It’s about boyfriends looking at and commenting on other girls xxx videos and pics apps like ig 9GAG and chat groups. Is this something every man does or just some. And should it bother me if he isn’t acting on it?
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No I wouldn’t like my hubby checking and liking other girls accounts
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I understand watching porn. But commenting on things and being in chat rooms? Nah. It’s not.
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Nope. Not cool at all. I’d beat the shit outta my husband lol
No that’s not a normal thing. Men watching porn and men interacting with people are two different things
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Hellllll noooo that phone would be down his throat 
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Commenting is too far
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He wants you to break up with him
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I dont like when my man watches porn.
I definitely would flip if he would comment.
He is putting to much thought into it and that is plain disrespectful and disgusting
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Women that think not all men do that are lying to themselves. Your man likes other females bodies. You just dont find the deleted history
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Everyone looks i don’t care who you are.
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So my husband watches porn. I don’t care. Masturbating is natural. But those live chats are absolutely not ok with me at all and never will be. It’s cheating through the phone.
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Watching porn would be ok to me but commenting or interacting with real people would definitely not be ok.
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That’s not normal. Watching is one thing, but chat rooms is disrespectful.
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Ok unpopular opinion time: maybe ask him what he is getting out of the conversations that he’s not getting from you? But if he’s hiding it than yeah it’s not ok
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Porn is one thing… BUT going on girls personal page and liking and commenting or being in a chat with them is going way too far. I would consider that cheating, but that’s just me.
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My husband watches porn shrugs we work opposite shifts and sometimes he needs to help himself. But I would be pissed to find out he was having a conversation.
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No, it’s not. Some don’t even look at porn. And while, personally, I am alright with a man I’m in a relationship with looking at porn, speaking to other women is cheating as far as I’m concerned. And, unless he has some sort of fetish for seeing his lady with another man or something, I guarantee you that if you were doing the same with other men he would not be comfortable with it
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It’s pretty normal, seeing as how popular it is. Me and my husband both watch porn, and know what each other watch and so it’s a non issue, and we don’t do chatrooms, but if you see the views on those interactive videos, your kidding your self if you don’t think it’s a VERY popular thing for men and women to do
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Unpopular opinion…depends on the contexts of the “chats”. There could be something deeper…like he gets something from them than he doesnt you…just sit down like an adult and have a calm conversation about it
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If it bothers you, you should talk to him though, a good relationship is built partly on good open communication
Porn is one thing. Commenting on personal shit like that HELL NO.
No, every man is not a nasty pos
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I love porn, before we lived together we would send each other links. My guy doesn’t use insta, or comment on other girls pics. He’s a good man, I mean a total jack ass. But he’s faithful.
No my man doesn’t do that where is his respect? Id be hella Mad if he be doing shits he’s not suppose to do
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Is he chatting with the people in the pronography ie is viewing, or just talking to people who repost it?
Everyone looks. But to comment or seek out a response is innaprporiate
My man watches porn his twitter and insta are full of cosplay girls and porn stars but he doesn’t talk to other females he agrees that would be disrespectful looking is one thing when you talk to people you begin to build emotional connections its inevitable
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Watching porn is one thing… chatting with and interacting with it is a totally different thing. There may not have been any physical contact, but there is still contact and it’s not ok. I suggest talking to your bf and start setting boundaries as far as what commitment/loyalty means to each of you and what you expect from each other.
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This isn’t something other women can help you decide on hun. We all have different viewpoints and feelings so just the fact that you posted this shows you do feel some kind of way about him doing this. We watch porn, together and separately, but it doesn’t really bother me personally so it isn’t going to be the same for you. I like women as well and I appreciate a good looking woman so I don’t get upset with my husband for doing the same. But we have had issues around the porn and like fb and stuff in the past so I expressed how I felt, he was very receptive with the porn but less with the fb thing so we did fight about it for a while(our relationship was in a very different place at that time but once we did commit to each other again he said he understood where I was coming from and didn’t want to do anything that would hurt me or if he wouldn’t like me doing it then heshouldn’t be either.) You have to communicate WITH HIM and hopefully, if he’s a good guy at least, he’ll hear what you’re saying and why you feel the way you do and try to make changes. If he doesn’t do those things then that says a lot about him in my opinion. No relationship is perfect, never will be, and posting places like this just gets you a bunch of judgement and shit talking by ppl who will never admit their own true problems. Talk to your partner, maybe before that figure out how you actually feel and if it does bother you then what exactly is it that bothers you and why because communicating all that to him will help him understand where you’re coming from.
