I still walk around in underwear my eldest is 20 others r 16-13 and 5 i dont care they dont look in that weird way they all know they can ask me anything and ill be as honest as can always have been
Iv seen my mum with no cloths on all my lifeā¦ in 29ā¦ doesnt mean out dif to us. X
Opinions are like ass holes everyone has oneā¦ just do what you want to do in your house. No good will come of asking a question like this on a public forum.
I would be mortified if my 17 and 18 year boys saw me naked. Bit of a difference than having a towel wrapped you than always seeing you naked though?
I think itās inappropriate that you are comfortable being naked in front of them
Conversations like this amuse and sadden me. Why is nudity automatically linked to sex? People are so hung up on the image of bare flesh. Its perfectly natural!
I say, it normal. If youāre in your room naked, in a towel, whatever, then itās on your sons if they walk in. If they see something they donāt like they should have knocked. People wouldnāt tell you to shower in a swimming costume in case they walked in and saw something they āshouldnātā or to never take the kids swimming because a bikini is revealing.
Iām all for normalising nudity! Normalising the human form. Iāve got 2 girls and I donāt think twice about sitting in a towel or whatever. Even my 13 year old will walk in and sit and chat to me while Iām in the bath or shower. Theres nothing sexual in it, no different to being fully clothed, the conversations arenāt weird or anything. And yes, Iād be the same if I had boys.
Not appropriate to be naked in front of teenage boys. Would your husband walk around naked in front of a teenage girl? This world has lost all moral standards.
I do this too donāt see any problem with it!!! My kids donāt budge an eyelid when I walk around in bra n undies either in fact we all do it while looking for the folded washing ect. Being nude as and sitting around with it all out may be a bit muchā¦. Who cares what others say while your in your own home itās your business
Well Iām 48 my dadās 70 and heās come stark bollock naked to go toilet in the night and Iāve done the same and weāve crossed paths who gives a shit your blood
Donāt get approval of anyone if it work for you an your not bothered then keep doing it x
I donāt live with my mum anymore but when I visit i still talk to my mum whilst shes in the bath or shower x
If your in a towel itās fine but if your completely naked then hell no.
Sets an inappropriate no boundary example
If theyāre boys then yesā¦ a towel obviously is different but not to be fully naked! X
If youāre covered with a towel itās not a problem ,but you said, they see you naked.
You just said naked!!?? I always thought naked and nude were the same! Damn am I wrong!??
We used to walk into mums room and see her naked. I didnāt like seeing her nude (weird) but my fault for walking in without knocking lol
If youāre wrapped in a towel I donāt think thatās naked. But If you teenage sons see you butt naked all the time Iād say thatās wrong
I cant even get a pee without someone wanting inā¦its only a body we all have them lol xx
Being wrapped in a towel is not naked you are covered
An intro to incest. Oh did I say that out loud? Gotta keep my thoughts to myself but thats something I dont want in my head!
Depends what they are seeing.
I assume this is a new boyfriend or something having a fit about it?
As long as you have the towel on there is no problem. You wear less on the beach
If youāre in a towel youāre not naked
This post is deceptive, she started with being naked, then she said she was in a towelā¦naked in front of adult sons is weird to me, the mother of an adult son, but I donāt see how wearing a towel is bad
No I did the same when mine were that age
Iāll walk around my whole house in a towel
Your kids are far too old to see your naked body,respect yourself and respect your children,it is inappropriate.
Iām in the beauty industry and Iāve seen plenty of naked people, the thing is Iāve never once sexualised them because itās a job and Iām not attracted to them. Same thing applies here, Iād say the person annoyed either sexualises nakedness, or has perhaps sexualised you.
I have 2 teen sonās as well and one will come in and chat to me (with his back turned) whilst Iām getting dressed and the other wonāt come in past the door. If your sons are uncomfortable they will show you.
You got a towel on whatās the big deal , theyāll soon walk off if they donāt like it
Stop worrying what others worry about. Your home, your children, they will voice when it makes them uncomfortable and obviously seeing their mum in a towel does not make them feel uncomfortable so donāt stress.
If you feel comfortable with it youāre fineā¦never ask a question like that on fb or you will attract haters BIG TIME
Canāt see a problem myself
I do the same thing.
I find that VERY wrong, boys will be boys thereās NO WAY they should EVER see their own mom naked,maybe as you say āthey never pay you mo mindā
Juuuust maybe they are uncomfortable and are noot cool with addressing itā¦ that is not a ānormal thingā & maybe it crosses their minds that if their friends hsppen to catch a glimpse of this there nay be MORE ISSUESā¦ WHEN I WAS 10 MAY FRIENDS MOM WOULD WSLK AROUND THE HOUSE (while Iām THERE)
199% COMPLETELY NAKED with me there. Thst bothered me then & stillSTILL DOES. Every time I look back at itā¦ IT REALLY BOTHERS ME AS MUCH TO THIS DSMN DAYā¦
If you need to ask if itās a problem, then you already know your answer.
