Not appropriate, as a child I remember it being traumatizing
She said she had a towel on, meaning everything was covered and besides the point I doubt her children are thinking of her in a sexual manner nor is she trying to be sexual in any way. If that is the norm in their household it wouldnât be considered weird. People take something innocent and immediately make it into something dirty or inappropriate while accepting the garbage kids learn in school and watch on tv
If you have a towel on, youâre fine. If they tell you they are uncomfortable, listen. But we do that around here
Only you as the parent can make that decision. Itâs your house, your rules and your kids.
In a towel, whatâs the problem? Naked, thatâs a problem.
They may be ok with it until they hit a certain age. Once they start being uncomfortable with it then I say be respectful and cover yourself up. Your post is very confusing, first you say "Is it wrong that I am sometimes naked around my teen sons? Then you say you have a towel around you. Big difference.
Towel=fine. Naked=depends on family, but iffy.
No naked in my house unless you are in shower or with your partner or husband.
U asked if itâs ok that your naked around your teen sons then at the end said itâs not like Iâm naked
Nothing wrong with it. They donât even see you.naked and that will teach them.to respect women. Also they see nudity as normal.
Mine all still walk into the bathroom while im trying to shower they let you know what theyâre not comfortable with
I think the Admin needs to reword their description Of this question.
Your not naked, your in a towel, I donât think thereâs anything wrong with walking around in a towel. We donât have to sexualize everything.
Ffs. Itâs a body in a towel after a shower. People need to get a grip.
You make think they are fine with it I had a boyfriend that used to say his mother was disgusting and didnât care about nudity they may prefer your clothes on mama
Sounds like your home is a safe and open place if everyone is that comfortable!
Having a towel wrapped around you is not the same as walking around naked.
Thatâs not right, not judging, but itâs not right.
Completely inappropriate!!! Have you no dignity!?!
If one person is uncomfortable then itâs not ok, that can go for any situation, co sleeping, bathing, changing
You fkd up and thatâs fkd up
Wrapped in a towel you are showing no more skin than if you were wearing a bikini actually would be showing less lol
Inderdaad wat is het probleem dat je met een handoek rondloopt
Do you As long as it doesnât make the boys uncomfortable ask them how they feel not Facebook your business
Maybe you should not put the fact that you are naked around your teenage sonâs as the first thing in your statement considering youâre indeed not naked you are covered up with the towel or a robe of some form. Starting your message bye does anyone have a problem with the fact that Iâm naked around my teenage sonâs people are going to comment in a negative way. Itâs a little misleading personally in my opinion I have a 14-year-old son heâs never seen me in a robe or towel heâs always seen me with clothes. Then again Iâm lucky enough to have a master bathroom in my master bedroom so Iâm not actually changing rooms after my shower and my children know better than to ever come into my room without my permission I donât even think my kids knock on it they wait for me to come out
Itâs only weird if itâs made weird!! I have a 12.5yo and 5yo and they are Nudists themselves and they see me naked NO towel oh well if they dont like it they shouldnât bust into the bathroom or my room!! Bahaha
It is not appropriate get dressed
If you really listen to yourself do you think itâs right?
Theyâre not young anymore. Put on a robe at least.
I arenât no mama but it is wrong
In a towel no big deal. I have noticed my son looks uncomfortable like me peeing with the door open so i donât do that anymore
Ur in ur room. It ainât like ur sprawled out on the couch
âThey are 17 and 18 now. They have always seen me naked. Like when I get out of the shower, I wrap in my towel and go sit on my bed and get ready for work.â so are you pretty well covered up-not showing your boobs or your vajay area or are these areas covered up? Because your post is very misleading by your wording. No kid-especially a teenage boy ever wants to see his mother naked unless there is something weird going on.
If you were naked in front of them, YES inappropriate!! Wrapped in a towel is completely differentâŚ
Itâs not like you were naked you were wrapped in a towel
The towel is acceptable. Fully naked not so much. We have a small house and only one bathroom. There is no exhaust fan and I canât stand to get dressed in there after a shower, the humidity is killer. So I wrap a towel and head for my room. If I know my teenage kiddos are in the house our key words are 'Censor yourself ', meaning look away or close your eyes. Lol. Now the five year old has no idea of personal space and barges in the bathroom or bedroom all. The. Time. He is still in the oblivious age.
Youâre asking for a reasonâŚPut some damn clothes on woman. Youâre just wanting likes and attention is all.
So are you naked naked sometimes or wrapped in a towel every time? Im confusedâŚ
My kids have seen me in a towel a few times but not for long periods. They have definitely never seen me naked because I have modesty and think itâs not appropriate for children to see others naked.
Itâs fine, unless your boys ask you to stop, I see no problems. Iâm not sure why itâs even an issue??? Why are people always trying to sexualize things? Itâs one thing if youâre streaking through the house screaming âlook at meâŚlook at meâ but if everyone is minding their business and you and your boys are fine with itâŚwho cares???
