My 15-month-old is refusing to eat: Advice?

My son did this when he was younger, unfortunately I found the best advice was the same your doctor gave you, mine gave me, and my mothers gave her. He won’t starve himself to death. He’s not sickly or malnourished, I kept offering little bites of things and eventually he got over it and now eats a little too much if I’m honest :sweat_smile:

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He could be fighting some sickness off that isn’t showing up in a fever or any other symptoms. It could pass as soon as his body gets back to normal. I would not force him to eat anything, that will just cause stress on the child which can decrease his appetite even more. I would continue with the shakes or pediasure. That way he is still getting nutrients. Before each meal wait at least three hours with no liquid except water so he will build up an appetite, but if he doesn’t eat I would then just offer the shakes.

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My nearly 3yo daughter is like this. Easier said than done, but don’t worry. She’s not a picky eater, she just doesn’t care to eat. At first, we worried about her. But, as time went on and she wasn’t losing weight, we calmed down some. Although, when she’s ready eat, she’ll chow down. But, she goes days without wanting a lot, then days chowing. Just make sure he stays hydrated and he’ll eat when he’s ready.

My kids always did this when they were getting ready to hit a major growth spurt. Then all of a sudden they were eating anything and everything in sight. I wouldn’t worry too much if you can take him outside to play and burn off some energy that may help also. Pedisure is a good option just to get him some nutrients and calories. Good luck

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A toddlers growth slows down at this time and it isn’t abnormal for them to slow down eating as well. As long as the doctor isn’t concerned and he’s gaining weight and otherwise healthy then I don’t think there is any cause for alarm. That being said, make sure that every calorie he consumes is nutritionally solid. Protein protein protein! If he drinks at least 3 glasses of whole milk and has a multivitamin he should be good. Absolutely NO JUICE! Juice is calorically dense but offers very little nutrition. It’s pure sugar which will make him think he’s full. Other than milk and water offer him bites of food when he’s ready.

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My daughter had thrush she would drink but not eat. And then when older, her teeth were sore she wouldn’t eat solids only mushy foods, turns out enamel didn’t correctly develop on her teeth pediatric dentist said it most likely happened when I was pregnant with her and sick running a fever when her teeth were developing. Poor kid. She’s 9 now and happy healthy. Follow your gut, don’t force feed. You tried, it didn’t work. So it’s something else. Lots of hugs and kisses.

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I would have healthy snacks and finger foods (protein) available throughout the day and offer them, not to sound gross but is he having normal bowel movements? Or is he constipated? My daughter had issues with constipation and she wouldn’t eat…we learned in nursing to try colorful plates or one that has his favorite cartoon character on it and to offer healthy finger foods…make eating time “fun” with the character plates and have him help out like peeling a tangerine and praise him for being a “big boy helper” good luck😊

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My son did this two years ago when he was 4 years old. It went on for a couple of weeks. I was in tears everyday begging him to eat. The doctors said it’s probably something he feels like he can control and that’s why he’s doing it? I did give him muscle milk each day and he would drink that. The doctor ended up giving me acid reflux medication and that seemed to help. I made him mashed potatoes and he ate that for a few days and all of the sudden he was back to eating food. So weird! We even quit the reflux medication a few weeks after he started it and he was totally fine. It’s so stressful but he’ll come around.

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I’m going through the same thing with my 2yr old grandson. His brother did the same thing. Doctor said they will eat when they are hungry. I keep putting the meals out there. Then I leave it up to him to decide. He is gaining weight so I don’t worry as much. His brother is 5 and still eats very little

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My pediatrician told me my son (now 51) could live on 6 peas. What a relief!
He said to put food on his highchair tray. If he ate. Fine. If he didn’t, he would when he was hungry. He said not to make a big deal out of the "eating " experience or it could became a control issue .
After the time you are finished eating you wash hands, hug, get down, no big deal. Go play. Healthy snack after naps are fine. Eat. Great. Don’t eat. Fine.
No anxiety on your part.
Trust me in 13 years you won’t be able to buy food fast enough.
Enjoy this moment with him. He’ll be fine .