A healthy parent/child relationship needs to be built on respecting boundaries, if either you or your sons arenāt comfortable, then stop. Otherwise itās not like you are breaking any laws?
I still sit in the bathroom sometimes when my mom showers lmao Iām 32. Itās only weird if you make it weird
I have 2 boysā¦17 and 15ā¦I will come out of the shower wrapped in a towel. I have been in my bra and underwear the odd timeā¦ no different than a bathing suit.
I would never be bare naked in front of them.
Youāre in a towel, not ass to the wind, stark naked! If anybody has a problem with what you do, in your house, Iām pretty sure they wonāt mind pitching in for your wardrobe costs. Other than that, they can kick rocks in socks.
Iām saying itās no ones business. You are literally going from your shower to your bedroom and wrapped in a towel. If your kids are around then that means they are not uncomfortable because they are in your space while you are taking care of you. If your kids are ok then itās ok. Itās also way different than actually being naked.
When time comes Iām sure they will tell u when to stop
Mine did
I can tell you the law in the united States says itās WRONG af to be in front of an opposite sex child naked after the age of 12ā¦ who would think that would even need to be a lawā¦ ITāS BASIC COMMON FKN SENSE. Smh. You ppl are whatās wrong with this world.
hell yes its weirdā¦VERY FKN WEIRD wut the hellā¦who the hell does thatā¦ likeā¦are they just okay with it ? better not let their friends find outā¦theyāll surely be made fun of. Not only is it super weirdā¦BUT MORE SO INAPPROPRIATEā¦smh. why the hell would you feel it necessary to be naked in front of ANY TEENAGE BOYā¦nevermind your own sons. SMH GOD PEOPLE ARE SO FKN WEIRD NOWADAYSā¦ WUT IN THE ACTUAL F@*!
Lmao anyone who thinks this is wrong obviously has weird thoughtsā¦I still casually walk into the room while mums getting dressed just to ask her whatās for dinnerš it aināt weird until you make it weird.
Easy answer is who cares what somebody else thinks you know if you have a good healthy relationship with your kids and that doesnāt need validating by anybody else we all have are own ways of bringing up kids and nobody is right or wrong in their way
17-18 year old boys. I wouldnāt be too blaseā about it if I was you.
You are their mother, not some chick next doorā¦their mum.
I find it weird
I think if your in a towel thereās nothing on show to make it inappropriate ā¦ If your boys are uncomfortable with it then they should know to give you your privacy while in your own room after a shower If you make it weird it is weird
People are allowed to be naked in their own house. My dad was often naked when I was growing up and I donāt see anything wrong or sexual about it. Even now Iām often naked in front of my boys. If you find it sexual then you need to see a therapist The way Iāve been brought up is if its your house, you can do as you please so long as you donāt do it in someone elseās house
Sorry but thatās just weird and creepy.
When they were young kids , fair enough but they are now much older with raging hormones and wandering minds.
Yes your their mother but there still needs to be boundaries.
Just like a dad shouldnāt be nude in front of a teenage girl, a mother shouldnāt be nude in front of her teenage sons.
Maybe respect their feelings about this also - theyāve told you they feel this is inappropriate yet your not respecting that.
Itās wrong
If you have a towel on, itās no big deal. Butā¦ If you have all your bits out, thatās too much.
If itās with a towel I see nothing wrong. Youāre covered. Even if you were naked naked, itās your home and family. What others think is irrelevant if nothing is odd for either party.
Oh gosh here we go watch all the haters have ago. My teen son sits on my bed while Iām on the toilet in my ensuite. Chatting away to me. Whatever your comfortable with. Nothing wrong with a towel around you in your own home.
If you have a towel around your body than you arenāt nakedš¤·
If they see some boobs or accidental vaginaā¦ who cares! Itās all good , crazy hippies! Maybe a robe would be better though
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it wrong that I am sometimes naked around my teen sons?
Reminds me of our house Billie Swan xxx
Nothing wrong with it
inappropriate for sure
I do same thing, funny I am reading this I was just talking about it recently with a friend of mineā:thinking: Sofia Boulton
Thatās very disrespectful
Whats the difference between bathers and then rapped in a towell? Its not naked either way . . .
do they see you NAKED or in a towel on your bed ?? which is it ? bc if youāre just walking around naked with 2 teenage BOYS it is inappropriate if youāre sitting on your bed in a towel itās okay
I guess this is just a personal choice for everyone. My 17 year old son has seen me in a towel but thereās no way Iād ever let him see me NAKED. I also do not want to see him naked. But like I said personal choice
Do some people forget we were once cavemen fully nude around EVERYONE!? We only wear clothes, because of how society changed the rules.
I canāt imagine that teenage boys want to see their moms naked or half-dressed. It would seem the mom might have a mental health issue.