Watching porn is normal, but commenting on stuff or communicating/interacting with the people he is watching crosses a line for me. Grounds for ending the relationship
Looking is very different from following and interacting (commenting/liking/chatting). If you’re okay with it, that’s one thing. If not, talk to you partner about it. Personally, I find it disrespectful. Yes, we all look, it’s human nature. But taking it from just looking to interacting crosses some boundaries IMO.
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What are YOU ok with your partner doing?
Cuz here’s the thing…I have a rule…if you can’t do it in front of me, then you shouldn’t be doing it🤷
Porn, commenting on girls pics, talking them…my man can do in front of me and I generally don’t care lol it’s words. He’s not touching. But that’s MY level of comfort. Same as I can do the same thing and he wouldn’t care. As that’s HIS level on comfort.
So basically only YOU can answer what you’ll be ok with. Doesn’t matter how many men do or don’t do it…depends on your own relationship bounderies and honoring that.🤷
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At the end of the day, you two have to do what works for you guys. This is something that should be discussed at the beginning of any serious relationship. Both of your needs need to met. Compromise. If it bothers you, calmly talk to him. Tell him this means a lot to you and it is bothering you. You are the only one in control of your happiness dear. 
me personally, my husband and I do not watch porn… we both are plenty satisfied with our sex life and do not need to look at it. However I am not opposed to people doing it, it’s all about communication with your partner. Breakdown of communication will cause many problems. A calm, genuine approach would be better than a rude, demanding one. (Not saying this is what you have done or plan to do) good luck! And remember you are the only one in control of your happiness. Depending on someone else for it will end in major disappointment.
I don’t believe that everyone looks or everyone does it BS. It’s not true. They only look if they want to. They only comment if they want to. They only hit that like button if they want to. I know it’s an unpopular opinion and my own boyfriend would disagree but I think it’s disrespectful to watch porn or look at other people like that. Hell I don’t like that my man has his exes on social media let alone having pornstars or whatever talking to him. The live chats are a big no to me, might as well be cheating in real life.
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No. Not all men do it.
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Not normal. Porn is different.
No. Not all men look at porn. Some would even say it’s cheating because it takes the reality off of the relationship. It also puts intimate feelings else where.
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tell him to grow up…kind of stuff you did in high school if you were insecure
My husband doesn’t do that, but then again he is hardly on Facebook let alone pages like that
It’s okay to look to a certain extent, if it’s a common occurrence then he’s got issues. But it’s not okay to comment. That’s disrespectful to you plain and simple.
9gag is a meme web site lol
I would ask him what he would do if you were doing the same. If he would flip out about u doing it then he shouldnt. If someone has to hide anything then they shouldnt be doing it. I’m a pretty easy going wife after so much stuff my husband has done I still let him do whatever to an extent. But if hes hiding stuff from me then theres trouble.
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I bet most of you women would probably love to get into Jason Momoa’s pants. And commented on his insta. Stop being so immature, men watch porn. It’s not cheating, and it’s not wrong. Grow up
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That’s whack and would for sure bother me. Porn hub is one thing…trying to interact is another entirely. Even if it is behind a computer screen. Idgaf.
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You need a man that cares for you. Dump that guy and get a good man in your life
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You women need to grow up. And find a good man
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I’d find a new boyfriend. Not all men are like that. You should find someone who respects you and your relationship. Current bf obviously doesn’t!
