are you in a towel? or completely naked? is the door shut? or open? details matter ma lol
but if its fully nude in front of them at this age then ya its a little weird lol
Towel covers more than a bathing suit, I see no offense here.
So what you are saying is⌠you walk around in a towel in your home! Oh goodness tell whoever had a fit over it to shut up!
Yes it is wrong and itâs disgusting that should be no reason why your grown sons should see you naked
Shit atleast your in a towel my moms boobs be out and in the open for the world to see sometimes lmao they are your children I think they will survive
I donât see a problem with it.
However I can understand your son being upset about it.
17 &18 yr old boys hormones are insane, girls are now sexy and give sexual feels. Their embarrassment levels are high, their insecurities are high and the way they look at women is now different.
Are you wearing an actual towel around or do you go to ur room take off the towel and walk around naked as u get dressed with the door open. BC I can understand a teenager not wanting to see their parent naked. If ur in a towel and nothingâs showing , Iâd just have a discussion and ask why it bugs him?..
Everyone raises their children differently⌠I say do you ⌠their your childrenâŚ
My boys walked around when they lived at home in their boxers⌠I would wear a towel after my shower and go to my roomâŚ
We lived in Florida then and they seen so much more on the beach by people they did not even know
Itâs called life
I have zero privacy. With this I mean my kids literally walk in on me in the bathroom while using it and while in the shower. So they see it all and to be honest itâs just a norm in my house. My kids pay me no mind neither. So I donât see anything wrong with it at all.
People only take offense when they donât do it! Itâs Your house and if your kids are used to it then itâs nothing new for them! My mother did it as long as I can remember and it was never a big deal in our house! You make it a big deal then they will too! I have walked around in a towel around my kids and so have they, hell my 23yr old son came and sat on the couch in a towel and asked me to brush his hair (he has long hair) after he got out the shower! We donât body sham here!
In Germany this is completely normal! When we lived there my children seen males and females naked all the time. It Is only as weird as you make it.
Me personally, my body is only shared with my husband. My kids see me in a towel though, no biggie.
Youâre all good you do youâŚmy oldest daughter still comes and talkes to me when Iâm in the shower so be it
Not weird AT ALL this is exactly how we were raised in our house. Why should this be shameful!? Nothing malicious or ill intent is going on. A mother is literally getting dressed out of the shower. If said young adult were to happen to see her in the towel briefly who TF cares. Itâs weird if you make it weirdđĽ´
I have girls I donât even walk around in my underwear
Nudity isnât inherently sexual. As long as theyâre not uncomfortable there isnât a problem
Wearing a towel around you is Not the same as being naked. It covers more than any bathing suit.
I think thatâs fine. Now running around stark naked I would think odd and I wouldnât do it but Iâm sure there families out there who promote that in their lives so to each their own.
not a problem some people need to get over themselves.
I seen my mom naked growing up, It never bothered me. I have no problem with nudity, I donât think itâs weird or sexual to just be naked. Some people do, this people are the strange ones to me
People should just mind their business
Nothing wrong with it at all
Weird!!! VERY!!! Sorry not sorry!!! She asked so thatâs my opinion. Also, you write in the beginning that your naked around them, then you switch it up to being in a towel??? Which is it because your their mom naked, thatâs odd in my book. Having a towel around you is completely different. Naked or towel around you??
What would Malcolm in the middle mom say?
The towel covers more than a bikini, also if someone has a problem and itâs not you or your sons then they have issues
Itâs only a problem if you or the kids think itâs weird.
This isnt a question for a group but should be a wurstion u ask ur sons. If it makes them uncomfortable thn no if thy are fine thn do u
As long as nothing is showing ur fine
Thatâs completely normal. For me at least. Thatâs how I was raised. Iâm comfortable nude (at my own home)
Youâre not being malicious with it or anything. Itâd weird if you make it weird.
People are raised differently, even when it comes to the human body. Some are raised to think its natural and nothing is wrong with your body being seen. Others are raised to hide their bodies. We all have different beliefs as well.
If youand your children have no issue, I wouldnt worry what others think/feel. Everyone will have an opinion about it one way or another.
Are they seeing you naked or with a towel wrapped around you? Big difference.
Which one is it? Are you naked infront of them, or in a towel? Naked is weird and not okay⌠but in a towel after a shower is fine. As long as theyâre not seeing your boobs and private areas
I run by my lil lads room to grab a towel wouldent let him see me hes ten U said u dont walk around in ur nude but they see u naked there not kids there teenagers its not nice fullstop
So are you naked or covered with a towel? Two different things.
Iâm sure your boys would love for you too cover up although they donât say anything.
I guess the only question isâDo you have to?â
Is there no door on your bedroom?
Being ânakedâ and wrapped in a towel is two completely different things. Figure that out then re-ask the question.
Would you want a dad naked around his teenage girls? Not okay.
Well hmmm ok so send me a pic real quick and Iâll tell ya if itâs ok or not!
