting at 23. lol i have known people to start over at 60.

Hahaha 23 old. Grow the f up everybody hits rocky spots bUt u made a child with this person and the kid depends on youboth for it’s best interest

Stay. 23 is very old. Ya bag.

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Hun your never ever to old to start over or go to college. In almost 40 and starting over right now.
You deserve better so now Go Get Em!!! You Got This!!!

No you do what you need and want drop his ass

Sweetie you are never to old to follow your dreams & better yourself. You certainly deserve better than an unfaithful husband. You can do this!

Go. For your daughter. You too.

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Age is a number. Do whats best for you and your child. God is good!!!

It’s never to late you go girl good luck x

It’s never too late to start over.

It’s never to late to start over!!

You are never to old go for it and don’t take him back

Hell no ur young .there’s peeps that start over way late in life.

I was 28 with children. Your smarter now than you were then. Your going to do :+1:

Do it! Never to old to go home and start fresh.

Go change your life…for you and your daughter.

Start over after 25 years of marriage, 4 kids and cheating. NEVER to late to start over

Do u gurl… move …and keep it moving… never to late for education, never too old…

You are super young!! Walk away!

No it’s never to late to be happy

Do it now while you have free child care

Never to old to improve yourself…

Nope your never to old to start over

What?! You’re just a baby, of course you can start over.

By all means, dump the jerk!! 23 is still young. Call mom and dad now!!!

Dump him and start all over again good luck

Your never to old to start over. Once a cheater always a cheater.

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You are still a child. Go back to school

Kick him to the curb!!! U can do this!!!

You’re still just a spring chicken. Become the person you want to be.
Run girl run. He’s showing you how he treats you.

My son was 34 with 4 children…he thought he was too old but I constantly encouraged him to keep pursuing his dream. He worked while going to college. He graduated with straight A’s. He is now a speech pathologist and doing very well. I can’t stress it enough…DO IT…NEVER TOO LATE!!

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You can start over at any age or time in your life.

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Go back to school, Lady! I went back and “started over” at 32. Worked hard to become a Registered Nurse with 2 babies and the support of my parents. Lots of sacrificing for all involved (including the kids)… BUT… WORTH EVERY BIT OF SACRIFICE!!! Don’t listen to the naysayers… THEY are every where. DO THIS NOW. Your brain is still young and like a sponge!! You and your babies have a much better life ahead!! Good luck to you, MAMA!!!

No way. Its never too late to find happiness. After 2 failed marriages I nearly gave up at 37. And then one day. U can’t accept this. U can do 100% better. I know you probably don’t feel like it but its true. If is not meant to be don’t force it. It will be hard but it will be better. Your happiness and the children will be better off alone than taking this shit. Good luck sweetheart. Xxx

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Please leave this loser as quickly as you can pack. He doesn’t deserve you and you can do much better. It’s never too late to start over or get a better education. Good luck!

When you’re my age you’ll realize how 23 is just beginning. Leave this loser. Take your child to your parents’ home. Go to school. Work hard. Get a job. Your sense of accomplishment, self-respect and dignity will see you through. Meet someone worthy of you. And never tolerate someone who isn’t willing to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

Leave this loser who feels his 30 seconds of pleasure are more important. Say nothing to him ask your parents if it’s okay for you and your baby to live with them. Pay a Bill or 2 for them Electricty and Water, give them money for groceries if they say yes. Pack your stuff little by little and walk away without a word.

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You’re going to look back at your 23yr old self and think wow, I was so young and dumb! Lol (in the nicest way possible) Really 23 is so young. You’ve only been legal to drink for how long and you’re worried about being old?! Girl you’re just starting! YOU’VE GOT THIS! You can do it! You and your baby deserve it :heart:. Don’t look back. You’re worthy and capable. You will be so happy you did something while you were young!
*there may be times threw out life you’ll want or need change again. It’ll never be too late so long as you’re willing.

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I went back to school at 35 yrs. I went to adult school. So happy you realized he is a loser. Good Luck girl>

Do what makes you happy! If you want to do this then do it! :two_hearts: he doesn’t deserve you but you deserve to be happy so doing what makes you happy and if leaving him is the key to all of it then it needs to be done.

You are not too old. You are in fact very young. Leave this loser, and go for it.

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Good idea to have the ambition to get in a college… but what I suggested is get yourself a job, save up some money for your school… the pass will never come back ! It’s all gone , you now learn from the present !! good luck :+1: :heartbeat:

you are never too old. Get rid of the cheater, he is just using you. He probably wants to move on too. You can do this. He will always cheat.

You are never too old to make a better life for you and your child. He is a loser. You need to leave him in the dust.

It’s never too late to turn around and start walking in the right direction! You are young! If your parents are willing to help you do this, go for it! However, I would sit down with them and seriously discuss expectations so that there are no surprises. Another option is to look and see what kind of resources there are for parents/single parents at your college. You would probably qualify for income bases housing and possibly other options. As far as the guy, he can still be a good parent if he has been so far…but you deserve much better!

