Is it wrong that I am sometimes naked around my teen sons?

I still walk around in underwear my eldest is 20 others r 16-13 and 5 i dont care they dont look in that weird way they all know they can ask me anything and ill be as honest as can always have been

Iv seen my mum with no cloths on all my lifeā€¦ in 29ā€¦ doesnt mean out dif to us. X

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Opinions are like ass holes everyone has oneā€¦ just do what you want to do in your house. No good will come of asking a question like this on a public forum.

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I would be mortified if my 17 and 18 year boys saw me naked. Bit of a difference than having a towel wrapped you than always seeing you naked though?

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I think itā€™s inappropriate that you are comfortable being naked in front of them

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Conversations like this amuse and sadden me. Why is nudity automatically linked to sex? People are so hung up on the image of bare flesh. Its perfectly natural!

I say, it normal. If youā€™re in your room naked, in a towel, whatever, then itā€™s on your sons if they walk in. If they see something they donā€™t like they should have knocked. People wouldnā€™t tell you to shower in a swimming costume in case they walked in and saw something they ā€˜shouldnā€™tā€™ or to never take the kids swimming because a bikini is revealing.

Iā€™m all for normalising nudity! Normalising the human form. Iā€™ve got 2 girls and I donā€™t think twice about sitting in a towel or whatever. Even my 13 year old will walk in and sit and chat to me while Iā€™m in the bath or shower. Theres nothing sexual in it, no different to being fully clothed, the conversations arenā€™t weird or anything. And yes, Iā€™d be the same if I had boys. :woman_shrugging:

Not appropriate to be naked in front of teenage boys. Would your husband walk around naked in front of a teenage girl? This world has lost all moral standards.

I do this too donā€™t see any problem with it!!! My kids donā€™t budge an eyelid when I walk around in bra n undies either in fact we all do it while looking for the folded washing ect. Being nude as and sitting around with it all out may be a bit muchā€¦. Who cares what others say while your in your own home itā€™s your business :blush:

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Well Iā€™m 48 my dadā€™s 70 and heā€™s come stark bollock naked to go toilet in the night and Iā€™ve done the same and weā€™ve crossed paths who gives a shit your blood

Donā€™t get approval of anyone if it work for you an your not bothered then keep doing it x

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I donā€™t live with my mum anymore but when I visit i still talk to my mum whilst shes in the bath or shower x

If your in a towel itā€™s fine but if your completely naked then hell no.

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Sets an inappropriate no boundary example

If theyā€™re boys then yesā€¦ a towel obviously is different but not to be fully naked! X

If youā€™re covered with a towel itā€™s not a problem ,but you said, they see you naked.

You just said naked!!?? I always thought naked and nude were the same! Damn am I wrong!??

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We used to walk into mums room and see her naked. I didnā€™t like seeing her nude (weird) but my fault for walking in without knocking lol

If youā€™re wrapped in a towel I donā€™t think thatā€™s naked. But If you teenage sons see you butt naked all the time Iā€™d say thatā€™s wrong

I cant even get a pee without someone wanting inā€¦its only a body we all have them lol xx

Being wrapped in a towel is not naked you are covered

An intro to incest. Oh did I say that out loud? Gotta keep my thoughts to myself but thats something I dont want in my head!

Depends what they are seeing.
I assume this is a new boyfriend or something having a fit about it?

As long as you have the towel on there is no problem. You wear less on the beach :woman_shrugging:

If youā€™re in a towel youā€™re not naked
This post is deceptive, she started with being naked, then she said she was in a towelā€¦naked in front of adult sons is weird to me, the mother of an adult son, but I donā€™t see how wearing a towel is bad

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No I did the same when mine were that age

Iā€™ll walk around my whole house in a towel :person_shrugging::see_no_evil:

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Your kids are far too old to see your naked body,respect yourself and respect your children,it is inappropriate.

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Iā€™m in the beauty industry and Iā€™ve seen plenty of naked people, the thing is Iā€™ve never once sexualised them because itā€™s a job and Iā€™m not attracted to them. Same thing applies here, Iā€™d say the person annoyed either sexualises nakedness, or has perhaps sexualised you.
I have 2 teen sonā€™s as well and one will come in and chat to me (with his back turned) whilst Iā€™m getting dressed and the other wonā€™t come in past the door. If your sons are uncomfortable they will show you.