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My daughter would go through periods like this when she was young. Sometimes she wouldn’t be hungry. She would just eat a little bit of what I offered, then some days she would eat non stop. I came to learn when she was going to grow a few inches. Your essential shakes are probably filling him up. As long as he’s pooping, and peeing regularly, and not loosing weight dramatically, like his doctor said he will be fine. I’m sure you know that trying to force feed him is bad, I’m just going to say, that shouldn’t be necessary, as he can choke and can be psychology scared, and he will let you know when he’s hungry. If there is actually a problem, the doctors will be able to help you with maybe a tube feeding after testing and ect… I do understand your fear though. This is one of those times when you need to trust him a little.

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I learned a long time ago in some classes I had to take that a lot of times the child wants independence. Eating is the only thing they have control over, and will refuse to eat because they can. You may just have a stubborn kid, but I wouldn’t worry too much. He will get hungry and want to eat eventually. Maybe try giving him a choice of foods, so he can still choose and feel like he is in control. I know it is weird, but it is true. Hang in there!

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My great granddaughter was diagnosed with eating disorder and mild autism. She didnt each after about 8 months. She had sensory issues and needed food therapy twice a week for 3 years. She had to be taught to use her tongue and chewing properly with back teeth. Craziest thing I’ve ever seen.
I’ve babysat her for a week at a time and found she’d eat small portions at 2 hour intervals.
She’s 6 now and is a "picky " eater but at least tries new things occasionally.

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If you force feed him he’ll never eat. Give him some strawberry yogurt. See if he likes that. Some applesauce. Things that are sweet but still nutritious

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Don’t force you’re only going to cause trauma to your child. He will eat when he is ready.

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My 1 and a half year old is doing the same thing. I leave snacks and options out for her to graze on when she wants. It helps if I’m eating something and act like I REALLY enjoy it and make her favorite soup with veggies.
She eats when she’s hungry! Asks for a drink when she’s thirsty.

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Totally normal at 15 months! Food is one of the only things they can control! He will eat when he’s hungry! My son is living on muffins and yogurt at the moment. And I dont feel bad about it at all. Kids will eat when they are hungry and forcing them can give them a negative relationship with food which will cause a myriad of issues when they grow up.

Hang in there momma you got this!

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My son went days without eating around that age. His doctor said the sane thing yours did, “he’ll eat when he’s hungry.” He did drink a lot of milk then, so I cut back on it thinking that would help. Nope. Best advice I can give, is to just keep offering him food. Don’t force him. As long as he’s still growing and isn’t sick, I wouldn’t worry.

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Don’t force it. Kids go through eating cycles. At that age, free feeding works best. If all he wants is some milk and Cheerios, let it be. If he becomes ill or his weight begins declining, go back to the doc. At that age, my son wouldn’t eat anything without both ketchup and mustard. Whatever. They outgrow it. If you make it a battle, it will forever be a battle.

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I have 8 kids and step kids. 2 grandkids. They will eat when they are hungry. As long as he is doing all the normal boy things he is fine. It’s a toddler thing. Eating, drinking and sleeping are the only thing they can control, so they do. It drives momma’s crazy but that grow out of it. Try not to stress. You can offer him good, leave it lay around, give him pediasure but he will grow and be ok. Much love and luck.

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Just let him be as long as hes gaining weight, peeing .and pooping , not cranky or moody . He will be fine , if he likes those drinks then give it to him 3x a day . He will eat eventually . I went through this with my son for almost 3 years .

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I have two children one who is 5 and the other is 8 trust me your child is not going to be malnourished. The doctor is right when he is ready he will eat. Do not force him to eat because it will become a chore for him instead of him actually enjoying it.

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Take him to see another doctor for a second opinion or have your doctor send you to a specialist…but don’t wait…a baby needs to eat…dont let your baby get dehydrated…keep us updated please …

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My son did the same when he was teething. Even at 4 when his molars where coming in. Just had to stick with broth, breakfast drinks, anything he didn’t have to chew. Good luck

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Watch his weight, and try hard not to force it. He may be getting a tooth, or have a bug. How is his pooh, if it is harder it could be constipation. My youngest would stop eating when backed up. Keep a food journal. You will have to let him loose weight before the doctor will help. He will be fine.

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My daughter wouldn’t really eat a lot as a toddler, I voiced my concerns with her pediatrician and he basically said she will eat when she’s hungry, if everything ate like toddlers there would be no obesity. Now she’s 5.5 and eats almost everything

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I would follow his doctor’s advice. He will eat when he gets hungry. Just keep trying but I wouldn’t force it.

