As for age gap. My my oldest is 20.
My second is 17
My youngest is…2.
I don’t think age matter they all love each other very much.
Sorry never and IUD
Don’t worry about the age gap, my 4 kids are 14, 9, 3 and 21 months. They all play. It doesn’t matter how close or how spaced out, they all fight, too.
There are six years between my children, and I don’t regret the space 