Is it weird to get my sons dad a gift for Father's Day if our baby isn't born yet?

Is it odd to get my sons dad something for Father’s Day even though he’s not born yet? I didn’t run into this with my girls as they were already born.

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I don’t think it’s weird. If he’s been involved in the pregnancy and supporting you, I would. My husband’s first fathers day gift was going home from the hospital with our son. :blush:

I don’t think so! I got my fiancé this last year!

No it’s not weird, if you’re pregnant. Go ahead and get him something!

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Do whatever you want. I’m sure he would love it. Nobody else’s business.

Do it! I even got mine something for Father’s day the year we were trying to get pregnant. They have cards that say " To the man I will make a father someday "

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So long as this is not the way you are telling him you are having a baby. I think it’s a nice gesture.

It’s not weird and I’m a little puzzled as to why you think it might.

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I don’t see the issue. I got a card for Mother’s Day when I was pregnant with my first baby. :person_shrugging: Go for it!

I’m superstitious so wouldn’t because I’d feel it was tempting fate. My Dad didn’t want me to have a pram or cot in my house before mine was born…

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Not weird at all!! I got my fiance this mug when I was pregnant and he loved it! :slight_smile:

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Has he been involved when it comes to the pregnancy? Is he preparing for his son? If yes then he should be celebrated as a father, even if baby isn’t here yet. Hes still doing father work even if he hasn’t met his child yet.

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Up to you I am just cooking my fiance a meal that day.

I do not think that is weird , what I found a little weird is that you call him “ my sons dad “ are you separate?
Because if you are , I Will not get him anything unless he is involve in the pregnancy

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Did he get you something from your son for mother’s day?

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Are you going to by a car for your girls before they can drive?? Get real. Yes it’s weird won’t mean a thing.