Track your ovulation if your not already. Have sex consecutively 2-3 days before ovulation. It’ll take a few months if u haven’t started tracking but it’s easy too track. Don’t go off of 14 days after your period starts. Go off of YOUR CYCLE. when you think your ovulating take a ovulation test. Theres lubricants that will help the swimmers bind better too you as your having sex. Keep your hips up so the sperm doesnt run down. Inexpensive. I didn’t get pregnant for 5 years and I wanted it badly. I got with a new guy and bam it took a year, and in that year 2 months of trying after tracking my ovulation for a long time.
Stop trying and it will just happen. Your thinking to hard about it.
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Stop trying. Relax, enjoy each other as you usually would and it will just happen.
Just Injoy. It will happen. When. God. Wontes it two. Happen.
I’m so very sorry you’re going through this hope you get your baby soon
Don’t dread it , have fun while u are practicing and just keep having fun but be positive , more will happen if you are
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We struggled for 2 years, I eventually let it go, my one friend told me drink folic acid 2 in the morning and 2 at night, a month later I was pregnant. My daughter is now 5, we didn’t plan for a second one but after 5 years I started taking the folic acid again to give our daughter a sibling, again a month later I was pregnant.
Both my kids are December babies. Don’t give up, don’t think about it, have fun with your partner. Also check your ovulation date and your most fertile days. My doctor said if you intimate then give it another 2 days then be intimate again especially 2 days before your most fertile day
I feel like tracking your ovulation is key 
also don’t put so much pressure on your self 
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Enjoy doing it and stop stressing about getting pregnant and relax. I heard more you stress and try to have a baby harder it is to get pregnant but as soon as you stop trying and enjoying it you fall pregnant.
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Just relax & forget about it & it will happen " I had got over trying & so was shocked when I did get pregnant " just enjoy life "
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My husband I tried for a long time. I had all the testing done, I ovulated regularly. As it turns out, my husband was the one with a fertility issue. Without ivf our chances of ever conceiving naturally were below 2%. Sometimes as easy as it to tell someone to “just relax, stop trying”, it doesn’t help. There are further things a fertility specialist can do to help before you have to turn to ivf.
Track your periods and ovulation the glow app for period tracking has been spot on for my ovulation. Also track your discharge. Might sound crazy but when you have egg white consistency this is your ovulation time and fertile time. This is when you want to have sex. Also preseed!
I was 37 when I had my one and only HERO! It’s never too late. Just TRY to be patient. When the time is right, He will make it happen.
Hope you get the wish you are always hoping for but.
Have sex every day for a month
I tried for 3 years. Then I gave up. Then this
Unexplained infertility is quite common 
theres no need to be ashamed about how you feel when people share news youre hoping to share…
Stop trying, see a fertility specialist as you might need a helping hand xx
Aww, honey, so sorry it hasn’t happened for you yet. Be patient…
Maybe y’all need to relax and enjoy each other and have fun in the bedroom and take the pressure off each other in other words stop try and relax
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Took me 7 years. If God has a baby for you. It will come in His timing
Several years ago I read in a nursing magazine that something as simple as taking a decongestant that help thin the cervix mucus has helped many! I told this to a coworker who was having problems conceiving…and a year later she had a baby…never knew if it helped!
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If a baby now is what is in both yours and your husbands hearts desire seek fertility help. It could happen naturally next year or maybe not for 7 yrs . That is an unknown you can’t control . But you can control taking things into your own hands and seeking help to fall pregnant if that’s what both your hearts long for. There is nothing wrong with taking control of creating the family you both long for. Seeing a fertility specialist may help you find out that the issue is actually easy to resolve. You won’t know until you try .
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Forget about it an you will relax , an then it will happen… Stress makes it worse … I DID THAT WITH MY 2ND CHILD WANTED THEM CLOSER TOGETHER TOOK ME A GOOD 12 MTHS I FORGOT ABOUT AN NEXT THING IT HAD HAPPENED … tHEN I HAD 2 MORE AFTER THAT …GOOD LUCK TAKE CARE
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Maybe your stressing about it so much that it’s causing complications, just relax, don’t put so much pressure on your self or your husband. It’s gonna happen when it happens no Matter what… sending lots of love strength and prayers for you and your family
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keep up an upper lip, it will happen when it happens
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Give up then it’ll happen. For real though, try and relax.
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It hurts. I understand. It’s hard to be excited for loved ones when you feel the pain. Remember you’re okay, your strong, your time will come
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I know announcements are hard on you but please don’t express that to family members who are pregnant. I got pregnant after being told & accepting that I would never have kids. It was unplanned obviously & not the best situation. My cousin was married, was trying to get pregnant for a couple years. All I heard my whole pregnancy & until they did have kids is that it should be her, she deserved a baby more etc. It really screwed me up as far as pregnancy goes. It was so bad that I wouldn’t let them take me out the regular door of the hospital. I was ashamed I had a child when someone ‘more deserving’ couldn’t. You’ll get pregnant when it’s time.
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just stop trying so hard it will happen when you least think about it…
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My husband and I have been trying since getting married in October of 2021. We have had 3 miscarriages since then and it has been devastating. It’s hard when people announce they are pregnant, and the comments from people who are trying to be supportive can make it worse 
hang in there
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Stop planning and trying so hard, You know nothing is wrong to prevent it so live your life , cause it happens when you least expect it.
