Is it normal that my husband goes out every weekend and doesnt come home until sunday night? from friday night to sunday night he isnt home…hanging out with his friends and i am not invited bc i am pregnant so i stay home…im just curious is this normal in a marriage?
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it normal for my husband to stay out all weekend?
This is not normal and is a red flag to me,has he got another woman somewhere and goes to her on the weekend
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Common…yes.
Healthy…no.
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No it’s not normal at all… Your pregnant…he should be taking care of you… Instant divorce.
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No girl. Not a single aspect of his side of this situation is normal.
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No that’s awful!! you’re better off without him. This is so not ok. 
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Um…. No?
I would not be a happy camper.
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No this is not normal in a marriage he wants to live a single life let him tell him hoy want a break or your leaving him, he has no respect for you or your marriage, being pregnant does not stop u being invited out with him and his friends etc
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Umm… totally not normal.
Only if you allow it I guess 
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No this isn’t normal.
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He’s fucking some one else
Totally normal 
It’s A Guy Thing
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He is not with friends he is somewhere else that’s why he doesn’t come back
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Some of these questions are dumb as hell…I swear…
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No not normal ! Don’t stay with him .
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Yikes . Sounds like he’s got cake on the side . Super duper shady .
I’m so sorry he’s doing this . Girl , prepare to be alone . Start shutting your feelings down for him . Do what you need to make sure that when it happens you have the means to leave . It’s not matter of IF , it’s when . Only you can determine how much 
you can take .
By a small tracker or an AirTag and throw it in his car . See where he is for yourself . But I will warn you be prepared for what you will find . Like I said above , get yourself ready first , get some finances , furniture ect .
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Is it chuff, id be furious
No! My husband did that and he was cheating. Leave Friday after work and wouldn’t see him till Sunday night or after work Monday… it’s not right!
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Absolutely NOT normal. He’s playing you some way somehow. The fact you allow this without question to him baffles me. Being gullible & naive as to whatever BS he spews out will only bring problems. I would have never allowed that behavior before & now from my husband given also! We have 3 boys. Not once did he ever take off such a way.
If he’s doing all of this now, it’s bound to get worse & you’ll definitely lose control. Reel it in & if he doesn’t comply or gets defensive, something’s up. Trust your instinct!
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No. It sounds like he’s not ready to be a partner nor father. I wouldn’t be sure he’s at his friends. I think you should decide if you want an absentee partner for the rest of your life. Do you want your child to grow up thinking this is how I should treat a partner or that this is how they should be treated themselves.
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If he was doing this before you got married and you accepted it, what’s the problem now? If I were him I wouldn’t stop honestly you got exactly what you signed up for
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No… Not acceptable.
Think you’ve already realised that.
Get rid of him.
You & baby will be better off without him.
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To much freedom for a married man!! If he’s not working nights then he should be home with you. Why must he be spending the nights away???
Sorry but no. It should not matter that you are pregnant, you should be included. Definitely question him.
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Hell no. He ain’t just hanging with friends hun.
Definitely not normal. For my husband if he chooses to go hang with a buddy he is gone for a few hours at most and then makes sure he’s home to spend some time with me and our kids as well. He certainly isn’t gone all weekend long and not every single weekend either. Some guys do guy trips or just spend a weekend gone every once in a while and that is normal especially for camping or hunting etc but for him to be gone that much from you I’d say bring it to his attention you want him home more and discuss what the heck he is doing or why he feels the need to be gone so much and if you get no results then at the point he gave you his answer on where he stands.
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no it is most certainly not, alarm bells are going off in my head
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Hell fken no it’s not normal.
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Absolutely not. So what you’re pregnant, why does that mean you’re not invited??
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IMO, it is NOT normal.
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Trade him in you and baby deserve much better, is he with his mates? Sounds dodgy to me …
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Definitely not normal but it goes deeper to a trust thing… 
If you have great communication, he texts you and responds to you then chances are he just needs a temporary outlet but that’s not a healthy outlet either… He needs to have respect for you and he’s obviously falling short by doing this…
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And you let this happen? He’d be coming home to an empty house if it were me… NOT normal…
sounds like he has a different family out there
Are you normal? 
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My ex did this. He was cheating left, right and sideways. I’m so sorry.
Yeah that’s a massive red flag.
Huuuuge red flag, more to the point why are you putting up with it? He’d of been gone a while ago
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I stopped reading after the intro paragraph…. 
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No not at all normal.
Definitely a red flag. A good man would want to be home with his pregnant partner every night
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Either drugs or another woman. Tell him you are happier at the weekends when he is not there. Thank him for opening your eyes and hope he has a good time with whoever he is with at the weekends because that is where he lives now.
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No it isn’t, giant red flags.
This is something a small child would ask….girl you better find yo big girl drawls and knock off this playing dumb nonsense.
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You can also stay out all weekend see how he likes it Cause he thinks it’s normal . Book yourself a hotel room and relax
Just because a man goes out on weekends does not mean his a cheater
Nope… I would have been single after the second time he did it…
Are you out of your mind ?
It’s absolutely NOT normal or ACCEPTABLE
Absolutely no, change the locks on your doors next weekend and tell him to straighten up if he wants to have a family. He’s not a teen any longer and needs to grow up!