I personally donât find it to be strange. They are your kids. And itâs really teaching them to not sexualised womenâs bodies. So many men see cleavage and go crazy because at home their parents treat nudity like a taboo. They are your kids. I think itâs normal.
Omg I canât believe I even just read that question. Isnât that obvious??
Nothing wrong with it.
If your covered I guess but arenât they curious
Its not as though youre pole dancing naked for your boys is it? Theyve grown up with this and are used to it which is actually a good thing. My boys are 17 and 20 and have been brought up the same way. Which was a good thing when i couldnt get out of the bath! Theres nothing wrong with it as long as its not sexualised x
I canât believe you are asking this questionâŚand on FB? Girl, cover up! Completely inappropriateâŚ
This is not okay at all those are ur kids u should no be letting ur sons see u like that
Itâs your house. You can walk around how ever you want. My mom always walks around in just a shirt and her underwear. At home. Thatâs how she grew up living with my grandparents. We walk around our own home how we want. Because itâs our house. And nobody can tell us what to do.
I donât understand why people have to sexualize everything these days. They are her children, she carried them inside of her body. Iâm sure they donât âenjoyâ seeing their mom naked (because cmon, would you?) But if youâre in a towel or even if youâre all the way nude and your boys donât have a problem with it, then you keep doing what youâre doing mama. There is nothing wrong with it. NowâŚif they were your stepsons, I could see where it could be weird. My husband actually asked me this the other day when his son was homeâŚâwould you walk around in your underwear or naked if he was yours?â I said absolutely and he just laughed and agreed.
My son was raised in a home where we didnât close doors really. As a teen he didnât want me to walk in on him but never once was phased by walking in unannounced and finding me In states of undress. If he had heâd have started knocking I suppose.
Put some clothes on. Geez
Being wrapped in a towel covers more than most swimsuits. Youâre fine.
This post is misleading. Covered under a towel if fine. Point being that youâre covered there isnât a problem with it. Itâs your house. Any prudes you can just tell them to kick rocks.
Towel covers everything! Donât worry about it I do same thing
As a 19 year old girl I come in and talk to my mum and sit on her bed to have a conversation and if sheâs getting dressed I donât really care, I dont think your sons or any one else should. Your house, your space. Sad people donât understand safety and comftortability.
Lol we are always naked here ages from 2-16 we donât care lol âŚif you donât wanna see dont look ha!
I raised 2 boys and always covered-upâŚ
First you say youâre naked. Then you say youâre not. Which is it? A towel is fine. Naked, not so much.
If ya got a towel around you your not naked⌠Everyone I have ever known that was some what normal⌠All lived the same way⌠I donât know what some of these peoe are talking about⌠But apparently some of them have issuesâŚ
Your covered, no big dealâŚ
American and still saying Americans need to stop sexualizing nudity⌠nudity is not sexual.
If the kids arenât uncomfortable, then youâre fine. Itâs your own home,
I think itâs your house you go to work to pay the Billâs. They are your biological children and you can walk around YOUR home as you please if they were 6 or 7 still no one would bat an eye why in the hell does it matter because they are 17-18?
I dont see it as an issue. I have 3 daughters 16,14,6 and I am the same way. I cover up when my step daughter is home but thatâs about it
Your not naked in a towel everyone has a towel, and you see more in a swim suit
Omg a bathing suit covers less. your totally fine and that person clearly has a judging problem or needs to see a therapist since something happened in their child hood to think that way.
Itâs very inappropriate if you are completely nude. Once boys hit a certain age I say between 5-7 itâs time to stop being naked in front of them. Towel or your bra and underwear is fine until a point as well but at some point it has to stop all together.
I think a towel is fine, if youâre nude, I would cover up not that you have too Iâm just saying that you should. After all people are aloud to be nudest in there own homes. Weigher its appreciate is a completely different Story
Are you naked or covered with a towel? also I just wanna laugh at the carried them for 9 months part. Teenagers dont give af about that anymore
Uhmm Iâm confused you started with that you are naked in front of your sonâs, then say you are wrapped in a towel, which in my book isnât naked lol. That situation there is no problem with, they need to mind their own business lol. Now if walked stark nude your boys may have an issue but the hell with everyone else. How they know you are like that anyways?
Fuck whoever is being a weirdo with their thoughts around your family honestly.
Same here but usually just a robe! And definitely no bra all the time! and my son is 22, daughter 15. Been doing this since they were born so no big deal to them or me!
Itâs totally fine Karenâs /and Jimâs need to mind their own business ⌠itâs your kids your home your body !!!
My mom was basically a nudist, and was always naked around myself and 3 other siblings(1 boy).
People do to much! Always minding someone elseâs business
My mom always walked around the house like that, hell sometimes the towel would drop. I have a sister and two older brothers. Iâve literally never even questioned it, as you said, I came from that woman. But I also wanted to say, that there has been studies done that show kids who have parents that are comfortable with their own bodies like that end up being comfortable and having confidence with their own body.