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My son would refuse ANYTHING, usually a few days before he got sick but randomly… He was skinny with no body fat (he’s tall) we gave him “strawberry milk” everyday (pedisure) and he eventually became a good eater (he drank “strawberry milk” for 2 years …it became a hard habit to break but there’s good stuff in it 🤷) he now is 7 still tall for his age and slightly beefy lol he’s a GOOD eater now! Eg of dinner… 1lb of steak (yes he eats a whole one to him self) beans (a lot) bread a cup of milk and a dinner plate size salad (he only eats lettuce and ranch) with a cup of steam broccoli and wants a snack bout an hour later… He eats 2 hamburgers when we eat those… 6-9 pancakes for breakfast…he’s very active and always hungry

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Being between growth spurts can be a factor…my son eats barely at all between spurts but when he goes through a growth spurt he eats the household dry :joy: but if you’re worried I would supplement with pediasure just to make sure kiddo is getting nutrition

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Could he be getting food from other places? Perhaps someone is giving him snacks that you are unaware of? If he is gaining weight I would not be worried, each child knows what they need. We all go through times when our appetites are low, if you force him it could make the situation worse. Just put out some Cheerios on a plate or other cereal, in time his appetite will bounce back. Sometimes as moms we overthink, we all have done it.

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One of my sons went through that too. Carnation Instant Breakfast is what his doctor recommended. Also Pediasure is good. Some kids just don’t like to eat.

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If you are worried about him not eatting give him a pediasure drink or 2 a day. That’s what my doctor recommended when I got concerned. It never made my son gain a lot of weight just gave him the vitamins and protein he needed. They are a little expensive but worth it. :woman_shrugging: They are cheaper online for more verses in the store. also might be constipated if his poo is hard or looks like little balls. Just try to stay calm he can feel when you’re upset. Hope this helps momma.

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My daughter did the same thing as a baby… Pediatrician said she will eat when she is hungry. Frustrating and stressful as a parent… She ate nothing but Mac n cheese and hot dogs for what seemed like forever…or simply refused to eat at all. I felt like a failure (my own guilt…I had a wonderful support system) … She is now a beautiful, successful, caring wife, mother and teacher at the “ripe old age of28”. The doctors know what they are talking about… from experience. Trust them AND your instincts :two_hearts::two_hearts::two_hearts:.

Please don’t feed your child pediasure or ensure. Google carageenen; it’s a cancer causing ingredient that’s in those drinks! Not to mention the substantial amount of sugar. If a child isn’t eating, there’s an underlying reason that would cause me to reach out to another dr for a second opinion. In the meantime, try making homemade smoothies with real veggies and fruit. The child will then get the proper nutrition without harmful ingredients. Children are also typically grazers. I would leave out healthy snack foods for the child to graze on throughout the day. This is my humble opinion.

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If little ones drink a lot of milk or are getting a nutritional drink that has enough calories to sustain them usually they just are not hungry. Also I don’t know what your weather is like but my son always refused solids when he was little when it was hot.

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It has been over 40 years, but the doctor told me to not push it, that when he gets hungry he will eat
I would be sure and make food available. Mealtimes with the family. For certain be sure he is kept hydrated
Maybe some popsicles will help with that.

I am a firm believer in any behavior that is acknowledged will be repeated. IGNORE IT. He will NOT starve himself.

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My oldest has a G-Tube for feeds. She refused to eat when she was little and we were sent to a gastroenterologist. She has severe oral aversion and other health issues. I would see about getting an opinion of a GI just to be safe!!!

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Mom of 3-- they all go through this! My 21 month old takes a few bites of whatever and then walks away. I give her popsicles that are made with whole fruits and veggies to insure she’s getting something but she won’t even eat those at times.

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Put it on your plate and say how good it is, then ask another adult (or older sibling ) if they would like to try a bite, because it is so good… a lot of times that age is just a hard time for eating… kids just eat when they want to…

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My very healthy 7 year old lived on mostly milk until he was 18 months old. Try just putting him in his his highchair when you eat and letting him just play with food from your meals. To keep it safe mash it up very well or cut it do it looks like French fries. You might try baby led feeding ideas as well.

My son would my eat cereal and ice cream for a while at that age. Please do not traumatize him by force feeding. He qi eat eventually. If is health begins to fail then revisit the doctor. Good luck!

