All women deserve to be love And care eventually men not all men are being abusive…
Why do you stay and waste your life with someone like that? Is it financial?
Leave while you can! Why would you stay? Move on with your child. Get a better life. You don’t need this.
Get rid of him, he’ll change alright worse than he already is.
You can’t find Mr Right if you’re with Mr. Wrong ! But find yourself first 
. It’ll be the best thing you can do for your daughter .
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You can’t change the spots in a leopard…
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Life is short, why are you wasting yrs on this Neandathal? X
I feel sorry for you lady, but you have made your bed with this assjack so you have to choices either move on or stay in this bed you have made for yourself.
Remember verbal abuse is still abuse.
Run! You deserve better.
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I would not want a guy like that. What do you see in him?
Don’t be a victim of his selfishness. You sound better than that. Leave him
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How old are the children and are all of them living with you, full time?
Yup time to go
He sounds like a loser
Would you rather be happy or be with him ?
Then kick him out! Do you really want to live like this? You have one lifetime…live it to your best. Is this your best?
You are teaching your children how to be treated in a relationship they will follow your example I wish you the best with your family peace love and happiness
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Why would you want to stay with someone like that?
If he has waited 7 years & not married u, then I’d get out of this relationship, especially with the Abuse.
If you have to ask, you already know the answer…
Follow your gut feelings…I’ve always ignored and paid dearly in my bad choices for relationships
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You can’t change a leopard spots move on!!! Nothing will change for you unless you change it yourself!!
Uhm, do not walk, RUN 4 YOUR LIFE away from this creep, narcissistic n Rude person. Better to b alone, than wish you were!!
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Why are you still there with him when you already know the answer?
I would not spend my life with a person like that. I divorced a critical man. Life is to short to listen to that crap day after day.
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If you have to ask, you won’t listen to reason anyways. 7 years of the same mess and you haven’t learned yet? 7 years together and you’re just now divorced? Y’all need to call Dr. Phil
He sounds like a real gem. Do yourself a favor and get rid of him asap. Love yourself enough to get out now!
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You deserve better. Leave and don’t look back. Find a good man who will appreciate you. This guy clearly DOES NOT!!!
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RUN 
why would you want this to be the reat of your life or an example to your daughter?
So, why are you still with him?
Why have you put up with this behavior for 7 years???
Well obviously he didn’t change so get away from him. Sounds like an absolute asshole. Been there done that and trust me, you stay you’ll end up leaving later and be kicking yourself in the butt for not leaving sooner.
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There are 50 or more ways to leave your lover! Any one of those will do.
Like the country song: Drop kick him, Jesus, through the goalposts of life.
If you daughter was telling you this what would you tell her to do
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Do you really expect him to change after 7 years?
If you have to ask, that should speak volumes.
Do you really need me to tell you? Don’t waste another day!
A fiancé for 7 years should tell you something
Break it off with him no woman should be treated that way its not love
Theres alot of red flags to many actually but the choice is yours.
Do you want to spend your life like this?? Is it fair to your kids? Think hard!
shame on him
just be safe
to tell or not to tell ?
sometimes peole go nuts and hurt or kill
make exit plans
So…… why are you still with him?
ABANDON SHIP!!! This is a non-starter. IF the house is YOURS…CHANGE THE LOCKS and place HIS BELONGINGS IN HEFTY GARBAGE BAGS on the front porch…and place a restraining order on top.
If it is HIS HOUSE…PACK YOUR STUFF WHEN YOU ARE ALONE AND RENT A STORAGE UNIT TO PUT YOUR STUFF IN, WHILST YOU ARE APARTMENT OR HOUSE HUNTING.
Why are you still with him? Do you think it will get better? It won’t.
Wait you been w this dude 7 years and just got your divorce finalized?
Would you encourage your daughter to pursue someone like him? There’s your answer. God bless.
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I think you know what you need to do but are looking for validation.
So…why is this a question?
