I basically told my brother that he isn’t allowed to visit his girlfriend with this pandemic going on at the moment. It’s spreading fast where I am at. I told him he could either stay here or he could to stay with her, but I wasn’t going to have him going back and forth (he takes UBER). I have two littles plus two older with asthma. I am not risking them getting sick. He is now begging me to let him see her or to at least let her come to my house. I swear I’m at the point of losing my shit over this. How can no one be taking this seriously? I should add that he is living with me at the moment until he can get back up on his feet (he was kicked out of our parent’s house) I’m not asking him to pay bills or anything, just to pick up after himself. I’m ready to give him the boot if he says anything one more time. Am in the wrong for doing this? I love my brother, but my kids come first. I would hate to have to do something like this during this time.
Your house, your rules. If he doesn’t like it, he’s free to leave.
You are not in the wrong here! Just because he isn’t taking it seriously, doesn’t mean that you don’t have the right to protect your family! Plus, he’s living there free… he doesn’t have a say!
You are right!! Protecting our children is a number one priority!! Keep up the great work! Stay blessed and healthy!! Aloha from Hawaii!!
Thats what facetime is for. Brother needs to put on his big boy pants.
Ur family comes first. If he is selfish and doesnt take this virus very serious…then u need to get his priorities straight…his/ur own parents sent him out…a good example to follow…
Nope you are completely right in this. Your houses, your rules. If he doesn’t like it, he can leave.
Then bubba needs to pack his shit and move in with his GF!
Stick to your guns! Your house! If he wants to see her then he can stay there till this is over!
Just because you are letting him stay there for free does not mean you are Lord and Master over him.
Now, you are not in the wrong for protecting your family by telling him he can’t bop back and forth between the two places.
No in and outs in my house either.
He shouldn’t even be asking when he knows you have 2 older kids with asthma thats selfish of him!! He needs to get over himself at the moment theres a world wide pandemic going on. You need to protect your kids first x
100% agree with you.
Boot him out if he won’t listen it’s your house and you have to do what you can to protect your kids
If you Make it known you’re protecting your kids, and he still bothers you about it he obviously doesn’t respect you or your children.
If he lives under your roof, your rules, or he can find somewhere else to go: 
same here, no in no out.
He sounds selfish, give him the boot if he can’t understand your children come first during all this.
Tell him to stay with her then…see ya!
Don’t give in. Protect your kids and yourself.
Hold your ground. Your kids DO come first.
Tough love
Wonderful protector
Great job!!!
Proud you know the seriousness of this
I agree with you but y doesnt he live with her?
Protect your babies.
Not wrong at all. We aren’t allowing any visitors until this is over. We had a baby last week and even our family isn’t allowed over to meet him right now. We will gladly let people come over again once this is over
Wow people in these comments are heart less. Let the boy meet the girl outside and relax. Make him shower and clean his clothes . you sound very stressed. And You never know when things could change in the future and you may need your brother. So don’t kick him out at a time where you feel your loved ones should be in the house. Girl relax. Be safe. But relax.
I think your response was appropriate. Either he stays with you or stays with her
Lol your right. He’s wrong. So let him make his own bed. He’s grown man sounds like. Let him learn
Nope, you’re not wrong. He has his choices and it’s your house with your family and can’t risk anything. He sounds very young, which is why his head isn’t in the right place. If calling and FaceTimeing isn’t good enough for him, then he needs to go live with her. If that’s not something he can do, then he has to tough it out.
Your way or the highway. .
It’s to late for
What ifs …if one of your kids contract this deadly virus…
Do Not take that risk mamma…
He stays or he goes…make that his only choice.
Stay safe 2❤
Stand your ground! Babies first! Great job!
Tell her to go to her house
You are not wrong at all. Don’t budge, it is so important you stand your ground on this issue.
Totally agree. You’ve given option of hers or yours. If he goes stick to your guns I wouldnt risk
Not wrong. I am not visiting or allowing visitors at this time. He can move in with her or facetime her but that’s it
You’re not in the wrong. He had the option to stay with her and didn’t take it. Your kids come first!
My kids can’t see their gfs or bf. I told my daughter that of she wanted to see him ( he works at amazon) and is around a lot of people, then she can go stay with him but I have a 14 yr old with chiari malformation and possible lupus ( we were in the process of getting tests done when this started) I’m not playing around with this.
No you’re not wrong at all, you’ve got a family to think about and they come first. If he cant understand that I’d put his ass out too
Ohh HEEEELLLLL NOOOO! Tell him he either needs to be smart, responsible and care about his family AND his gf and stay the heck home…or he can go stay with her but if he goes there’s no coming back! Tough love! This is so serious, and people like him will keep this going longer!