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Infertility was one of the most difficult things I’ve ever experienced. I used to cry every month when I got my period. Have you tried an ovulation predictor? That helps some people. After that, I’d go to an Infertility clinic which was how we got pregnant. Just know you’re not alone.
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A lot of people say once is enough to get you preganant but I actually learned from my doctor that for most trying couples it takes about 2 years. If all is good don’t worry you’ll get there. My sister in law tried for almost a decade and boom 2 kids later.
Try acupuncture. It worked for a friend of mine and is generally covered by insurance.
How old are you and your husband?
I get this. I know everyone says “it will happen when it’s supposed to” “quit trying or your trying to hard” “just relax” and just shuts you down so fast when really all you wanted to do was to talk to someone about it…. I felt like talking about it helped me but everyone just shuts you down so fast with the comments you really just don’t want to hear bc you’ve heard them over and over from everyone else.
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I too have been through this I had my first child it was no problem once he was 8 months old we wanted to try again but it didn’t happen so a year passed still nothing the it turned into 2 years still nothing so when he turned 3 I went to a ob doctor and he put me on metformin and clomid to see if any thing happens well nothing so 4 years went and 5 and so on and so forth well so 7 years come and I finally had my second but please keep in mind you are not alone in this at all it does take time it my not happen when you expect it to but it will happen tho I promise but don’t give up trying though I know it’s so hard to get discouraged and you see everyone you know getting pregnant or hearing about someone getting pregnant it tears you down mentally it so hard but but just keep in mind that I know it will happen
I miscarried the week my niece was born. It was brutal bc I couldn’t overshadow the birth and damn I was sad. I ended up having a boy 2 yrs later. Just the one.
Here comes all my “stop trying and let it happen” comments of those who don’t have these issues. I get it. Reach out to your Obgyn or a fertility specialist. We battled for years (5). And now for another we are battling going on a year and a half. No end on sight even trying what worked the first time. Stay strong. They at one point told me I had blocked tubes etc. But I know it hurts. Stay strong and know that they are on a different path than you.
Honey, relax.
Y’all need a weekend away. Just be romantic and have fun with each other. Stress can make it harder.
You’ll get the bundle of joy. 
We’ve been trying for 10 years for a second child and it just isn’t happening for us. It’s frustrating and heartbreaking because I got pregnant with my first while on birth control. I understand this post completely. And I’m sorry you’re going through this.
If you don’t try it usually happens on it’s own! Your stressing yourself out so much that it may actually be stressing the rest of your body out and that can be making it harder to conceive.
Try to get it inermanated
Have you seen a fertility clinic ?
A friend of mine tried for many years. Acupuncture is what helped her
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Best the greatest advice ever
Stop stressing
Stop thinking about having a baby(not like literally stop trying just don’t think about it)
RELAX,
PLAY WITH EACH OTHER IF THAT’S WHAT YOUR INTO
JUST MAKE LOVE TO EACH OTHER.
HECK TAKE 1-2 HOURS OF JUST MAKING LOVE TO EACH OTHER.
ENJOY, RELAX, STOP STRESSING, STOP WORRYING.
BABY WILL BE CONCEIVED WHEN HE/SHE WANTS TO BE.
GOOD LUCK!!
Start with this book. You will be amazed at what you thought you was true about your body and fertility and what was really going on. All the stuff that we’ve been taught about our cycles on our fertility days is confusing and we’ve only been taught bits and pieces. By the time you’re done with this book, you’re going to have a completely different outlook and a different strategy. I hope it works for you like it did for us and many people. I’ve referred it to!
Taking Charge of Your Fertility, 20th Anniversary Edition: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062326031/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_BAMMJM2B4XANB0KBRBDC
Please contact Patti Hano. She is a fertility specialist along with being a wonderful and compassionate women. Patti had similar issues and figured out what works.
Patti Hano please reach out to this lady. She needs your help.
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Try concive plus comes in a lube for both to use during intercourse also can get ones just for you etc definitely check it out read reviews I swear by it all my friends who been trying for years and had issues all fell pregnant xx
We used vitex. It’s so wonderful
God bless you and your journey
I quit trying and it just happened
you may not think it will work but try ashwagandha as tincture and acupuncture. I didn’t think it would work. I had ten years to accept not being able to have kids. Their names are Steven Jr and Matthew. I saw a naturopathic doctor for much more pressing issues I had undiagnosed celiac disease so it was some combination of the proper diet for my undiagnosed food sensitivities and this tincture Ashwagandha it’s very very common in India my whole brother in laws family takes it apparently because I asked him if it was true its common there. It’s good for a number of things but increases libido and fertility like a lot. And also when I conceived both times I was dragging myself out of bed at dawn and cooking a balanced breakfast because my partner was working 12-14 hours of hard labour. I never eat breakfast but both times I conceived I did, just for a few months.
Honey…when God thinks you’re ready for a baby…God will put one in your life trust me… Sometimes you just gotta let God work his magic & bam u just never know! I pray everything works out for you two!! 
