Run for the hills. Your teaching your daughter it’s okay to be treated like that.
Don’t get out now. He wants you to tKe care of house kids etc. And that’s it.
He showing you who he really is and by accepting it you’re showing him it’s OK. It’s time to decide the future you want and go for it
You and your daughter deserve to be happy, you won’t be with him and I think you know this deep down.
Run ,take your kids and get out ,this is a very toxic relationship.
Find yourself a new man. If he hasn’t improved in 7 years he’s never going to.
Wow. Why in the world are you with that selfish arrogant beast? You and your daughter deserve better from a partner and this life.
Move on!
It’s going to get worse if you don’t.
He is not going to change. Start planning your own future. There is no place for rudeness and meaness
Dont he wont change and then you will be looking back thinking what a waste,you deserve better and its waiting for you
Leave while you can before he does something physical to hurt you or your child
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You dont want to spend the rest of your life or your child’s life with that. I tried and it just dont work.
Sorry have to agree with Lisa. He will never change. So go quickly.
Nope…cant teach an old dog new tricks…get out of it.
Dear My boyfriend is rude; Read your letter as if were written by someone else. You will know the answer by doing so, he is not going to change.
Leave. Theirs a reason. He isn’t married. He will always be that way. He is self centered. It is all about him.
I think you know the answer to being happy!! Don’t be miserable… find someone else!!
Don’t waist your time on thinking you can change someone. You are not married and he is acting this way just think what will happen after the papers are signed. And why does he not want to be in public with his fiancé? That right there is tossing up many red flags for me.
Get rid of him cause relationship isn’t gonna go anywhere sorry but it takes 2 and only 1 is trying to make it work
Why are u with him. He’s not going to change.
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i will never understand why people ask these Q, lol, hmmm he is cheating on you no doubt, and hmmm if he is this bad just kick his to the curb.
Your boyfriend is rude. What should you do? Leave him!
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If you don’t think you should be treated like that I get out
He will never change probably get worst get out now and move on.
Should leave. Let me ask you this would you want your daughter ti date or marry someone like that. If the answer is no then why would you. You deserve to be treated the same way you want your baby. Remember your teaching her what is right. Not acceptable for her future bf/husband
Wake up…he’s not going to change, you might think he will after you get married but people don’t change. When someone shows you who they are believe them🤷🏻♀️
why would you spend one moment of seven years treated like that…leave the wipe!
??? Fiancé 7 years and just recently divorced. That doesn’t add up. However no one deserves to be treated like that. So either pack his bags or yours.
What the hell did you see in him in the first place! Get a life…get a divorce and move on!
Leave. He’s not going to change so don’t waste your time trying to change him or wait for him to change it’s not going to happen.
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Sounds like u jumped from the frying pan into the fire. Learn to love yourself 1st & foremost b4 u get into another relationship.
If you don’t know after 7 years together than you answered your own question. It’s a resounding NO.
You have answered your own question. That is no way to live.
Drop him like a hot potato. Spend time with people that build you up not people who make zero effort and make you feel confused and down. Life is too short.
If you like yourself you should run not walk away from this very bad relationship.
Your problem is not him it’s you. Move on
OMG! What a negative partner. You should only be with someone who wants the best for you. Take your child and move on.
Trust me, you DON’T. I was married to someone like that for 13 years…or was is 100???
Get out Leave him don’t live in torment Life is too short Get out and get away while the time is good
There’s no way I would stay with somebody like that. And don’t think he’ll change because he will not. Don’t let him ruin your self respect he is not worthy of you
Rethink if you want this guy as a second parent for your own kids and rethink if you even want this guy as your partner!
When people show you who there are believe them, the first time
Don’t let the door hit your rear. Get out now! Do not waste any more of your life on a dead end relationship.
I was in a relationship like that or worse, and I’m a man and you deserve better I was in the same boat and we deserve better, keep your head high and and make the difference
You have answered your own question in the last 2 lines get out let go you deserve and need better
I would have left 6-1/2 years ago.
Honey I have read most of the comments in response to your post and I can truthfully say there is a lot of good advise here. You would pay thousands of dollars and not get better advise. Make it short and sweet. Run Forrest run:bangbang:as fast as you can. He will only get worse. He’s on his best behavior right now and I can guarantee you it will only get worse. I am 76 years old honey and have seen a lot of life. You cannot change him. He is who he is and he’s not about to change. Please know that learning to be alone can be a true blessing. Then when you have learned a little about yourself you will be able to choose who you want to spend the rest of your life with. God bless you and give you the strength to break away quickly. You are wasting too much time already on this man. He is not for you! Don’t let the breakup drag on and on. Be careful when a women leaves an abusive situation sometimes the man can get dangerous. Change your locks just in case. 