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My son was the same way. I worried thinking he was sick. So I took him to his Dr. He was healthy. No anemia. He woikd only eat a few Cheerios and some liquids. Dr said its ok as long as some thing goes down. As long as he does pipi and poop he good. He had energy. I asked if it was ok to give pediasure and she said yes. He actually liked it. She said not to force it and he will eat when he wants.

That sounds so frustrating. My almost 2 year old will have “lighter” eating days where she won’t hardly eat more than one meal, but she poops fine and is growing well so I try not to worry about it and let her listen to her body. Which is always easier said than done and it sounds like you have a more intense situation. I would try to follow the pediatrician’s thoughts as much as possible. It could be that your child just doesn’t need as much right now. If they are gaining weight and growing then that would be the most important thing to follow I would think. Days with little food sounds like a lot, but unless it’s weeks of no food whatsoever, then I would try to stress less with it. If you have to force feed, then that probably won’t help in the way you want it to. It sounds like you care so much and are worried which is our job as moms, but it could very well be just fine for your little one. I would keep letting your doctor know the situation and if your kid seems like they are suffering physically in any way, then I would start changing tactics, but until then, try letting it go and doing it your child’s way for a bit by letting them tell you when they are hungry. Offer food at each meal time, but don’t push it.

Try finger foods and allow him to feed himself. Or if that doesn’t work, let him eat what he wants. Something is better than nothing. Also, keep an eye on his gut health… if he’s having bouts of constipation he likely won’t have an appetite. Been through all 3 I listed… sometimes it’s wanting independence, sometimes it’s a change in tastes or a faze and sometimes it’s the gut. Good luck momma. :blush:

If everything else is on track and his doctor shows no concern, don’t force him to eat. It’s hard to watch, but the truth is kids will eat if they’re hungry. My friend would fix six things for breakfast to try to find something her son wanted to eat. My son ate it all but her’s, not one bite. If it continues, just watch his behavior and keep up with his doctor or nutrisionist. Keep up the breakfast essentials or Pedialyte if he will drink it. Take a deep breath and relax. Kids are amazing.

If he’s been evaluated and has no sensory or other issues or disorder let him
be.
Little children gave little if any power. You pick them up and move them when you want, whether they want to or not.
You CANNOT make them
Eat, sleep, or use the toilet
Pick your battles carefully.

So many comments I can’t read through them all, but if this hasn’t been suggested already I would recommend an eval for tongue tie and lip tie. My daughter never liked the purées or solid food when she would try it she often gagged or choked and began refusing until we got her ties fixed. It wasn’t a fix all she still is very picky but it helped tremendously. Best of luck mama.

All 3 of mine went through this phase. Either not eating for days or only eating 1 or 2 items for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snack. As long as he’s drinking and not losing weight or lethargic…my Dr always told me they’ll be fine and it’s completely normal. They’re testing their limits and coming into their own.

Just leave food options available to him. My daughter went thru this around the same age. As soon as her molars came in she started eating again. I gave her pediasure and other nutritional drinks so she got the nutrients she needed

A doctor once told me that your body needs x amount of vitamins and minerals, the rest goes to waste. Get a Gummyvite or a supplement that gives your child what hus body needs and let him start eating at his own pace without causing harm.

My kids are teenagers now and they went through time like that. Sometimes weeks hardly eating anything but a bite or two here and there. They stayed on weight and were fine. Sometimes with their growth spurts they either eat a lot of barely anything. If he starts losing weight then take him back to the doctor but give it some time. My youngest went 2 years without any weight gain or loss and hardly ate anything for weeks just a bite here and there and she is perfectly healthy. As long as he isn’t losing weight and he is still going to the bathroom normally just give him time.