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You got a towel on whatā€™s the big deal , theyā€™ll soon walk off if they donā€™t like it

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Stop worrying what others worry about. Your home, your children, they will voice when it makes them uncomfortable and obviously seeing their mum in a towel does not make them feel uncomfortable so donā€™t stress.

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If you feel comfortable with it youā€™re fineā€¦never ask a question like that on fb or you will attract haters BIG TIME

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Canā€™t see a problem myself

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I do the same thing.

I find that VERY wrong, boys will be boys thereā€™s NO WAY they should EVER see their own mom naked,maybe as you say ā€œthey never pay you mo mindā€
Juuuust maybe they are uncomfortable and are noot cool with addressing itā€¦ that is not a ā€œnormal thingā€ & maybe it crosses their minds that if their friends hsppen to catch a glimpse of this there nay be MORE ISSUESā€¦ WHEN I WAS 10 MAY FRIENDS MOM WOULD WSLK AROUND THE HOUSE (while Iā€™m THERE)
199% COMPLETELY NAKED with me there. Thst bothered me then & stillSTILL DOES. Every time I look back at itā€¦ IT REALLY BOTHERS ME AS MUCH TO THIS DSMN DAYā€¦

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If you need to ask if itā€™s a problem, then you already know your answer.

A healthy parent/child relationship needs to be built on respecting boundaries, if either you or your sons arenā€™t comfortable, then stop. Otherwise itā€™s not like you are breaking any laws?

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I still sit in the bathroom sometimes when my mom showers lmao Iā€™m 32. Itā€™s only weird if you make it weird

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I have 2 boysā€¦17 and 15ā€¦I will come out of the shower wrapped in a towel. I have been in my bra and underwear the odd timeā€¦ no different than a bathing suit.
I would never be bare naked in front of them.

Youā€™re in a towel, not ass to the wind, stark naked! If anybody has a problem with what you do, in your house, Iā€™m pretty sure they wonā€™t mind pitching in for your wardrobe costs. Other than that, they can kick rocks in socks.

Iā€™m saying itā€™s no ones business. You are literally going from your shower to your bedroom and wrapped in a towel. If your kids are around then that means they are not uncomfortable because they are in your space while you are taking care of you. If your kids are ok then itā€™s ok. Itā€™s also way different than actually being naked.

When time comes Iā€™m sure they will tell u when to stop
Mine did :joy:

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I can tell you the law in the united States says itā€™s WRONG af to be in front of an opposite sex child naked after the age of 12ā€¦ who would think that would even need to be a lawā€¦ ITā€™S BASIC COMMON FKN SENSE. Smh. You ppl are whatā€™s wrong with this world.

hell yes its weirdā€¦VERY FKN WEIRD wut the hellā€¦who the hell does thatā€¦ likeā€¦are they just okay with it ? better not let their friends find outā€¦theyā€™ll surely be made fun of. Not only is it super weirdā€¦BUT MORE SO INAPPROPRIATEā€¦smh. why the hell would you feel it necessary to be naked in front of ANY TEENAGE BOYā€¦nevermind your own sons. SMH GOD PEOPLE ARE SO FKN WEIRD NOWADAYSā€¦ WUT IN THE ACTUAL F@*!

Lmao anyone who thinks this is wrong obviously has weird thoughtsā€¦I still casually walk into the room while mums getting dressed just to ask her whatā€™s for dinneršŸ˜‚ it ainā€™t weird until you make it weird.