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Throw the whole man out !!! Shaking my head that you even asking such a question 
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What I’ve realized is if you as a woman have to ask a question, you already know the answer. Trust your gut. You’re feeling this way for a reason. He may honestly just be with friends (unlikely), but still. If he’s still JUST with friends it is not normal to have a partner, especially pregnant at home and they are out having fun.
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My dad would do that when I was growing up. Then I found out he did that to be with his other family. 
M-Th us Fr-Sun his other family
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Um nope, u should be allowed to go to pregnant or not.
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I’m sad that people are laughing at this. She obviously is wanting advice.
I personally don’t think it is normal. I wouldn’t like it.
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If you’re asking a bunch of strangers… you already know the answer and looking for validation.
Well you’re accurate; NO!
A husband nor a wife should stay away from home for any period of time without a valid reason.
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Is this a joke lol ummmmm no this isn’t normal at all. We wouldn’t be married anymore
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He’s on the gear, hun …
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Hell no. My ex did this because I wouldn’t allow drinking in my home, it ended just to many times with me having to pick him up from the hospital. I honestly would have preferred he cheated
Comparison is the enemy of happiness.
It doesn’t matter what’s ‘normal’, if it bothers you, it’s not right. Stand your ground. Defend yourself. You deserve to be heard.
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It is not normal at all. There is something fishy about this. I pray for your sake, he actually IS with friends. But always trust your gut.
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He is more than likely with another woman
Sadly, no this is not normal. I would start by seeing a therapist with or with him. Once the baby is here it’s a whole new ballgame. 
Not normal. Time to be done.
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If he was a teenager, with no partner at home and child on the way , then yes it would be normal. Your pregnant, not in a coma
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Yea my hubby goes out every weekend some times not I don’t mind at all it gives him time to himself and me aslwell it’s all about balance 
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Why do you put up with this,
This is definitely not normal.
Why are you putting up with this.
If he doesn’t want to be with you leave him
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He’s telling another woman he works out of town on weekdays and he’s with her on the weekends hun.
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Nope. He should want to be with you.
This is not normal, he is having an affair. Change all the locks next weekend.
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Hell no he’s staying with someone else on the weekends.
This is super bizarre! he’s not your teenage son, he’s your husband! why the f is he gapping for the weekends… lol living two lives alright… whether he’s having an affair or not, somethings not right. Doesn’t want to settle down
Seems to be normal in your marriage
Wow!! Of course its not normal geez!! Find out what he’s doing all weekend! Spy on him! If he’s cheating kick the shit outta him and leave
Not normal… He’s up to no good…
BECAUSE YOU ARE PREGNANT SO YOU ARENT ALLOWED TO GO WITH HIM
HOW LONG HAS HE BEEN DOING THIS
and once the baby arrives he will still continue to do this
Thus is far from normal and he isnt ready to be a husband or father
pack your stuff and stay with family because this will nrver change
Who the fuck stays the entire weekend away from his wife
Put an apple air tag in his bag the next time he gets ready to leave so you actually know where he is realky going
And maybe start looking in his phone to see who he is talking to you can even downliad a spyware so you can see his messages
Maybe he has someone on the side he is seeing
Check his wallet for condom
And check his vehicle for hidden condoms too
You can also buy nanny cams and set them in his vehicle so you can hear what us going on
Check everything out next time he leaves
I think he is staying with another female for tge weekends and she doesnt know about you
And once you know what he is actualky doing which i think he is up to no good then leave
No it’s not normal. Start packing
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You think it’s normal??
Of course not
No. It’s sickening that her put you through this stress pregnant.
Hell no !!! That’s far from normal ! Please don’t allow this x
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God bless you you’re very innocent
I say it’s not normal, but for some relationships it is - you need to talk too him
Why would it be normal??
Pack his bags and tell him to take them with him for his next weekend away. Make sure he knows it is a no return trip!!!
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Ummm no dont marry this child god your preg to him he needs to grow up
More than on a special occasion? absolutely not.
No it’s not normal at all…
He wouldn’t stay married to me I can tell you that much
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No way in hell is that even remotely normal let alone when you are pregnant. That douchemonkey should be by your side. Time to grow up and be responsible.
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Not sure what you see as normal BUT in a traditional marriage…nope,no that’s not normal
No, it’s not normal, why would you allow it? Have him pack his stuff and take it when he leaves.
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Absolutely not. I’ve been with my husband 19 years and other than hospital stays we’ve never slept apart. Not once.
As a man I gotta say NO. if my lady was doing this she wouldn’t be my lady so how could I expect to be her man?
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Not normal at all…wtf
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Uh no lol I’m not even married and my.biyfriend doesn’t do that
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He stays out all weekend and you’re pregnant? Sorry sweetie but that’s not normal. No way I’d put up with that.
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Not normal. I would ask what’s going on. If you don’t get a good answer, pack up and disappear one of those weekends, for good. You don’t need what he might bring home.
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No it is not normal. He’s doing things he shouldn’t b. If it was me I would tell him it stops or I’m gone.
Unless he’s working but why would he not tell you 