My kids always wanted to eat what I was eating, so I’d give them bites of mine. If you are concerned of nutrients, get him meal replacement shakes (they have ones for kids)

My 9 yr is like this, partly because he is ADHD and we choose to medicate him and he doesn’t have to have a pill every single day my dr said the same thing, he will be when he is hungry, kids don’t usually starve themselves and forcing them probably causes more harm than good…anyways he gets an instant breakfast shake just about everyday with his breakfast, he usually doesn’t eat much for lunch and supper is a struggle… but recently I decided to make a snack basket for him and I fill it up with little snacks for every day, like fruit cup, cereal bars, cheese crackers, juice pouch, etc… and he able to come and get whatever he wants out of his basket, whenever he wants through out the day, especially works well on his non medicated days… hope that makes sense and hope it gets easier :blush:

My son used to do that… for DAYS. Turned out he liked Ensure (nourishment drink) my grandfather let him taste his and he loved it so I bought Ensure for back up. I always encouraged food first

My kids all went through phases like this and still do at 7,5, and 2. Sometimes I feel like how are you surviving on what you are.eating, but they are all extremely healthy, active, and sleep well so I’ve let it go. If babe starts losing weight or feeling fatigued then I would worry. Otherwise just keep offering healthy foods and they will eat when hungry.

Don’t force him… He’ll only associate the eating with being forced to do something he don’t like… Kids go thru phases… At long as he’s getting his shakes he should be ok. I think a phase can last for up to 2 weeks. My 5 year old was eating so good the last 2 weeks… This past weekend I got just breakfast out of him and maybe a few snacks… He will be ok, keep the water going if anything

You really shouldn’t force feed a child. It’s totally normal for a child that age to start deciding what his/her body requires. That good old American "clean your plate and eat 3 full meals " is what caused obesity. Ride it out momma. Let your child be your guide. If you’re really concerned, keep a food journal and go back to the doctor in a few weeks

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Wow! Shocked at some of these comments. The women is desperately seeking advice GOOD advice NOT insults. She is probably a first time mom. A good mom acts just like she does. She is concerned. I am sure those of us who have older children or more than one were just as worried about our first child as this lady is with hers. Yes a pediatrician can help you make informed decisions for how to handle your children, But this is not a one size fits all issue. I don’t know if I wouldn’t have wanted to force food into my child’s mouth if I hadn’t seen them eat anything. Geez give the lady a break. She is learning. We all had to.

He will eat when he’s hungry enough. Don’t force feed him, doing that will just make him fear meal time. Set out snacks where he can reach and he will eat on his own.

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My son was poor eater. His pediatrician told me as long as he eats 1 good meal in 3 days, he will be fine. I cemented that thought in my head and allowed him to take control of his eating. And he did! Be patient.

My first daughter was like this. Pediatrician said she wouldn’t willingly starve herself. Maybe he’s getting back molars? Either way let him drink what he wants and wait it out a bit.

My son would only eat gold fish at that age and the pediatrician said to let him be.
If he is not underweight, he is fine. He will grow out of it at some point I’m sure. But ask the doctor.

Maybe he wants to feed himself? Maybe he’s teething? Force feeding isn’t a good idea. I’d give some toddler safe options and see if he just wants more independence. Maybe give milk instead of water so he’s getting some calories. Children know their bodies instinctively and sometimes we need to be open to listening to them when they can’t SAY what the want/need

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Try pediasure shakes to give him the vitamins if he will drink them. My mother told me my sister ate nothing but cheerios for a month and her doctor said as long as they are eating something it’s better than nothing. So even if its junky food or something small at least he is eating. Good luck momma!!

Does he drink a lot of milk? Honestly like the dr said he will eat when he is hungry I went through this with all 4 of my kids still going through it with my 3 year old… literally tonight a lone he kept saying he wanted to give me a hug while eating dinner made a deal with him however many bites you take you can give me that many hugs… I try to make a game out of it while they are young

Don’t stress. They would eat when they want to. So far as he is healthy and no signs of temperature or anything. Charlie I had same experience and now am tired of cooking. My boy eats like no one’s business

Is there anything he will eat? I have one with sensory issues and as a baby he lived on plain noodles, waffles, and gold fish. Sometimes apple’s or yogurt. Sometimes chicken nuggets. He also liked food room temp or cold. :mask: I just fed him whatever he’d eat. I tried so many things before finding he’d eat those five.

My youngest child went through a phase at 16 months all she wanted was milk. … she eventually started eating again. We started with snacks.