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Easy answer is who cares what somebody else thinks you know if you have a good healthy relationship with your kids and that doesnā€™t need validating by anybody else we all have are own ways of bringing up kids and nobody is right or wrong in their way

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17-18 year old boys. I wouldnā€™t be too blaseā€™ about it if I was you.
You are their mother, not some chick next doorā€¦their mum.
I find it weird

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I think if your in a towel thereā€™s nothing on show to make it inappropriate :roll_eyes:ā€¦ If your boys are uncomfortable with it then they should know to give you your privacy while in your own room after a shower :woman_shrugging: If you make it weird it is weird :sweat_smile:

People are allowed to be naked in their own house. My dad was often naked when I was growing up and I donā€™t see anything wrong or sexual about it. Even now Iā€™m often naked in front of my boys. If you find it sexual then you need to see a therapist :woman_shrugging:t2: The way Iā€™ve been brought up is if its your house, you can do as you please so long as you donā€™t do it in someone elseā€™s house

Sorry but thatā€™s just weird and creepy.
When they were young kids , fair enough but they are now much older with raging hormones and wandering minds.
Yes your their mother but there still needs to be boundaries.
Just like a dad shouldnā€™t be nude in front of a teenage girl, a mother shouldnā€™t be nude in front of her teenage sons.
Maybe respect their feelings about this also - theyā€™ve told you they feel this is inappropriate yet your not respecting that.
Itā€™s wrong

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If you have a towel on, itā€™s no big deal. Butā€¦ If you have all your bits out, thatā€™s too much.

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If itā€™s with a towel I see nothing wrong. Youā€™re covered. Even if you were naked naked, itā€™s your home and family. What others think is irrelevant if nothing is odd for either party.

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Oh gosh here we go watch all the haters have ago. My teen son sits on my bed while Iā€™m on the toilet in my ensuite. Chatting away to me. Whatever your comfortable with. Nothing wrong with a towel around you in your own home.

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If you have a towel around your body than you arenā€™t nakedšŸ¤·

If they see some boobs or accidental vaginaā€¦ who cares! Itā€™s all good , crazy hippies! :heart::heart::fire:Maybe a robe would be better though :+1::grin::heart:

Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it wrong that I am sometimes naked around my teen sons?

Reminds me of our house Billie Swan xxx

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Nothing wrong with it

inappropriate for sure

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I do same thing, funny I am reading this I was just talking about it recently with a friend of mineā€‹:thinking::thinking: Sofia Boulton

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Thatā€™s very disrespectful

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Whats the difference between bathers and then rapped in a towell? Its not naked either way . . .

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do they see you NAKED or in a towel on your bed ?? which is it ? bc if youā€™re just walking around naked with 2 teenage BOYS it is inappropriate if youā€™re sitting on your bed in a towel itā€™s okay

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I guess this is just a personal choice for everyone. My 17 year old son has seen me in a towel but thereā€™s no way Iā€™d ever let him see me NAKED. I also do not want to see him naked. But like I said personal choice

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Do some people forget we were once cavemen fully nude around EVERYONE!? We only wear clothes, because of how society changed the rules. :woman_shrugging:t2:

I canā€™t imagine that teenage boys want to see their moms naked or half-dressed. It would seem the mom might have a mental health issue.

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Being naked and being wrapped in a towel around your children are two total different things. With a towel, the private parts are covered, nakedness, everything is exposed! It comes down to respect. I can walk from my bathroom to my bedroom wrapped in a towel, my children donā€™t pay me no attention and know not to come in my room as im changing. Also, in some cultures, people are half naked all day everyday, and they(children) see nothing wrong with that bcus that is their norm.

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You arenā€™t even naked! You have a towel on. Unless you gave birth to 2 Clark kents, Iā€™m sure you are fine. I wouldnā€™t worry about anything.

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Youre not naked youre wrapped in a large towel completely covered ?? Not a problem in my book as long as your kids are ok with it

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Nudity is normal in my household. My son who is 7 doesnā€™t think twice when he sees me naked or in panties around the house. Who cares what others say or raise their kids. Keep doing you momma

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Its fine ur in towelā€¦ Being naked around them would be wrongā€¦

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You carried them birthed them changed them bathed them. Your their mother not some random woman, unless your making your kids uncomfortable or you feel uncomfortable do not blink on what other people think. You are doing nothin wrong.

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Iā€™m confused. Do they see you naked or not?

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Naked no no no am good with that but towel is fine but I donā€™t want to see an naked either their body at that age is thereā€™s no body elseā€™s to see

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People need to mind their own business! You and your do what works for you. We have a very comfortable family as well.

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Your question and explanation are 2 totally different thingsā€¦a towel is fineā€¦completely naked ā€¦no

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They always see you naked??? Thatā€™s abuse!!