Not harsh he needs to pick a place and stay there
Good for you. Tell him to take a cold shower
Its your house your rules if he doesnt like it he could find another place to stay
I would sit down have a heart to heart and let him know your concerns with the back and forth… how old is he… how old is the gf… maybe if all is well for now. Offer for her to come stay with you for a little bit. Like not just 1-2 days but if she’s old enough. Offer some space for a couple weeks. I feel for him… being away from the person u enjoy the most is very difficult during this time… would u like to be separated from the person that brings your happiness… maybe work out something with the other house. Do they follow social distancing, Gabe they traveled. Maybe 2 weeks with u then 2 weeks with her.
Your house, your rules. If he doesnt like it he can leave.
your house. if he chooses to visit another house, he can stay there. End of game
Your very much in the right he doesn’t lile it there’s the door…ur babies health is way more important then him seeing his gf🤷♀️
just like anyone else, stay yo ass where you are. If you can’t, stay where you go, cause you’re not coming here.
Send him back to your parents xxx
The family you created comes first.
You tell him if your children got sick it would be his fault. If he doesnt like it show him the door x
Kids come first. You have kids with asthma they are high risk.
He can FaceTime her. It’s safe for your family as well as the rest of us.
He can go live with his gr
Stand your ground. You are right. He won’t die without her but your kids can die if he or she brings the virus to your house.
be blunt… your child is at high risk so sure he can go see her but if he goes he stays there till this is over, and no she cant come over no ifs ands or buts about it… make his choice and you dont want to hear anything more about it…end of conversation.
No! You’re own children depend on you to protect them!! Do so, at all costs!!!
You’re not wrong 
his butt on out before he starts sneaking out to see her and you regret it
Same. Made my brother leave 2 weeks ago. Told him to pick one and stay there. He thought I was crazy then… now seeing things unfold he understands.
If he had children he wouldnt even be asking
Tell him to suck it up
You must take care of your babies
Stand your ground…kids are stupid these days
So… tell him to go stay with her for a few weeks. Mountains out of mole hills. Quit asking what is right. Put on your big girl panties.
Balls on your court. Save your babies!!
Stick to your guns. Tell if he doesn’t like it he can leave and not come back
If he’s being desperate it sounds like he’s gonna try to be a sneaky kid and go behind your back. Why doesn’t he go and stay with her then like you suggested?
Don’t budge. Your safety is more important than any tantrum.
Told my daughter same thing
You not in the wrong. He’s either with you or with her. He can’t afford to go back n forth. People needs to treat this lockdown very srs
My husband and I are going through the same thing with his son. We have multiple high risks in our house so we won’t let him, or anyone else, come and go all over the place. It’s gotten to a point in our house where the GF started texting my husband and myself first begging, then getting rude and disrespectful with us. At this point the GF isn’t allowed back to our house even after all this is done. We don’t deal with disrespect around here.
Dude you are all the way justified. Tell his spoiled ass he can choose one place or the other but he should be thinking more about his nieces or nephews than vagina.
If he has been around her any time in the last 2 weeks there is no reason to isolate them from each other. I think you’re being ridiculous about it but that’s just my opinion.
If he got kicked out of your parents I am assuming he over 18. Cuz its wrong ti kick out a minor. Anyways. So he over 18 so he has the right to make his own decisions. So why cant he stay with his gf.
Is he like 13 years old?
No stand your ground your babies health is what’s most important not seeing your damn gf there video chat for that
No
kids
involved he can leave
Nope you’re not wrong at all. People are taking this virus as a joke.
Your doing exactly the right thing. Stay strong and put you and your babies first xx
Jessica Horst I’m not the only 
Add an ICU nurse, you are absolutely doing the right thing!!
Kids > Brother Kick him out if he does keep bitching. He might sneak her in!
Stick to your guns. It is to risky for you and your kids and for him.
You are totally in the right about this…
Protect you and your babies. Imagine them sick and you sick, trying to take care them.
I’d say you want to go visit her stay there & don’t come back!! Protect your babies
Your children are now being healed from Asthma in Jesus name Amene
Tell him if he leaves he can’t come back into your house
Let him video chat her at least. You have to protect your kids.
I don’t blame you. Sux for him yeah, but you have to do what you feel is right to protect your kids.
You’re right. Better to err on the side of caution, always.
Kids come first. I dont blame.you one bit. If he can’t be with out her then he can be with her and stay.
You are not wrong .it’s the going back and forth. And you have 2 with asthma. I have a 2 week old here and a 2 yr.old . I’m staying put. Was out last ,March 12. For breakfast and I’m now also saving money
Tell his ignorant ass to stay home
Well he could always go stay with her for the whole thing but not come back to your house it’s his choice
We can still safely socialize from a distance but come on now, that’s his gf, there won’t be any distance between them. Tell him to see her thru the closed window LOL
How old is he 14 ? So much whining, maybe he isn’t mature enough to have a girlfriend in the first place .
Have her come live with you guys until this is over?
If he doesn’t respect your rules. Than tell him to go live with his girlfriend.
He’ll just have to deal with it! No going to see her!