My daughter used to do the same and she got diagnosed with reactive airway disease. All the docs told me not to worry and dont force feed without any diagnosis. Then i changed her pediatrician and once her issue was resolved she started eating normal. So i disagree with the theory of dont worry and dont force feed

My son is 18
Months and been going through the same phase. Im not worried I give him a few things here and there, but he drinks milk so thst is enough for me right now. I’m sure it’s a growth spurt or the heat! Don’t worry I’m sure its fine…

My son went through this, I was freaking out. He was about the same age, he also did this around 2 and at 2 1/2. He is now an honors college student in perfect physical shape. He was sensitive with food textures as a small child and he would go through periods like I said where he hardly kept enough in him. I stopped freaking out and had pediatric nutritional shakes in hand. Just like the dr said he ate when he was hungry. Don’t traumatize him or yourself with force feeding.

My daughter is 6. She is never hungry. I try offering to make her foods I know she likes, but I really have to wait her out. She drinks water and milk, so I can get some nutrients in her system. Chocolate milk, is actually a protein shake. She likes smoothies too, strawberry and bananas only though. All I can say is put out healthy snacks for him to graze on. If it’s in his line of
Sight, maybe he will be more likely to eat. Also if he is continuing to grow, then he is getting enough nutrients to help him. Best wishes!
PS I am sure when he gets into his teens, he will be eating ALL the time. My 18 year old does :rofl:

Have you tried letting him feed himself just sit him in a chair with food and see if he feeds himself or let him watch a tablet and feed while he’s not thinking about it aways works for me when they go of food. I know not a good habit to start but if it works! Good luck x

My daughter is 3.5 and she eats just enough to stay alive so when you figure it out let me know!! When she eats its generally healthy… She loves green beans and steamed broccoli and she eats one of those every night of the week…

My 5 year has done that for awhile. And is just now getting to the point where he will eat well. Just keep offering a variety of healthy foods and he will be fine. That is what the doctor told me and she was right. He gained weight and is perfectly healthy. As long as they are gaining they are okay. Lord knows I worried sick about it constantly but he is fine and I just knew he was not eating enough but apparently he is.

My son was a picky eater when he was about your boys age couldn’t get anything in him other then noodles with butter, fries or rice and pediasure. Everything had to be really plain now at 5 he will eat all day long if I let him. Kids can also go off of food when they are in between growth spurts. I wouldn’t worry to much of he’s gaining weight and is healthy your doing fine mama

I did a “gourmet selection” which she would request, with lots of different foods in a plate, just little bits of everything. She would graze throughout the day. Same thing for dinner but meal time foods.

Just give him different foods that he can pick up and eat himself. He may not be growing at this time. But he will eat when be is hungry. Just offer him different choices at meal times along with healthy foods throughout the day. Be patient. Keep him hydrated with fluids in his sippy. He should be fine. If he refuses dont force just wait leave it where it is acceptable to him

My son did the same thing. I spoke to his Dr. About it and he told me that boys tend to do that. Don’t force them to eat, they’ll let you know when they’re hungry. And one day it’ll stop and they’ll just start eating. My son’s 14 now and trust me… he eats. :rofl::rofl: Dr. Also told me that if I’m concerned about his nutrition give him pediasure and of course daily vitamins.

Take it from someone who had a child who didn’t eat…leave him be…he will eat when he gets hungry. Yes it’s concerning I had a nutritionist come out to my place to evaluate my child and as long as he’s not malnourished, not losing weight, and is healthy don’t force feed him food that will only make it worse. Make him a plate and put it where he normally eats and give him the option to eat it if he chooses. He might surprise you

Stop forcing him to eat, you’re going to give him an unhealthy relationship with food.
Listen to your doctor. Kids don’t let themselves starve, they will eat when they’re hungry.

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At that age my daughter had an issue with texture everything felt like pins and needles on her tongue. She need feeding therapy and after she went for about 8 months she was eating. My therapist said let her choose what she wanted to eat as it was due to texture she did grow out of it but was about 2 before she ate fully

Is he teething? Sometimes my 18 month old son doesn’t want to eat because he’s teething and his gums hurt. When the pain goes away I can’t put enough food in front of him lol

All kids go through this. But please don’t force him to eat. That will make it worse. Just offer him food and if he don’t eat then just make sure he is getting his fluids and maybe pedialyte. Or his breakfast essentials. That way he will get some nutrients.

our pediatrician told us that babies will go through spells when they are growing. When your baby/toddler is really eating everything not nailed down, then you can expect to see a physical growth spurt soon. And when they slack off on eating…they will not starve themselves, they are growing intellectually. as long as the baby has a good skin color, is warm and dry, and making urine that is pale yellow, not to worry.