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I grew up in a naked house. Me and my brothers. Itā€™s only weird for people that donā€™t grow up that way. We would literally have to make our friends wait outside before coming in after school to make sure our mom wasnā€™t naked lol.

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Youā€™re in a towel and in your room. Just close the door? :joy: nobody at that age wants to see their mom naked. ā€œNormalā€ for them or not. Lol. One of them gets a girlfriend and sees/hears about you walking around the house naked they are gonna think thereā€™s something way wrong there. Question would always be ā€œwhy would you want to walk around naked around 2 teens all the time?ā€

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Itā€™s sad ppl sexualize everything. Do whatever you choose to do. As long as they arenā€™t being abused it nobodyā€™s concern how you live your life. Live and let live

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I was raised and TAUGHT that a ā€œLADYā€ should ALWAYS BE MODEST !!! ( OVER-EXPOSURE can WARP a MIND !!! )

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Who cares itā€™s your home , itā€™s normal in my eyes

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Wearing a towel in your roomā€¦:ok_hand::ok_hand:

Cooking Thanksgiving dinner nakedā€¦:x::x:

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If anyone who sexualized this clearly have issues themselves about doing that they are your kids they came out your lady bits so no itā€™s not weird or inappropriate because Iā€™m sure they are used to it by now and know not to walk in on you

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Thatā€™s not being naked, its the same at wearing a dress. Iā€™m sure your boys donā€™t pay not mind because youā€™ve done it there whole life. Why is it anyoneā€™s business what you do in your home?

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A towel and naked are 2 diff things- VERY different!!!

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Iā€™ll be the first to say, I always worried about actually being naked in front of my kids, but I let them run naked, they showered with me and they didnā€™t think anything about it, my three grandsons were the same way, their dad walks around naked I let them as little ones when potty training, they would come over and Mimi would get her turn in the bath and they would just jump in. People are always going to have an opinion. Keep doing you.

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Sheā€™s a mom their mom sheā€™s just had a shower sheā€™s not prancing around the living room a towel covers more than a bathingsuit or bra and panties my father used to come home from work take his work clothes off and go down to the basement sit on the couch to cool off I see nothing wrong with it at all he did not parade around

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Naked no not at that age towel fine

Your business BUT to me itā€™s not my way of doing things.

Iā€™m pretty modest. Canā€™t go by me.

Wrapped in a towel? Id ask that person what sort of weird thoughts they had about their own mother to even make that train of thought a possibilityā€¦
Nude would be different, but normal everyday shit like walking around after a shower? Its weird that someome found that weird lol

If youā€™re in a towel, I see no problem

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Not weird. But I walk around naked. Bodies are nothing to be ashamed of.

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Your house, your rulesā€‹:rofl::ok_hand:t5::woman_cartwheeling:t4: hell Iā€™m naked naked, outside on my 3rd floor balcony and allā€‹:joy::100::+1:t5:
No one ever looks above eye levelā€‹:woman_shrugging:t4:and if they did-just might get a surpriseā€‹:partying_face::partying_face:

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Towel isnā€™t naked. Most people walk to their room in a towel after a shower, regardless of age. Actually nude would be weird considering they are teens, but at their age they should be perfectly capable of saying, ā€œMom put some clothes on!ā€ if theyā€™re uncomfortable. And if youā€™re totally naked and they arenā€™t uncomfortable with that, then fine. Good for yā€™all. If kids are old enough to know how they feel, and they arenā€™t hurt physically or emotionally for speaking up, then yā€™alls house - yā€™alls rules. No one else gets an opinion.

Who cares youā€™re covered up :ok_hand:
Tell em itā€™s the new fashion going too fashion week for momā€™s by moms

Well, they will never have to ask to see a naked female to know the parts!

I donā€™t see the big deal about it.

I would say if you have a towel on its ok!

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Up until the age of eight years old we lived in a very small house where my bedroom was connected to the bathroom with no door no shower just a bathtub so it was common to see my parents nude as it was for them to see me however once we moved into a home with two bathrooms and two doors that never happened againā€¦ in other words we did it cuz we had to but if you donā€™t have to then donā€™t do it because it is creepy as f*** stop doing it

Your in a towel.
In your room.
Thatā€™s your space not theirs.

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