My boyfriend’s mother is absolutely the sweetest woman; I love her. She wants us both to get the Covid vaccine. We do not want it unless we are required to have the vaccine. I have a past with severe reactions to vaccines, and he hates needles. She won’t return my messages now than I graciously declined. I think she thought I would talk him into it because we have two children. Am I wrong?
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That’s not okay. It’s your choice. Let her get over it
She needs to mind her business an respect you an your husband’s decision!
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and choices. No you’re not wrong.
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Declined? Is she a pharmacist giving them out? You don’t have to answer to her or anyone else. Do what you feel is best.
It truly is your own decision. I wish that you would get it for your sake and others, yet it is YOUR choice. My 18 year old son had his second dose and for 24 hours it was rough because he is barely sick. He will be entering college in August and I feel better
You not wrong…its your choice your body…you can wear a mask around her. she will get over it. I work in a hospital and we are getting more and more people having horrible reactions to the 2nd dose. And the shot isnt 100% anyways so whats the point its 50/50 either way. Having the same problem with one of my family members as well trying to tell us what to do. We dont agree with her so she is acting childish over it same with politics we dont agree she acts like a child
You are 100% correct. This Covid jab is not approved or time tested. You are far better off not risking
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We got the vaccines, but were hesitant at first. It is completely up to you!
Yes u r wrong getting covid vacines must be mandatory its not only fr u but olso fr oll those who come in contact with u… God last year everyone was waiting fr vaccine n now wen vaccine is here ppl have their bullshit reasons to not take it atkeast fr others safety for humankind take it
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No you’re not wrong. People should not be forced to inject something in their body they don’t want to. Those that disagree should respect your choice and move on.
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Your body, your choice. End of story.
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Absolutely not wrong I was told I’m not allowed at my grandmas house because we refuse to get it well I guess we’ll stay home then 
I’m all for vaccines but still your choice. Do you
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Just don’t & say you did
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Stand your ground when she keeps asking you and say ‘this is not up for discussion’… and just keep being you.
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Not her business. Tell her go ahead n be mad. Your body isnt her business
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Too BAD , tell her my BODY MY CHOICE !!! 
Not up to her , I did have mine but if she is vaccinated and it works she will hopefully get a milder form if she catches it , it doesn’t stop you getting if or passing it on so aslong as she has hers then things are betted
I think it is up to an individual, I’ve had mine and had no problems. I do think however if you saw what many of my colleagues and family members have seen happen to fit healthy people who have had this and died you’d probably think a bit more about the vaccine. Plus your family member is probably scared you may get this and die and she will be left with grieving children to care for.
Of course you are wrong. It has to be better to take what ever precaution are available to protect those with whom we mix.
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No, it’s personal choice and some people have a reaction from it.
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Nope you are not.thats your choice.
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No! Don’t be afraid or ashamed to research more! Your choice is your choice, period.
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Hating needles is one thing… I can’t stand dental work or even the numbing shot they give me… but you should not have had multiple allergic reaction to different vaccines. You could very well be allergic to the fluid in some vaccines, the latex gloves shot gives wear, the powder in the gloves they wear and even rarely, the Betadine brown stuff some use to sterilize the injection site.
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Having a history of severe vaccine reactions is a valid excuse to not have a vaccination . . . but “hating needles” isn’t (I don’t particularly like needles either, but as I require regular injections, I just think “Suck it up, buttercup, and get used to it!”).
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You are not wrong. It’s none of her business.
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I got my vaccine, my husband has not… your body your choice
Point blank
Just tell her you got it. How would she know?
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you are not wrong tell her you,ve got kids to worry about the vaccine to ifffy
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If you have a medical condition then your doctors need to 1 figure out why you’ve reacted & what’s wrong because healthy people don’t usually react to vaccines. Also you should know for your own health & well being. you might need to carry a note from your doctor with the condition you have & that you can’t medically have a vaccine for your own safety in case of an emergency. As for your bf, that’s between him & his mother.
Do you live at her home? If that’s the case then she has a right to ‘make’ him and possibly you get it… unless you have a medical diagnosis to why you can’t. Same as some jobs, schools & businesses will only allow vaccinated people there.
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U r not wrong for one the vaccine hasn’t been properly tested so it’s stupid to get it plus it’s u n ur boyfriends choice
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Dumb. Tired of all these ignorant people. I bet she’s american 
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You are entitled to feel how you feel about it and NO ONE SHOULD TELL YOU DIFFERENT
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Uhh… you’ll have to just deal with it. You’re fine not getting it but don’t be surprised when people don’t want to be around you, you could put someone in extreme risk.
