File a petition for paternity with the court & they’ll make her, him & the baby take a DNA test… This will get the ball rolling
Two sides to every story.
For the ones that don’t have kids just don’t bother commenting
He needs to make her get a DNA test and take her ass to court for visits people like her makes me mad cause he wants to have apart of the babys life and then u have dead beats that DONT give a shit ugh
Girl she owes YOU nothing. Now if the father is for real ready to actually raise his baby, he can go to court.
Ok but what happened between time of conception to birth…we will never know.
Only the two of them will.
When dealing with this their are only two ways. One lawyer up and two burn it down. Lawyer up is round one though.
#BLM
Sounds like the hoe wants child support! He needs to get a lawyer and turn in proof of paternity, parenting time, all of it! Legal aid can help him with everything, paperwork, all of it. And he wont have to pay the $500+ to turn them in. But he is most likely going to have to pay child support. Not sure if that is an issue. But if he truly wants to be a dad he needs to get started noww!!!
Take her ass to court.
Sometimes you just have to walk away…
I would talk to a family lawyer.
At this point, he needs to get a lawyer. He should immediately file for partial custody. Have it done early enough and their is a set schedule. If she is doing this now…it will only get worse. That is a horrible thing to hold against a person is their child. Just file and ask for 50% custody.
All he needs to do is put himself on child support they will serve her papers do a dna test and then court and he will have rights
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Call dhr or whatever its called in your area. Where i live they will pay half for a paternity test and the father pays the other half. I kind of understand if she didnt want to chance a fight or something like that happening after she just gave birth. He may just need to give her some time.
Get a lawyer to do a paternity test and he can try to fight for rights but thats not a guarantee he will win
Don’t worry she’ll be looking for him when she needs help and she’ll be wanting child support.
I’m not joking when I say this. Call Maury Povich. Better yet call Steve. ( Steve
Wilkose Show) He’ll help y’all and your brother.
Steve is amazing. Hes all for what’s right and what’s wrong.
Both men have helped hundreds of people get justice done.
Your only other option is get a lawyer which you’ll need one soon.
I dont know why women choose to keep the father out of their child’s life. Youd think she would want what’s best for her baby. What’s best is the child know both parents. Has a life with both if them. And it can be done even them not being a couple any more.
I’m 60 yrs old. I dont even know my fathers name. It has haunted me ever since I was told. It’s not fair. He should have been told about me. He dont even know I exist.
All these years gone by and I have no picture, no memories of a loving father. I hate that.
Y’all just do the right thing in all this and dont allow this girl to get away with keeping her from him. A girl needs her daddy too.
I’ll be praying for you all.
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Good for her. Isn’t your business! Stay out of it. He can get an attorney! Vivid making its rounds so probably best for baby anyway.
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She needs to wake up to reality not take dad or his family away from child being evil now only damage s the children she can have a life the children are always damaged through out there lives
Definitely do a paternity test, when my husband needed one for his first child it went through court and he was able to remove all back child support with court order visits because there are half siblings. However depending on relationship as time goes on he may or may not have to take it through court a couple of times for visitation and such if he chooses to fight with her for his rights. But personally husbands situation was similar didn’t even get to see his daughter until she was almost 2 and last visit was when she was 4 shes now going to be 8 in November. We choose to not fight for the peace and sanity of both families and see her through Facebook posts and send her notifications through Facebook.
Get a attorney have a dna test maybe he isn’t the biological father ??
He’s gonna have to take her to court . Only solution it seems
DNA test, some states have grandparents rights, lawyer Good Luck!
Go to court. Establish paternity and go for custody
He needs a lawyer to demand a paternity test to prove he’s the father, then go to court to request to be put on the birth certificate and to arrange joint custody or visitation rights. She’s being selfish and childish by denying the baby the right and privilege to have a relationship with dad. Now, that being said, if he ever has been abusive, physically or verbally, it changes everything.
He can go to the child support office and tell them he wants to establish paternity to support his child. Once he goes through that process (which can include DNA ) his paternity rights will be established through the courts regardless of the birth certificate. He can then file a custody motion for visitation.
She left him off the birth certificate then she doesn’t want him parenting her child…
U don’t know he’s the father 100 percent so she’s taking steps to protect herself
Take her to court for paternity test then get 50/50 custody and put on the birth certificate.
Two sides to every story. Only thing he can do is go file with the courts
Get a lawyer be the besy option
File establish paternity papers and visitation papers. Get a blood test first . Once paternity is filed his name goes on the birth certificate. Do it ASAP
He does have rights if he is the biological father, but everything will have to be done legally, there’s not much FB can help you with, he has to obviously get some counseling and figure out what his next move has to be, his fight will be a long and hard one, he has to prepare himself for a nasty ordeal