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He’s looking for his next one. Bail while its calm
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My husband doesn’t look at stuff like that, never has. We have 4 daughters and 2 granddaughters and he doesn’t think women should portray themselves like that, it is demeaning, and I agree.
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The commenting I wouldnt be okay with but my partner can look. I mean we will never know if they look or not anyways. Lol if you have an issue with it say something, if you don’t then don’t. It’s your relationship.
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What is wrong with these people Sophia Poulos
Not every guy does it.
Yes, it’s normal
Thats disgusting! Tell him to grow up! And you cant really ask if it should bother you! Either it does or it dont lol. 
It is normal. I have no problems. I do it myself. There’s a huge difference in posting on these sites than private dm conversations with local average females. It’s an unattainable fantasy and it’s fun.
Different strokes for different folks.
If he was commenting on the videos, or things his specific “favorites” do… to YOU then he’s just hinting that he wants you to try/ do them… but I don’t see what the need is with talking in chat with other people about the film itself unless I was in the industry speaking to others in the industry about the scene
Definitely not cool idc what anybody says
First of all, don’t ask others to tell you how to feel. They’re just gonna tell you how they feel and that’ll just mix you all up.Does it bother you that he’s doing that? That’s a question you need to ask yourself. We can’t answer that for you. I mean, apparently he thinks it’s ok. So then you need to ask… is that something you can deal with in a relationship? Go from there.
Omg the jealousy you you carry! Who cares. Hes not emotionally attracted to these women, they cant touch them and they arent out cheating on you.
Every couple is different. If you’re cool with it and what he’s doing isn’t illegal, then I don’t see a problem. However if it does bother you he should have enough respect for you to stop the behavior.
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It is seriously an issue for me!
I dated a guy who constantly looked at half to full nude pics of girls all the time & would comment on them. Not only that but would go on & in about how beautiful or sexy some celebrity was or someone we saw walking down the street.
Made me feel bad & ruined my self esteem
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Not every guy does. When my husband and I started dating, I respectfully told him I won’t tolerate it. He hasn’t in 20 years. He does this out if respect for me.
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That’s a hard no for me…Put the shoe on the other foot. If it’s not something he would be okay with you doing, then it shouldn’t be okay for him…
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I would never put up with that again. If he doesn’t respect you and only want you then he doesn’t need to be with you. Porn has broken up so many families and it does lead to physical cheating
My boyfriend sometimes watches porn, it used to bother me but doesn’t anymore. If it bothers you then talk to him about it, if it doesn’t and hes not cheating then leave it be.
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Not all man do my ex husband never like watching porn or looking at naked ladies my current husband in the other hand yes but has control himself through out the years but it doesn’t bother me at all i just dont want our children to come across it
My husband doesn’t and it would bother me if he did
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My husband does it used to bother me a lot but it doesnt anymore. If he is not physically cheating what is the harm?
I wouldn’t put up with it. No every guy doesn’t do this.
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I don’t think its a big deal if he’s not acting on it.
Looking is one thing (constantly is not cool) but commenting… no!
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Just some men not all…only u can decide if it bothers u or not, if it does talk to him about it
If it’s plain old porn it’s one thing but if it’s a personal live streaming one on one porno or sexting, talking video calling etc that’s a big no no
Depends. Watching porn is normal, but if someone constantly watches porn it could be an addiction. Also its important to form healthy sexual habits, which can cause problems for some people because porn is not real life. All situations are diffrent.
Walk away from him now. Save yourself the grief and bs. Walk away.
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Maybe ask if he thinks his life with you is lacking? Why?
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I watch porn so I can’t get mad. It’s not a big deal. If you’re insecure about it, that’s on you and maybe you need help.
Is it common, yes. Is it normal? Not really. It can be evidence of a sex addiction and often portrays women as sex objects. Some is even aggressive to say the least or includes raping animals. It’s definitely not accepted in my relationship or home.
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It should bother you. It’s a game ender for me. And there is no reason for that many social media accounts if you are spending your life with someone. I call this “window shopping”. Dump the bitch and make the switch baby!