Not judging one way or the other, but if it was your husband, boyfriend around teenage daughters, would you still be comfortable with it?
Whatâs wrong with you lady? Itâs never appropriate to run
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Very inappropriate of fully naked, I have daughters and will not do this when they are that age either
Itâs your own kids⌠unless THEY tell you they are uncomfortable, then what do you care what others think!?
I think should not be embarrassed of the human body but teenagers would be .
Do what you want in own home , if all comfortable.
You had a towel on and in your bedroomâŚno big dealâŚim sure you have seen your boys do the sameâŚ
I donât walk around naked in front of my kids, 7 being the oldest. I wear a robe to my room after I shower. They have seen me breast feed their little brother and have barged in on me while Iâm in the bathroom but I donât know any small kids that havenât done that lol! I think you should flip it around and ask yourself if it was your husband naked in front of your teenage daughters would that be ok? Or inappropriate?
Your still cover up so no itâs not big deal I see it as but if you but naked and then yes
I donât see a problem with nudity itâs only a problem when you sexualize it if more people would see what it real human body looks like they wouldnât expect us all to be Barbie dolls I donât mean run around naked daily but thereâs no shame if your kids catch a glimps of you nude
If youâre wrapped in a towel covering yourself that is fine . I donât see it being appreciate if you drop your towel in front of them at that age and get dressed .
No, long as they donât feel uncomfortable then theirs no problem.
Naked, or half dressed, either way, youâre gonna help create some perverts!
If they see you naked Thatâs totally and massively inappropriate. Especially with teenage boys and their raging hormones.
I dont see a problem. My mom did the same. I NEVER thought anything of it until I had kids of my own and my husband questioned me.
P.s. I have a brother who is grown, married and has a very healthy relationship.
Ppl just like to judge
My son is 4 and I would never do thatâŚ
Whatever is normal for your family is normal for your family. If it doesnât bother you out then and theyâre used to it, who cares what other people think?
Why would you care what a bunch of total strangers think about how you are dressed in front of âYOURâ children in â YOURâ home?
I mean, if youâre still in a towel, youâre not naked. I think this post and what exactly you are trying to say arenât quite matching up.
If you were to be naked, as in not covered up at all, then yes. That would be inappropriate. There needs to be privacy between you and your children as they get older, regardless of the fact that you carried them and birthed them.
There is a difference between walking around your house completely naked in front of your teen sons and walking around in a towel and being in a towel and/or dressing in your room and they get a glimpse of you.
Things happen like this. I try to keep my door closed when changing but the dogs come in opening the door, boys walk by or come in to ask a questionâŚwhose at fault. I mean things happen.
Iâd rather my children be comfortable enough to speak to me than be scared to speak to me by making everything an issue in life.
Not weird I do it too but always a towel raped around me and only from the bathroom to my bedroom
The single most insanely talented artist I know grew up seeing her parents naked as they are an extremely free spirit family. She now gets people actually begging her to do nude illustrations for them as gifts to their significant other. It was weird to me at first,but now I see the beauty in how comfortable they are with each other.
Personally. I try to cover up when my son is present, but for others? To each their own. I know my girl has a total appreciation of the human body and how to paint it in to a forever moment partially because of how she was raised and I think I it is beautiful.
Your boys are old enough to tell you if they are uncomfortable.
Hard as it may be, never let another parent make you question what you have been doing for 18 years. Who knows? That behavior may just show them to have a higher appreciation for a womans body instead of thirsting over it. You are raising them to be men so the bottom line isâŚ
Are you proud of your boys?
Others input need not apply
Itâs no big deal if your boys are good with it youâre comfortable with it youâre not completely naked youâre covered so who cares
Itâs a big NO from me!!
Umm at their age that is inappropriate
NO!! they should not learn about a womanâs body from.seeing their Moms⌠to me it will take away from their natural curosity.,a part of them maturing.
If you are wrapped in a towel you are covered up, so you are not really naked⌠if you are not wrapped in the towel, I would see it as inappropriate
As long as youâre in a towel thatâs fine, but up walking around butt naked in front of 2 kids, especially kids that old is definitely not okay, itâs inappropriate and weird. My 2 boys that I carried inside me for 9 long months donât even see me in a bra and panties, Iâm sure as hell not gonna let them see me naked, and they are 9 & 10.
That is disgusting I would never be naked around my boys I have five boys never seen me naked
I wouldnât do that. No way.
Its all good if yah all comftable wgaf
I canât but wonder who talked. How did people find out in the first place? I think if I wanted your opinion I would ask for it and I didnât so why give it is exactly the way to handle it.
You need help lady. Fuck.
Really??? For Gods sakeâŚhave some dignity!
My rule was as soon as they were old enough to notice a difference it is inappropriate.
My kids are grown up now & my youngest 18 yr old son has just moved out & thereâs no way Iâd ever walk around in a towel infront of my kids. Iâd either put a gown on when i got out the shower or Iâd get dressed in the bathroom. Theyâre almost adults so show abit of dignity!
