My boyfriend and I have been together 1 year we live together for 2 months now he has a 4 year old he will be 5 in a few days I have a 10year old his 4year doesn’t respect and cries for every little thing I mean everything my son being 10 likes to play his video game if my son doesn’t allow his son to play he wants to shut the game off his son is 4 mine is 10 I don’t feel a 10 year old is gonna want to share a video game with a 4 year old am I wrong? He picks at everything my son does but if his son is jumping on the couch and I say stop his response is he’s only a baby he brung this ball from his moms he’s been bouncing it in my house I don’t allow my own son to play with a ball in my house but again his excuse he’s a baby same thing with his mother he’s a baby a soon to be 5 year old isn’t a baby he should be taught right from wrong my son can’t even sit in the living room yet his son can jump on the couches and play with a ball cause he’s a baby am I missing something ? Please tell me if I’m overreacting cause if it he’s so rude to my son for no reason I can’t even leave my son home if I run to the store cause he tells me he isn’t a baby sitter my son is 10 and doesn’t require much but a 4 year old does I don’t think it’s fair for me to be putting all this energy into his son when he doesn’t do the same my solution is to move out on top of all this his mother and brother pop up at my house at any given time without calling and his mom always wants to spend the night cause she doesn’t want to drive home she lives 15min away I feel people should ask to come over not just pop up and if I want to have company it’s a problem I have to make sure it’s ok first I feel my solution is to move out