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They made everybody lock down so as not to catch it, but now want to inject the crap straight into you? Unless they’ve been trialling a vaccine for a long time (suspicious) how can they guarantee its safety?! Too many questions for comfort, I will not be getting it and I think you’re right to have concerns about this one
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No your not wrong. I understand a persons concern but to get mad or try to push it on someone is not ok. It’s your right to get it or not and its NO ONES damn business otherwise. She will just have to get over it because it’s her issue NOT yours !
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Whether or not the 2 of you get any vaccine is not up to her. You’re grown. Whether or not she thinks something is a good idea, it’s really none of her business, honestly.
Doesn’t matter that it’s her son. Y’all are adults.
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Tell her if she has taken it to not worry if you have or not that she should be fine! That’s the polite way, me…….I’m a dickhead! I would tell her to fuck off!
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None of these people experimental drugs has been through full trials until 2023. Tell her you’re waiting for the vaccine but it’s not ready yet!
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Absolutely not! It is YOUR choice to get this vaccine and I’m tired of trying to be forced into it. I’m sorry you are being in that struggle…I deal with it from my family as well, but they dont force…just judge 
No , and I just went through the same thing with my sister she was so damn nasty about it . she had the nerve to tell me she was going to ask our mom if she felt comfortable sitting around unvaccinated people . Sounded so stupid too me because my mom just ate with me in a public place and also got on an airplane to fly too Florida . What a dumb question
My husband and I are not getting it. It’s experimental.
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No to become a test subject using a vaccine that has not been fda approved is 100% your choice
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No you are not wrong. Pretty petty of her to ignore you over something like that.
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It is your choice. It I also her choice as to if she wants you around her.
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Umm you have every right to not inject something into your body to be a test dummy. It’s not her business. She’ll get over it. Just state you’re not doing it and that’s that. Does she go over all vaccine hx or just pissed about covid vaccine?
If she’s vaccinated she shouldn’t be worried… lol
If you’re vaccinated you can still carry and pass it around… she can get over it.
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Is she swear it does not stop u from getting covid nor does it stop you from speeding it? Maybe she needs some education on the matter…at the end of the day ur body ur choice and someone should not treat you this pathetic over that simple fact
Your body, your choice.
My God, how many children on here? You are an adult, make your own choice. If you believe in your choice you do not need any one else’s validation. That’s what being an adult is about. Do the research properly, make the choice. Then deal with any fallout or consequences that happen. Again that is what being an adult is all about. As for your OH, he is an adult too…just saying!!
She’s probably worried sick and trying to protect yous in her own way
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Not at all. Your body. Your choice.
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Yes. Yes, you are wrong. Get the vaccine.
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Have you been enjoying being on lockdown for over a year? No? Me either. Get the vaccine.
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Watch the cnn video on india, then tell is again how you dont want the vaccine because you are scared of needles.
Do not let anyone pressure you into getting a vaccine that isn’t even FDA approved. You need to do what you feel is best for your family, not what everyone else wants you to do.
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Your body your choice don’t do it it’s an experiment!
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Don’t get it unless we become a Country where we are forced to! Then, it won’t really matter anyhow!
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She will get over it eventually! Do what’s best for you and your family.
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Do not do it if you have had reactions to other vaccines it’s your life your body your choice my body has reactions to vaccines I can’t even get a glue shot and my dr highly recommended I do not get it I was not going to do it anyway I don’t trust it to many people have had bad reactions
Do not let her tell u or him what to put in ur body. The polio vaccine took 2 YEARS to develop. They came out with these in 6 MONTHS! I will not ever have it.
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Nope, if she wants to see her grandbabies, she needs to live and let live…where Is God in her life, sounds like faith went out the door
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I had a bad reaction to the flu shot one time and I feel the same way•• there isn’t No way I’m getting that shot unless I’m made to 
NO one should be forced or feel shamed into getting the Covid shot
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I got covid during christmas and had lingering symptoms until my first shot in march. Then I got my second shot, I haven’t had any symptoms since. I am happy to have the vaccine.
