My best friend stopped talking to me when I told her I was pregnant: Advice?

Was she pregnant before she moved in :face_with_raised_eyebrow: this sounds like a pre- Maury pep talk.

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Her conscience is bothering her

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If sheā€™s at your house all the time and Iā€™m presuming sheā€™s singleā€¦ who do you think the father might be ??

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Sounds like you need a new best friend

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Could be wrong but very much seems like your boyfriend is the dad

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Wow- Iā€™m like the OP here- I would have never thought that from reading this but now that yā€™all say itā€¦ā€¦ā€¦makes sense!

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Sounds like a her problem. Not worth your time.

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I was thinking Sheā€™s in love with you, but the other comments could be true too

Will we be receiving an update?

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Wasnā€™t this a post a few days ago?

Sounds like your boyfriend has 2 kids on the wayā€¦ā€¦

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Your boyfriend is her baby daddy

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Sounds like you and said bestie have the same baby daddy! Girlā€¦she ainā€™t no bestie. Whereā€™s Maury when you need him? You are the father!!!

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Either sheā€™s in love with you or your boyfriend is the baby daddy

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Yeah, she was definitely sleeping with your boyfriend.

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Is it possible you boyfriend is her babyā€™s father

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Find a new best friend

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Either sheā€™s jealous youā€™re pregnant and she didnā€™t want to share the limelight or like the rest are saying yā€™all have the same baby daddy .

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I wanna know what happened hereā€¦

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From experience all I have to say is girl open your eyes

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Yep I think your boyfriend knows the answer

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Sorry she probably was not your friend at all just fake it

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Write her letter or go right to her house ask for an explanation

Sounds like hanky panky going on between your boyfriend and her.

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Somethingā€™s very fishy here

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Sounds like you both may have the same baby daddy.

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Heā€™s the dad of hers too! :cry:

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As much as you donā€™t want to hear it, but you and her are sharing the same baby daddy. Iā€™d be asking the bf what is up! Sorry this is happening to you.

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Girl!!! I donā€™t want to be negative, but ummmmm I have a feeling that she and your boyfriend were having an affair and sheā€™s mad that he got you pregnant too!

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I hate to agree with everyone but maybe u should ask your boyfriend for answers

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Sounds like she could also be pregnant by your boyfriend :flushed:

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Idk why everyoneā€™s assuming your boyfriend is part of it. She could feel you did this to steal her moment. Leave her alone for now.

EDIT: idc if you think heā€™s cheating, tell the OP, not me.

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Ummm. Hmmm. Maybe see who her baby daddy is :grimacing:

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Oh damn, Iā€™m guessing she was under the impression he was leaving you so they could have a happy family togetherā€¦until you got pregnant. Oof.
Sorry.

I donā€™t ever say this butā€¦ if you canā€™t get answers, Iā€™d be going through someoneā€™s phone. Definitely do some investigating. Your boyfriend did something, and you need to figure out what that is for yours and your babyā€™s sake. Talk to people, friends, neighbors, anyone who could have seen something. Make smart choices. Being with your childā€™s father isnā€™t everything itā€™s cracked up to be if you know deep down heā€™s being shady. Good luck to you.

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Yā€™all are carrying the same mans baby :weary: RULE NUMBER 1!!! NEVER LET NO FEMALES LIVE OR STAY OVER NIGHT AT YOUR HOME EVER!!

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Sweetie, poor sweet girl. Sounds like your man knocked her up. He was probably filling her with lies that he was gonna leave you. Now that youre pregnat, she realizes he was lying. Forget her, but maybe question your boyfriend a little more :woman_facepalming:t2:

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Yeah, it seems a little fishy. I would do some snooping. Please keep us updated lol

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Let us know when you knowšŸ¤£

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Iā€™m so sorry but I agree with the other ladies heā€™s got you both knocked up

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the boyfriend is going to have 2 babies

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Oh my. I would be a detective at this point. Itā€™s so obvious Iā€™m sorry.

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In your heart u HAVE to already know the answer! Time to talk to your bf!

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Maybe she feels like you stole her moment or doesnā€™t wanna share the spot light :woman_shrugging:

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I think this pretty much tells you what happened

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You have stolen her thunder, she thinks.

I would never have thought of what everyone is saying but seeing everyone say it, it makes sense :woozy_face:

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I feel like this is nothing to do with you. The fact she deleted your bf is a red flag. And maybe she isnā€™t talking to you cause she feels bad. Sounds to me like something has been going down between them two and sheā€™s putting a stop to it because you are pregnant. They have either been sleeping together or heā€™s came on to her. Iā€™d be going to her house and asking her point blank what happened between you guys

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Cause she pregnant by the same guy

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If she stopped talking to you and unfriended your boyfriend but was at your house daily prior. Then I would be very suspicious

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When I got pregnant I just got weird I didnā€™t wanna be around people :upside_down_face: I dono why but I was different I guess I would try to reach out express some concerns Iā€™m sure what ever is going on will come to light sending good vibes momma

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Iā€™m thinking what everyone else isā€¦ he has both of you pregnant

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You didnā€™t do anything wrong. But Iā€™m willing to bet sheā€™s garbage and so is she and that yā€™allā€™s babies are siblings.

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Maybe she and your boyfriend hooked up and heā€™s the father of her baby.

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He knocked both of you up

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Sheā€™s also pregnant with your boyfriends child.

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Do you know who her childā€™s father is? Cause deleting your bf and not talking to you at all after you announce your pregnancy honestly sounds like her and your boyfriend had something going on.

