My brother is mad that I will not allow him to see his girlfriend during this outbreak: Thoughts?

Don’t risk your children’s lives for that stupid fool

I think your in the right! Why should you feel bad for giving him the boot when he doesnt care about your babies getting sick? I mean I’m sure it’s not him “not caring” but perhaps not really wanting to accept the possibility of them getting it because his head is too wrapped up in his girlfriend… maybe ask him to stay with her for the time being?

I mean if she’s been in quarantine herself and it’s been over 14 days and she’s hasn’t gone out or come in contact with anyone she will be fine, the only concern would be the Uber rides over really.

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You have every right to feel that way👏

I agree my son has asthma and I don’t let anyone over. Its not worth the risk. You are 100% right

Let him go live with his girlfriend seeing she is more important than you and the babies

Yep! My dtr uncle thought he was going to go in and out of my house also, and get an attitude when told to wash his hands😤

If he doesn’t care enough for your little ones, nor you, he needs to be with the one he only cares about, “him self”.
GOOD RIDDANCE!!!

Anybody on here who disagrees with you doesn’t understand what it is to be immunocompromised or to care for someone who is. You’re 100% in the right.

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Remember…whatever the reason…it’s good enough for your parents not to have him living with them. Obviously there’s a problem with him. Defiance…maybe? No…protect your children at all costs. Loss of brother?

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You are not wrong. He is being selfish. Tell him if he leaves hes not coming back in so he better hope he can live with the gf

You are setting healthy boundaries for your family. If he can’t abide by them (she might be putting pressure on him) then he can find somewhere else to live. He is making the choice…

Your home, your rules. Tell him to suck it up or pack up and leave

Kick him out and let him live with his gf.

You’re a shit ass sister. Absolutely disgusting of you to try n act better than him.

How old is he ? Obviously not mature regardless show him the door. You get this virus on your own stupidity.

Its your house and the kids are high risk. Kick him out. He can live with the girlfriend. He’s wearing out his welcome. And he’s living there for free. Get the key back from him and tell him to take everything and go.

Keep it together and don’t let it happen you got more people to think about than just him