It’s not her decision to decide if you should get it if not, only yours
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Do you know how many mass vaccination our grandparents have been through
It’s your choice! I personally am not getting the vaccine because it was rushed out too quickly. And I’m concerned about lack of negative reviews about it. I watched a friends dad waste away in high school from a cancer that was linked to a new rushed vaccine he got in the 80s. My mom worked with kids with disabilities because their mom took the morning sickness drug. I seen a big bear of a man who was my high school teacher get wiped right to the ground and wasn’t himself for years because of the H1N1 vaccine. No thanks. In five years if you can prove these people taking the shot don’t have any adverse reactions I may consider it.
Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. I was born with a spinal cord condition that affects me in more ways than a few. 1 being my immune system has a greater chance of being lower than it is… I get my flu shot every year. I wash my hands very frequently, if I go out and I’m around a lot of people I wear my mask until I’am by myself and when I return home, I don’t just change my clothes I take a shower. I’m not taking that shot:bangbang:
She’s probably worried about you. But nobody has the right to dictate what you put in your body. Your choice. I won’t be getting it due to heart and blood issues.not against vaccines. Just don’t want to die. And people are dying from Complications after having it:smiley:
You are definitely not wrong!!! Not FDA approved!!! She either gets over it or it’s her loss.
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I feel the same way you do. How do you develop a vaccine in six months. People are dying from it. I’ve had covid and would rather go through that again than risk my life with the vaccine. Stick to your guns.
Loving all the comments from the amateur experts…hands up all the qualified epidemiologists…scientists, medics
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Yes
…u r wrong
Very wrong
Just take the fucking shot and stop being a fucking pussy
They hardly seem like real reasons
She’ll get over it . It’s upto you guys it’s your body
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Nobody LIKES needles… if they did, it would be weird.
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I’m not getting it or both my boys
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Nope, absolutely not. She is in the wrong. No one should make anyone do something they don’t want to do. Having a fit because they aren’t doing what you want is childish. I’m not getting it… its fine that other people willing to be guinea pigs, but I’m not going to be. I’ll wait it out and see how it goes and maybe get it later. People seem to forget that kids are least likely to get it. Its only supposed to make it not as bad if you get coivd. People who have the shot have gotten covid after having the shot. So I don’t see a point in getting it.
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Likely to be a problem if she holds her ground and won’t spend time with you. Otherwise, non-issue.
Your body…your choice!! People that try to bully you into getting it…need to ask themselves…How would they feel if they were bullied into something
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Just tell them you would rather pass on the neurological disorders.
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Since vaccine is technically in testing phase. Tell her u got the placebo lol saw this on tik tok loved the answer
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If you are getting reactions to vaccines, why get this one? There’s no difference. She’s rude in forcing you to try to get it. Your body, your choice.
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I would be upset too. Getting the vaccine isn’t dangerous, but getting covid could be dangerous to her and to both of you and your kids too. Plus it’s free to get.
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It’s nobody’s business how you decide to handle your health.
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You have a reason for not getting it, your SO does not. Ultimately it’s yalls choice, but vaccinated > unvaccinated
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tell her u have had it she wont konw
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Your body. Your choice.
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Hate to say this but your body your choice. I’m not getting the vaccine either
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Tell her to get over it. If you don’t want it then you don’t need to get it. My husband, our daughter and myself will not get that stupid bs vaccine.
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Nope. You’re not wrong. If she wants to be like that than she can stay away.
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Mom is in the wrong… sorry but if I had severe reactions to vaccines I’d refuse to get any unnecessary vaccines too. She needs to grow up. She’s a mother to a grown adult who can make their own decisions and she’s acting like a child and throwing a temper tantrum because she’s not getting her way. That’s VERY toxic behavior.
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Nope you’re not in the wrong. It’s not even a vaccine, it’s gene therapy.
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I wouldn’t say vaccinated is better than unvaccinated like other people are. It’s your choice. The Covid Vaccines aren’t even FDA approved… there just hasn’t been enough research. My household and I will not be getting it. I’m not anti vac either, but I am anti Covid vaccine in my household though.
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No u r not wrong I’m not taking it neither is my bf nd I have 3 kids who also won’t ve getting it
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You are absolutely NOT WRONG!!! ITS YOUR CHOICE!!!
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It’s your choice however you have to respect the choice of others maybe if you don’t have the vaccine your boyfriends mother doesn’t feel safe as you haven’t had it
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My youngest and I aren’t getting the vaccine. My oldest is an RN. She isn’t getting the vaccine, it isn’t required to work at the hospital…where they are covid patients. She’s been working on the covid floor. It isn’t FDA approved. It isn’t required for Healthcare professionals. There are no long term studies.
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