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Yep. Sheā€™s pregnant ā€¦ by same guy ,

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Seems like she got knocked up by him

totally pregnant by the same guy yikes

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Iā€™m usually a glass half full type of person but itā€™s sketchy asf that she unfriended your bf and stopped coming around once you got pregnant too. The timing is really weird.

Questions- How long has the friend been pregnant? Once she started coming around or before? Does she has a boyfriend or so as well?

If you really want to know and put your mind at ease (or not) then you probably should swing by her house or something to see whatā€™s up. I would want to know if our kids would be half siblings.

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Something sounds sketchy to me. Why unfriend your boyfriend? Who is she pregnant by? Idk im thinking the worst obviously

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Hmmm, sounds like your boyfriend is a two-timer and going to have two kidsā€¦

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Did she unfriend you on fb too? If not then you should be asking ur man or her why she deleted just him. Cause usually best friends would be excited to both be pregnant then their kids can grow up to be besties too.

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I read the post to my man for a manā€™s opinion and he says thatā€™s cause he got the best friend pregnant too.

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Im going to take a wild guess and say her baby is also your boyfriends baby

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:triangular_flag_on_post: sheā€™s probably pregnant with your mans child as well.

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Heā€™s banging her too

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Sounds like ur best friends child and your child are goin to be siblingsā€‹:face_with_spiral_eyes::full_moon_with_face::nauseated_face:

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I know everyone is saying you guys might have the same baby daddy,but if not it might be because if her baby daddy isnā€™t in the picture maybe sheā€™s jealous that you and your man are together. Being pregnant can be hard by your self and maybe reality us hitting

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Nah yā€™all sister wives

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Sheā€™s been talking to your bf.

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Hopefully he didnā€™t knock your friend up, and her think that he was gonna tell his girl friend, and then boom the girl friends pregnant to.

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I hate to say this but bf and boyfriend have been swapping juices . Probably feeding her all these lies like Iā€™m not even sleeping with her and I want only you and boom two girls prego .

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Swing by unannounced and be like ā€œhe told me. I want your side, he said you came on to himā€¦ā€¦.ā€

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From the sounds of it, you didnā€™t do anything wrong, whatever her issue is, is hers.

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Does she have a partner? Is baby daddy still in the picture. As soon as I read that sheā€™s pregnant too and she unfriended your partner it seemed as though maybe thatā€™s his baby?! Iā€™d be asking questions. Turn up to her house if you have to. Do you work? Was she over when you were gone? Have you got cameras if not then Iā€™d get some. I hope this all works out for you and it isnā€™t what it seems.

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She wants your man , let her be gone

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Can we get an update a out this?

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Could be pregnant by your man as well.you never no these days

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Personally I think we all need an update here!

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Your boyfriend is probably her babyā€™s daddyā€¦

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Um sounds like yā€™all got the SAME baby daddy :laughing::persevere: Sorry girl.

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Because heā€™s probably cheating on you with herā€¦and the dad of bothā€¦have a test done on hers and yourā€™sā€¦see if same daddy

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Who is she pregnant by?

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What did/does your boyfriend have to say? Read his response very well.
What was her response when you told her you were pregnant?
Stop by her house, by yourself, to talk calmly.
Do not tell him youā€™re even going. Say you miss her and your personal life has been rocky. Write down all your questions to ask her if youā€™re going to be emotional.
I hope you find the truth, whatever it is, since you deserve to know; especially since all of this is oddly timed. :blue_heart:

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Get to the Truth, but know what you will do if it turns out your bf & boyfriend were more than you knew. You will be Alone possibly and you need to be strong for your baby and yourself.

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This seems really suspicious to me I would be asking your boyfriend and her who the father of the child was that she was having because it seems like he has two babies on the wayļæ¼ļæ¼

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Thatā€™s not a friend. Move on

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Thatā€™s not a true friend let her stay gone!!

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It seems suspicious but maybe she feels like you took the attention off of her.

Definitely ask the bf, but also could be the fact of jealouslyā€¦ like your stealing the lime light from her having a baby.

Please update though :pray: ā€¦

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Is it a possibility she is pregnant by your man?

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I would ask her to tell you who the father is of her baby, if itā€™s your bf, heā€™s got to go. If sheā€™s just being a jealous B, then sheā€™s got to go. Sorry this is happening :confused:

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:triangular_flag_on_post: am I the only one thinking sheā€™s banging the boyfriend?

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WELL there is something afoot. That is not a ā€œ]freindā€. Carry on without her and make new freinds. ( Her ā€œsecretā€ maybe something you dont want to hear.

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Erm sounds like youā€™re babies are gonna be half siblingsā€¦

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So sheā€™s pregnant and you told her youā€™re pregnant. Plus she knows pretty much loved with you thatā€™s the extent of how often she was there. An she stopped talking to you and unfriended your boyfriend once you told her you were pregnant. Oh sweetheart. Sheā€™s not your friend and you need to leave your boyfriend. Bc I almost guarantee that her baby is your boyfriends baby too and thatā€™s why she wonā€™t talk to you. She probably thought she would keep the babyā€™s father secret and she would reap benefits from him bc heā€™d want to keep her quiet about it but bc now youā€™re also pregnant she no longer has the complete power to make him give her what she wants bc now he has you an your baby to take care of. At least she knows that she doesnā€™t want to take from your baby for hers but she also doesnā€™t have the same win she thought she was gonna have in the end which was that heā€™d leave you for her since she has his baby but now ya both do. Iā€™d say that the sooner you walk away the better bc youā€™re going to be out in a very stressful situation.

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