Being naked and being wrapped in a towel around your children are two total different things. With a towel, the private parts are covered, nakedness, everything is exposed! It comes down to respect. I can walk from my bathroom to my bedroom wrapped in a towel, my children donāt pay me no attention and know not to come in my room as im changing. Also, in some cultures, people are half naked all day everyday, and they(children) see nothing wrong with that bcus that is their norm.
You arenāt even naked! You have a towel on. Unless you gave birth to 2 Clark kents, Iām sure you are fine. I wouldnāt worry about anything.
Youre not naked youre wrapped in a large towel completely covered ?? Not a problem in my book as long as your kids are ok with it
Nudity is normal in my household. My son who is 7 doesnāt think twice when he sees me naked or in panties around the house. Who cares what others say or raise their kids. Keep doing you momma
Its fine ur in towelā¦ Being naked around them would be wrongā¦
You carried them birthed them changed them bathed them. Your their mother not some random woman, unless your making your kids uncomfortable or you feel uncomfortable do not blink on what other people think. You are doing nothin wrong.
Iām confused. Do they see you naked or not?
Naked no no no am good with that but towel is fine but I donāt want to see an naked either their body at that age is thereās no body elseās to see
People need to mind their own business! You and your do what works for you. We have a very comfortable family as well.
Your question and explanation are 2 totally different thingsā¦a towel is fineā¦completely naked ā¦no
They always see you naked??? Thatās abuse!!
I grew up in a naked house. Me and my brothers. Itās only weird for people that donāt grow up that way. We would literally have to make our friends wait outside before coming in after school to make sure our mom wasnāt naked lol.
Youāre in a towel and in your room. Just close the door? nobody at that age wants to see their mom naked. āNormalā for them or not. Lol. One of them gets a girlfriend and sees/hears about you walking around the house naked they are gonna think thereās something way wrong there. Question would always be āwhy would you want to walk around naked around 2 teens all the time?ā
Itās sad ppl sexualize everything. Do whatever you choose to do. As long as they arenāt being abused it nobodyās concern how you live your life. Live and let live
I was raised and TAUGHT that a āLADYā should ALWAYS BE MODEST !!! ( OVER-EXPOSURE can WARP a MIND !!! )
Who cares itās your home , itās normal in my eyes
Wearing a towel in your roomā¦
Cooking Thanksgiving dinner nakedā¦
If anyone who sexualized this clearly have issues themselves about doing that they are your kids they came out your lady bits so no itās not weird or inappropriate because Iām sure they are used to it by now and know not to walk in on you
Thatās not being naked, its the same at wearing a dress. Iām sure your boys donāt pay not mind because youāve done it there whole life. Why is it anyoneās business what you do in your home?
A towel and naked are 2 diff things- VERY different!!!
Iāll be the first to say, I always worried about actually being naked in front of my kids, but I let them run naked, they showered with me and they didnāt think anything about it, my three grandsons were the same way, their dad walks around naked I let them as little ones when potty training, they would come over and Mimi would get her turn in the bath and they would just jump in. People are always going to have an opinion. Keep doing you.
Sheās a mom their mom sheās just had a shower sheās not prancing around the living room a towel covers more than a bathingsuit or bra and panties my father used to come home from work take his work clothes off and go down to the basement sit on the couch to cool off I see nothing wrong with it at all he did not parade around
Naked no not at that age towel fine
Your business BUT to me itās not my way of doing things.
Iām pretty modest. Canāt go by me.
Wrapped in a towel? Id ask that person what sort of weird thoughts they had about their own mother to even make that train of thought a possibilityā¦
Nude would be different, but normal everyday shit like walking around after a shower? Its weird that someome found that weird lol
If youāre in a towel, I see no problem
Not weird. But I walk around naked. Bodies are nothing to be ashamed of.
Your house, your rulesā:rofl: hell Iām naked naked, outside on my 3rd floor balcony and allā:joy:
No one ever looks above eye levelā:woman_shrugging:t4:and if they did-just might get a surpriseā:partying_face:
Towel isnāt naked. Most people walk to their room in a towel after a shower, regardless of age. Actually nude would be weird considering they are teens, but at their age they should be perfectly capable of saying, āMom put some clothes on!ā if theyāre uncomfortable. And if youāre totally naked and they arenāt uncomfortable with that, then fine. Good for yāall. If kids are old enough to know how they feel, and they arenāt hurt physically or emotionally for speaking up, then yāalls house - yāalls rules. No one else gets an opinion.
Who cares youāre covered up
Tell em itās the new fashion going too fashion week for momās by moms
Well, they will never have to ask to see a naked female to know the parts!
I donāt see the big deal about it.
I would say if you have a towel on its ok!
Up until the age of eight years old we lived in a very small house where my bedroom was connected to the bathroom with no door no shower just a bathtub so it was common to see my parents nude as it was for them to see me however once we moved into a home with two bathrooms and two doors that never happened againā¦ in other words we did it cuz we had to but if you donāt have to then donāt do it because it is creepy as f*** stop doing it
Your in a towel.
In your room.
Thatās your space not theirs.