Marriage life is already hard

Me and my husband haven’t even been married a year and I already feel like I’m losing him. We fight and make up but even when we stop fighting for weeks it seems like he just wants to be done. He accuses me of being distant and not happy but when he acts like that I just got to be fine with it. I feel like I’m not what he wants anymore and there is past reasons and not so past reasons of why I think like this. I really need advice on what to do or some motivational advice.

I’ve always heard the first year of marriage is the hardest. Your marriage is new, don’t give up on it. Try to talk about it, communication literally saves relationships

See that’s the thing though I try to talk and than he turns it around say I’m starting stuff and everything else. I know communication is important but he doesn’t want that.