Try to stop with the babyfoods and just set out a plate of steamed veggies and soft fruits where he can reach it himself (keep an eye on him of course). My eldest would hardly eat for days at that age but if he ate he wanted to choose himself.
My youngest only started on solide when she was 6 months old (brestfed) and with her I started using this method (rapley method) after a week because she would spit out baby food, fresh or bought, she didn’t like the texture. And try to just giving him enough of that formula (don’t know it, live in Belgium,we don’t have that over here) but just in the morning and/or in the evening because his stomach will be full with that otherwise.
One thing more: children need a spoon full of food a day per year to eat enough. so if he’s 15 months, he needs about 1,5 tablespoons a day to feel full…

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He could be teething… As long as he is drinking, peeing and pooping, He is good to go. He maybe too busy to eatif he us interested in the things he plays with.

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Teething, ear infection, sinus infection, or middle of growth spurt…I’d try giving them some cold (ice, popsicle, ice water) before meals and you will know if its teething… my kids ate slot of frozen berries and peas til two years old.

And always always trust your mom gut! You know your kid best!

My son would never take a spoon no matter what we tried. My mom told me to make a larger hole in the nipple and then fill it with baby food. He didn’t like the texture so he wouldn’t eat it with a spoon but he would take it from a bottle. He has significant health issues and as a result he was on pediasure from age 2 to age 7. Just an idea if your kiddo still takes a bottle.

I wouldn’t force him or make a big deal about it. You dont want to traumatize him. But if it lasts more than 5days I’d see about getting him in to be checked. Options are good & a protein drink is better than nothing. He may be constipated…& that can be more of a problem if not taken care of. Hope he gets back on track!!

He’s right offer him every food group at meals he’ll pick what his body needs and if not don’t offer to make other things. It becomes control teething does it too w two ye molars :tooth:

My youngest has days where he hardly eats anything, then he will go for days where he eats everything in sight. If he will drink, then will be fine, he’s staying hydrated. You can give him pediasure.

My youngest daughter was the same way. But her docter took it a little more seriously could be because she was a premature baby but drinking alot can be a sign of diabetes if it continues you may want to get that checked out. Other than that she would drink pediasure and eventually she started eating was and still is very picky about what she eats

When this happened to my daughter, we found out that she was constipated, so after doctors gave her something to help her poop, she started eating again

My granddaughter used to do that she just wouldn’t eat for us we did force her but she drank milk at night so we would let her have much as she wanted the she would eat but sometimes 2 days at a time when she did eat she ate good she is 7 now and she doesn’t do it anymore

My daughter went through this when she was younger. just give them what ever they want, bribe him with anything and everything. if possible if he only drinks at breakfast then give him a couple aday. the best thing you can do is in feed them whatever they want however don’t ever force them to eat because its just gonna make it worse. my daughter went through it like I said and she’s been fine, lately since she turned 14 she does the same thing again but as long as I know she’s eating something at some point in time during the day it’s fine. if he goes too long without eating anything, I mean like not even his breakfast drink or anything then take him to the hospital. Good luck and god bless.

My son went through this and still does at 8 years old. The doctors have always told me that he’ll eat when he’s hungry. And trust me, he sure does. His height and weight have always been fine. As moms, of course we’re worried. But I finally decided that if the doctors weren’t worried, then maybe I shouldn’t be. An I still convinced he doesn’t eat enough? Yes. But he eats when he’s hungry. Forcing him to eat caused too many tears-mine and his- and too much wasted food.

Toddlers go through fazes where they literally just snack all day…just get some Cheerios carrots grapes a variety of little snacks that are still some what filling…don’t worry your child isn’t going to starve .

My daughters were like that. It’s ok. Doctor told me to give them vanilla ice cream. I also gave them smoothies. I used frozen mangos, frozen strawberries and bananas. I use cranberry juice. Blended all together. They love it! Still do now. I also gave them Ensure drinks. It has protein. I don’t give them all the time. That will help them for short time.

Actually this age is a critical the simple tip which i got from my elder when my son was 15 months old that make time for his milk don’t give when ever he asks , and especially at the time of break fast nd lunch …dont give him feeder before getting up .so when he got up he will feel hungry. Andd he will start eating .do same at the time of lunch nd dinner .though it was tough fr me to make him understand that dont ask fr milk at these time but slowly he accepted it