The first sentence tells you that he doesn’t want to marry you. I would t waste my time for 7 years why would you?
It doesn’t look like a very good road to go down
Bye… don’t waste one more minute. He has shown who he is and he doesn’t care enough about you or his children to change.
Get the heck out, maybe you will meet a better person. He is probably hiding something.
Get out while you can. He will not change maybe even get worse.
Get rid of him. Hes just useing you. You need to feel more pride in yourself not with a yob.
Don’t! You should’ve stayed with him for as long as you did
People let you know the real person inside. You should move on. He isn’t going to change.
Don’t waste time with that guy, I wasted 14 years with a guy like that, it only got worse.
You need to get rid of him now and move on may not be easy but someone descent will come along and if not being g just with your daughter is whole ot better than putting up with jerk He will not change
Take it from an old lady, get away from him!!
Then don’t. You only have 1 life. An so do your children
I would run & stay the hell away & start over…WTH 7 years engaged, he has no intentions of marrying you!!
Leave. He is not going to change. It will only get worse. Show your child and yourself that you are worth more.
He wouldn’t have lasted 7 mins never mind 7 years.
Run. Don’t walk. He is never going to change.
why are you still with him? you don’t like yourself too much, sorry
You need to take the fast train and move on, honey!
Leave no question ask he’s not going to change. He living a double life.
If you have to ask that question you know the answer.
Pack your stuff and run he isn’t going to change
You already answered your own question. You do know that is not the life for you. Wish you all the best.
he sounds like a bad influence to both you and your daughter. End this relationship. Your daughter is watching his actions against you. …he isn’t a positive relationship role model for her in her future relationships. this man is selfish…end it. you and your daughter deserve better.
take your things and your daughter and leave as soon as you can it can only get worse from here there are many ways to get help if you need it but DO NOT wait any longer
The choice is yours but don’t let any man treat you like your worthless.
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Nothings gonna change will get worse… youre just the cook, cleaner and bed warmer you deserve better than that and your child.
You just answered your own question, why spend the rest of your life with something like that?
Are you crazy? Get out of that relationship as fast as you can.
Run girl that is not live it’s convenient for him which is bad
He doesnt really want a future with you. Look at all of the signs from all of the red flags. Dont depend on a future with hin. Nothing os going to change. If anything it will only get worse.
What do you get out of this relationship that makes you stay???
You said it yourself, you don’t want to spend you life with some like him. So, why are you?
My question is – Why in the world have you stayed this long?
You already know what you should do so why ask others?
Why are you still there??? run! Set a better example for your daughter—you are teaching her that that is ok.
Leave. You don’t have to be a genius to know the answer. Leave. Why would you even want to stay ?
Why are you with him, and for 7 years?
Is this a trick question? Take your daughter and run, don’t walk away. No brainer.
Get out. It never improves. ⁰
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No don’t do that there are plenty of guys out there that better than him
Why would you think you deserve this disrespect?
Imagine your daughter’s putting up with this type of bull when they grow up. I divorced my first husband because he treated me poorly & I did not want my kids to think this was normal. He’s totally selfish with everybody in his life! Get out!
Why do you have anything to do with him. Are you that desperate ?
Why are your bags not packed and on the way out the door or his outside the door?
Relation toxique tu na pas besoin d un homme comme ça . Tu perd du temps précieux à vouloir à ca place mon je dis vaut mieux être seul que mal accompagné et malheureux.
Why are you still there? No mystery here
If you don’t see the writing on the wall with what you have just told your FB friends - then you must be blind, deaf, and stupid if you can’t figure out a problem that is hitting you right in the face… BAD NEWS LADY if you can’t figure this one out.
Please move on make your child & you priority #1 ! Be strong & happy !
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You have to choices…live it or leave it
Hell no!! You don’t want to stay with a jerk. Why would you even want to stay with someone, that doesn’t want to be seen with you:person_shrugging:t2:. Anyone, would deserve someone better. Kick that fool to the curb!! Wishing you luck 
and strength
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Why on earth are you still there???
Why are you with him?
Why are you staying? Easy fix. Get the f$#@ out.
Why in hell would you stay with him??