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If you like the way he treats you, then stay
Why would you spend the rest if the week with him?
Run… far away… keep running from that guy!
Love yourself and daughter and wait for a man who will think two have blessed his life, and nothing is more important than making your life rich with love 
.
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What is there to stay for?
Is there any reason to stay at all?
Don’t do it! You are worth being loved and supported. 
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Why are you still with him?
And… you’re still with him?
Tell him to just f*** off, and get another man, a lot of men seem to be very arrogant, I am not one of them, you have choices in life, the man can choose how to behave with respect or you can choose to turf him, its that simple.
What is in this relationship for you?
And you are still with him?
Run far, run fast! He doesn’t appreciate or deserve you.
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So why are you with him?
You said yourself “ I don’t know if I want to live the rest of my life with someone like that” …… BUT YOU do know. You are waiting around for a kind word, or validation, or an affectionate response, or maybe love…… If he hasn’t shown you any kindness or support or love, in 7 years, what are you waiting for??? You have to love yourself MORE to make the correct choices for yourself and YOUR child. Do you really want to raise your child in a negative home environment??? Couldn’t you provide a safe and loving space for you & your child??? You have a lot to think about. You CANNOT fix the man you’re living with HE has to do that himself. YOU need to fix yourself and be strong in the process. I hope you chose yourself. I wish you luck.
Why are you with him?
If I were you I would run hes not going to change and your going to end up lonely
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Kick him to the kerb hun he ain’t going to change makes you wonder why his last relationship didn’t work out
Get out now!! Unless you want to live the rest of your life like that. Not good for you or your child.
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And he’s your boyfriend…why?
Time to move on
My very Best Advice
Don’t waste any more years on him
They don’t change it only gets worse
You deserve Better
Please 
get help from your Family and get away from this Man.
Praying God makes away for you !
I’ve been there they only treat you worse if you stay
Dump him! He will never change if he doesn’t care to do anything with you and your kids your wasting your time!!
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Why are you with him???
Why are you with this man ?
If you stay with him it will get worse … find someone that’s want to be with you !! He should want do things with you!! You just got divorced… do make another mistake!
Why are you with him?
Wake up he is really not into you,I think you deserve someone better whom can reciprocate the affection and love you can offer…just saying…good luck…
Get the heck away from him it will only get worse
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Why? Just why? It’s 2021?
You deserve the best… it’s not him!! Get out for yourself and child… please 
You deserve better. LEAVE !! There is someone out there that will treat you better.
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Your children come first! Love them dearly please get rid of him!!!
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Go with your instinct. Sounds like you need church. Just like our pastor says a family that prays together stays together.
Just leave.!! And don’t look back, believe me, .!!!
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girl! I know 7 years is a long time wasted but you don’t want to be miserable for the rest of your life.
Time to say goodbye. No one deserves to be treated that way. You’re better off without him.
Why would you want to?
If you want to be miserable the rest of your life, stay. It’s that simple.
Leave now, if he has not changed by now does not look like he will, depend on the Lord not a man who does not care, the Lord does!
I learned the hard way, you can NOT fix/change a man!
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Get out while you can you will be better of .and be happier.
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Leave get help at a women’s shelter. He sounds like a verbal abuser. I pray you find peace.
Run,run as fast as you can ,away from this guy…NOW
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Quit tolerating being treated like that and RUN. Fast and far away. You deserve better
Run sweetheart. Don’t ever marry him.
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Leave, you don’t want your daughter to see how he treats you and think it’s ok. You deserve better
Leave him hes not worth the energy you and your family are better off without him good luck
He is talking very clear, bye, bye.
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Are you happy? If not, leave. Simple
Don’t stay in that relationship, it won’t change, ever!!!
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Bye dude!! This whole thing screams your not standing up for what you need. Love yourself n get rid of the trash. Lifes to short to be feeling like crap cause of someone else
If your unhappy. Leave give yourself and your child. Peace if mind.
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