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It is never too late to start over. Some folks begin their lives at 60…never ever too late!! Many blessings to you and your child!!

Please go to college, live with your parents. Dump this guy.
You are still very young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Better yourself for you and your daughter. If your parents are willing move back home and work on your education. You will be so much happier and life will be brighter in a couple of years. Don’t look back, look forward. Good luck and you can do it!

Your just a young kid there isn’t anything you can’t do! You have your whole life ahead of you!!! Get moving.

Move back in with your parents. It’s the best choice. Times are difficult for many. It will give you piece of mind for your childcare and the freedom to follow a new path. That’s what good families do. They help one another. Good luck in your next chapter! There are a whole bunch of strangers pulling for you!

Sweetie please leave go back home and regroup…leave him in the dust you are 23…still have time to get it together for you and your child.

Just learn from your mistakes. Own what your part is in this failed relationship. Otherwise you will just drag your child through one failed relationship after another. Also do you and your child a big favor and don’t have any more children until you are better at an adult relationship.

No, it’s not too late. Sit with your parents and work out a plan. Be open to their advice.

Create a plan and be willing to work like crazy to reach your goal. Surround yourself with cheerleaders to talk to when you get discouraged…and you will.

Keep your eye on the prize. Cut pictures out of magazines, paste them where you see them to help.

Think through how you’re going to work visitation, child support payments and, extremely important, get a good lawyer.

I started over at 28,35, 42 and 53. Embrace the changes. It’s been a wild ride!!! Never too old. Besides I have shoes older than you!! Good luck!!!

You are never to old to get an education.Go back to school and leave that loser you deserve better.

Nope just don’t keep going back or he will keep doing it again and again

Never to old,I was in my thirties when I went back to school to better myself

It’s never too late! Grab your big girl panties and make it work, you can do it. Don’t waste anymore of your precious time on him!

Will you be getting YOUNGER, if you don’t leave now? Never too late for a new chance for you and the child, Good luck.

Start over? Sorry but you haven’t even left the starting gate. Relax and just live a life that makes you and your daughter happy. If that means changing your marital status so be it.

No 23 is not too old your still young but most men these day just want one thing. make something of yourself take care of your kid don’t worry about men. You can do it.

No 23 is not to old. You’re young still. I had to move back in with my parents at that age while pregnant with my oldest child. You will have many chances in your life to start over. And each time you’ll be better off and stronger for it.

That’s up to your parents to let you back in.
Otherwise, no. Not too old

I’m starting over at 43!! For the 2nd time…you’ll be fine

I told my little girl men are a problem you need too be strong and make a path for yourself and stay on it.

So long as you have breath in your body it’s not to late! It’s only to late after ppl throw you in the fire or ground!

Its NEVER too late for a fresh start.

I’m in a trade, college was never my thing … now i have my own company and love what I do!

23 too late? Are you serious. I think you need to go find yourself if your asking that.

Never too old or young or anything.

If you wanna do it do it :blush::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::heart:

Defs leave that man!

You are never too old to better yourself…this guy is dragging you down when you could be GREAT…U GO GIRL!!!

Never too late to better yourself and family

You are never told.old to better yourself…go.for.it!

Never to late to leave a dead end situation. Look after yourself and your child!

Girl run :running_woman: while you can…Live your life you will find another Better man…I jope he is at least a good dad if not child support that ass and take care of you and baby girl first.

No it isn’t , you do what’s best for you

Go home . Start over.
This guy is a cheater and they do not reform.

Lol. The sweet naivety of youth.

Never to old, go to school and
Enjoy your child

You’re NEVER too old to start over. Do it. You’ll thank yourself later. <3

Move on he not worth it piece shit

Never too late to start over.

Never too Old, go for it.

If he’z a Cheating MOFO,the best thing to fo is get out and find SOMEONE that Loves only you,once a cheater,always a cheater.

NEVER allow any man to treat you like crap! Start over anytime.

Is this a real question.

Go for it…time for your life to evolve

You’re never to old to start over.

Never too old ,:clap::clap::clap::clap:go for it

Hello to my community! My family is really going though a struggle right now my wife Brooke is in the hospital I had taken her to urgent care Sunday and Tuesday she was rushed to the hospital. She has pneumonia and two legions in both of her lungs she was put on oxygen the smorning my family needs our communities prayers for her to get better and come home. We have five children and for dad to explain things to the children is hard for me . I am out of work trying to keep the kids and happy and support mother bear. Expenses are going to add as I am not working because I can’t right now dealing with this all I am asking for help donations prayers anything will help. Thank you to my community and please prayers . Brooke Wlotzko

Update ; Brooke has a drain tube for her right lung now and that is draining some of the infected fluids in her lung. Her lung has an abscess in it that is surround with pneumonia that is now causing it to puss. We are waiting on more results and we may be looking into another surgery this week. Thank you everyone for your support

Dump him and follow your plan!

Never too old to start over

Go for it you have plenty of time

Go for it. Stay safe, be happy