I walk around in a towel or a tshirt and panties around my boys. The towel covers me completely and the tshirt and panties or a bra and panties are no different than if I had a two piece onâŚ.no itâs not inappropriate as long as youâre not walking around completely uncovered.
Would you like it if u had a daughter and her dad walked about naked around her ? I think not.
So weird! Close your bedroom door
Wrapped in a towel? Not exactly naked, i dont see a problem
Defo not for me my youngest son still lives st home he is 27yr old i wouldnt dream of it x
No I donât think itâs appropriate when they are that older. Norman bates and his mum comes to mind lol
Well⌠In Germany they all go bathing naked as a family so�??
Iâm confused. Are you saying naked or in a towel? Or both? Naked absolutely not ok. If youâre walking from your bathroom to your bedroom in a towel after a shower and people complain about that then that sounds like a them problem what do people expect, your sons to clear the house entirely for 5 seconds of you walking from one room to another?
Some people just need to judgeâ:roll_eyes:. If anyone is considering this in a sexual way well the problem is with them in my opinion.The way you explain it sounds perfectly normal to me. Im a 47 year old mum of two men 17 and 25 can you imagine we even holiday and sunbath semi naked together . People are just being ridiculous youve raised them this far do what you do and forget silly judgemental people
Its just a body, we all have them. Nudity does not have to be associated with sexuality and people in this society just cant separate that.
Well we know which parents in this group sexualize the human body and which dont. Lol Iâm sorry a person naked is a person naked. If youâre children at that age dont know what the female body looks like then there is a bigger issue then you walking around in a freaking towel. Seriously though females go to the public swimming areas wearing things that cover less then a towel⌠yall going to forbid youâre kids from public spaces because âitâs not appropriate?â Or you going to teach them the human body isnt an object to objectify.? Like seriously.
a body is a body in my opinion if itâs been like that since they were young I understand why it isnt odd they dont see it as anything other than thatâs my mother
The mentality that itâs teaching your kids body positivity is so comical. You can love your body without showing it off. Unfortunately in todayâs society people think being confident and half naked go hand and hand.
For me itâs a no. My teenage children are accustomed to me walking around in underwear but not naked. We give each other their privacy when.it comes to the bathroom and getting dressed.
But to each it own. Every home is different.
A towel around your body covering the iffy bits is not naked. The boys are fine. They donât dictate what you do in your home so long as itâs not illegal.
I do that but my oldest is now 12 so I make sure he is in his room when Iâm in a towel walking to my room now. I believe at a certain age it does become inappropriate. Just because you are not looking at them in that way doesnât mean that their pubescent brains arenât. So at 17 and 18 Iâd definitely say being naked around them is very inappropriate.
My son 34 years old hasnât seen me naked in years. My daughter on the other hand invades my space. Sheâs 26. Lol best to talk to me I am on the toilet. Go figure. I say itâs only weird when people make it weird.
Hell I wander around naked sometimes and my kids donât give one shit or pay me any mind. Itâs normal to them. But I also teach them bad touch from good touch so I donât see anything wrong with it as neither do the kids. If the kids expressed negative towards it, Iâd change or do something different. If not, then fuck the people have to say. My kids are happy and hats the most important
Itâs so fucked up to put teenage boys with raging hormones in such an awkward position. The âitâs only weird if you make it weirdâ bs doesnât apply when boys are full of sex hormones and everything is turned sexual in their minds. And later when they realize you shouldâve known better than to put them in that position they will resent you. Also there is a difference if you are so sick you canât get dressed after a shower and youâre hurt and them to bring you something but even then you should cover yourself with your hands. What is wrong with women.
briefly with a towel on is whatever
Itâs only inappropriate if u make it inappropriate. Alot of arguing points in the whole feminism movement is sexualising and objectifying the female body. We donât walk around fully naked the whole time but we are a very open household
As long as you and your children are comfortable, itâs not strange at all. If someone involved (not someone outside of the equation whoâs opinion doesnât matter) isnât comfortable though, adjustments should be made.
Your house u do whatever u like, I walk around so often naked , i have a 3yr old and a 7month old and they will be taught that its totally normal
This is a stupid fucking question Altogether. So youâre in a towel? Go get fucking dressed for fucks sake. Weâve all been there. If you want attention just say that then! Completely naked? Uh. Fucking NEEEEEXT!!!
Somethingâs wrong with a mother walking around her adult sons naked!!
I have always said and believe to this day that my kids seeing me naked taught them that there is no reason to be ashamed of our body. They see Iâm a real person with flaws, rolls , scars and more. I donât flaunt my body in front of them but if they come in while Iâm changing or bathing I donât shriek either. I have always wanted them to be comfortable in their own skin even if I wasnât in mine.
Man⌠I havenât showered or pissed with the door closed in 20 years
If youâre in a towel youâre not completely nakedâŚ.I have three sons 14,12 and 6! Personally I would never let them seen me full on nakedđ¤ˇđźââď¸