I also wanted to say to yâall, if she walked around Walmart in a towel youâd say âwhy is that lady naked in Walmartâ and not âit covers more than a bathing suitâ so instead of nitpicking and laughing at her wording when you know what it means maybe just answer her question or scroll.
It shows they respect your body as a body not just sexually most people are fucking cave ppl and think everything is about sex ugh
Naked no way. Teen boys. Not a grand idea. The naked body is for love making. Not for your kids to see you. Soft porn.
My mom walked around naked all the time. She didnât care who came into her house she would remain topless around them. If you are comfortable and they are ok with it then who cares.
I would never walk around naked infront of my sons and they are 8 and 12, in a towel yes⌠but thatâs DEFINITELY NOT naked is it.
I do it but I donât call it being naked. Donât use those words lmao. You are covered.
My son is 10 and you bet your ass I wrap myself in a towel to walk to my room.
I also wear a 5x large tshirt with just underwear all the time.
This is my house. If that boy can walk around in his undies so can I. Stop sexualizing everything guys. Just stop.
I saw a video about this debate and the girl said
âdonât worry about MY kids seeing me ânakedâ worry about your kids seeing me naked because if your kids see me naked then we have a problemâ
Thats not naked, I think almost everyone does thatâŚnaked would be walking around bare ass⌠in that case I dont agreeâŚbut to each there own.
If u got a towel on u ainât naked. I walk from the bathroom to my room wrapped in a towel, (but I like big towels so nothing but my shoulders arms and legs are showing). I also shut the door while getting dressed. I just dont like how humid the bathroom is after a shower.
Towel is ok, naked is a whole different story. Honestly It weird you think itâs ok for your teen boys who have hit puberty to see you naked.
I walk naked around my kids after a shower til I get dressed. My kids have come in while I shower to ask questions or tell me something. We never made it sexual or weird. They dont care at all. Its normal to them. They also at 12&16 come in when I go to the bathroom. I have walled around in my underwear too but they donât care and donât make it weird. Its something Iâve done their whole life.
Now my other half their dad is very private and thinks the boys seeing him naked is weird. His mother and father are very weird too though. He wasnât raised normally with MANY THINGS. They do see their dad in his undies though.
Itâs all about how you raise your kids and make it. Some older generations I know are very sensitive to nudity. I however grew up where it wasnât a thing
Not hurting anyone keep on doing what youâre doing momma
Itâs gross close your door and get ready. They donât need to see you like that.
Itâs a towel. No big deal. But at the same time, I wouldnât let my kids in if Iâm in a towel like that and them being older. Wait till Iâm dressed
For all of you that say wrong they see more at a beach then their mom wrapped in a towel. Morons
My fiancĂŠ freaks out if my breasts are out, I breastfed my youngest (now 6) for 2.5 years and my daughter well sheâs a girl I see nothing wrong with itâŚ
Oh honey. Those boys have seen and loved your body since they were born. Do your thing. Donât even worry about that hater. Iâm always naked around my kids and if someone donât make it weird then guess what, IT AINT WEIRD. Itâs normal. Itâs desensitizing them from womanâs bodies. Letting them know that bodies arenât just for sexual attention or just to look at for sex. Theyâve learned to appreciate bodies. Do you! Donât worry about them!
I donât think the towel on is weird, but my husband does. I think itâs different between men and women.
Seeing my mother naked no matter the scenario is weird and uncomfortable for ME and Iâm 23 years old and have my own child. I donât even want to be naked in front of my 2 year old.
Naked âŚthatâs a red flag âŚtowel eh
Towel is okay. I do the same with my 15 yo son in the house. Naked is not. I close my door when I go in my room & he knows not to come in when the door is closed.
You know whatâs inappropriate? People not minding their own business!!
in a towel and naked are two different things. a towel covers more than most bathing suits now a days. and id know cause i just bought one that my lips donât even wanna fit into lmao.
I mean a towel covers but thereâs no reason to leave doors open where they can see you either?..
okay but i saw my grandma in a towel after her showers up until i was 17-18, never once thought anything of it because thatâs my grandma. as long as ur not exposing urself, do you bby
My kids always walk in on me no matter what room Iâm in or if the door is closed we have never made the nude body to b a big deal we dont sexualize the body in my house
Put your freaking clothes on, have some self respect
Yeah itâs extremely wèird.
I mean, as long as you arenât waving your boobs around screaming âmy milkshake brings all the boys to the yardâ⌠We came into this world naked. Imagine if clothes were never a thing!
Iâm 27 and I still walk in on my mum when sheâs having a bath Iâve shaved her legs the whole shabamm⌠its not sexual if you teach them it isnât sexual
To each their own! If thatâs the way youâre raised and donât make a huge deal out of it, they donât make a deal of it either! Some people just dont like anyone seeing them naked as they think itâs inappropriate. What you do in your house hold as long as it isnât harming anyone, is your own business! Your boys are fine and they arenât going to be mentally scarred because itâs normal to them!