Talk to a lawyer ASAP
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He needs to seek legal counsel. He can petition the court to establish paternity and then some form of visitation/custody. He may even be able to do an “emergency hearing”.
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Paternity test and a custody order. Then she don’t get a say, and no he does not have to wait to file. He can do it now.
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Lawyer up, paternity test…if he’s the Dad court for custody.
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Tell him to file a DNA test with the court and go from there
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When she wants child support she will have no choice but to let the courts do a DNA test and put him on the BC. He needs to go to the Attorney General and file child support on himself. She will have no choice but to go through the process of proving he’s not the father. When the results come back that is his baby, he will get his rights.
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She either isn’t sure who the dad is or your brother isn’t telling the whole truth.
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While getting a lawyer he needs to text to check on the baby offer to buy diapers, etc. And make sure to KEEP all correspondence and whatever he does don’t be nasty, mean, or threatening at anytime! Good luck
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Contact a lawyer immediately and get a dna test. Take it to court and she has no choice but allow him visitation to his child
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He has rights and it’s time for a lawyer NOW
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He needs to go to the child support office and request a DNA test. It will look even better for him. Once the results are back he will be out on the birth certificate and have rights. Talk to a family lawyer. Most of them always offer a free consultation
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He needs to be keeping a journal of everything. Write down dates and times, including phone calls and what was said over the phone. Having a paper trail is very important.
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Get a blood test done through a parenting plan at your local court house.
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Simple file with the childsupport office amd they will do all the rest for you°°°
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Have a dna done by the state.Then the court will make her put his name on the birth certificate. Also will force her to let him visitation.
He can get his name put on and custody but ahe just had that baby you do t know their relationship behind closed doors
He needs to do a DNA test through the courts and then he’ll have a rights.
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All I can say like Teresa Williams said iis there more to this. But I also say that since this is the drama that she wants she will be looking for child support. So he better bea her to the punch and lawyer up. He does have rights. But if he is having drama problems then he needs to get a handle on the problem. Cause it will playa big factor in whatever he decides to do legally.
Get a dna test and take her ass to court I can’t stand when women use their babies as a pawn to get back at their ex
Sooo by the little info you’ve given us, I would suggest waiting a couple of days and they will be back “on” again and all will be forgotten.
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He needs to take her to court plain and simple. It’s the only way to enforce custody rights. Plus he’ll have to agree to a paternity test fir the court to give him custody rights
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He needs to take her to court!
- DNA test
- After dna test court order for rights and visitation
- As well as have him go to parenting classes and what not to help in court
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There is always more to the story.
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I believe he can ask for a dna test.
Get a attorney! They will take care of it. May have to do a DNA test but he can get put on the birth certificate and get visitation. He will have to pay child support but probably at least get every other weekend and alternate holidays.
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Hell by the time that baby is walking she probably be begging him to take care of it.
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Do you have an attorney?
Tell your brother to go to court and file for custody and requesting a dna test to prove the baby is his and let it be known that you guys won’t go down without a fight
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He needs to Lawyer up, Paternity test and demand his Paternal rights!
Regardless if there is more to the story, the father deserves to see his newborn child just as much as the mother! the child didn’t ask for any of what’s been going on, don’t take it out on the child god damn.
He needs to seek legal advice and go forward with state Dna and take her to court regardless if they get back together it’s the best way to do it then he will have his rights as the father and won’t have to worry about her stopping him from seeing their child.
He would have to get an attorney and take it to court. That would be the best way.
If this is in Ga, being on the birth certificate doesn’t give him rights anyway. Just gives the baby his last name.
Time to get a lawyer. Make sure he documents EVERYTHING thoroughly.
He can get a dna test done cost a bit of money but worth it for him
Get a lawyer have the Court demand a DNA test and go from there if it his child the court will fix it
Good luck. Unfortunately until he can prove he is the father he has no rights without being on the birth certificate. He’ll need an attorney.
Best advice I can give you as hire a lawyer and keep records of everything
Petition the courts to establish paternity and parenting time. Pretty easy if you are in the US. Idk about anywhere else.
Then he needs to file a suit affecting parent child relationship petition to request visitation and if she wants to say he’s not even on the birth certificate do DNA to establish paternity and if he is the father request his name be added on the birth certificate.
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An attorney can subpoena her he just needs her first and last name and birth date
Run to the courthouse…dna test and don’t waste a minute hopefully the truth will prevail
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All he has to do is file for a paternity test. She can not deny to take this court ordered test. Once it’s declared he’s the father he can file for visitation/custody. Which she can’t deny him either.
Keep any and all correspondence that he’s previously had and all future correspondence.
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I don’t understand why they think a baby will make it better! It never does.
lawyer up & get a court ordered dna test.
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DNA testing changes a lot!
Find a men’s rights attorney. Have him go for joint custody and to have him put on birth certificate.
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Get dna test done asap
Lawyer. Judge. Court.
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He can take her to court and get DNA on the baby.
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Fathers rights should beable to assist him with this.
Get a paternity test order one and then take her to court easy! 5050 custody nothing she can do
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Tell him he needs to file for child support, yes it will suck if he has to pay, but they will give him 50/50 if he has proof of job house and being a good father and if she denies him SHE will get into trouble
Document EVERY little thing. Paper trails help.
Needs to file for paternity testing and establish parental rights.
I would go seek legal advise ASAP
DNA test you never know…
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Go to court house an file for visitation an DNA an when it comes back his an he has all the proof she keeping him away she will have to end up paying for the DNA test an he will be granted visitation
Time for court. But be prepared. Paternity test and of course bc he wants to be known as the father his income will be on the stand to see what child support is to be given. If he can prove he has a room for his child and can support he can file for 50/50. But in meantime a newborn stays with the mother majority of the time … considering feeding and bonding …
but once he is on the birth certificate this is a life time ordeal.
A little bit of the hard truth - u sure u wanna go through all of that for a child he may never be able to see without hardship. Keep it moving and find someone to build a real family with
He needs to take her court, get paternity to prove that’s his child & get his rights. The judge will order it if he proves he can and will be a good father
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Get a lawyer and file for visitation/custody
DNA test first,no matter then hire an Attorney get ready for years of staying in court?
Document everything. Times and dates. Screenshot evidence and take her to court. She would have to have proof that he is an unfit parent. The courts will decide what’s best for the child.
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He has legal rights all he needs to do is go ask they’ll do a dna test and amend the certificate and he will get legal visitation schedules she has to follow or she will go to jail for contempt
Tell him to get a lawyer, have a paternity test and go to mediation with a custody plan. Most courts want to see what’s in the best interest of the child. Most courts want to see parents co-parent. Document everything. Start a journal now.
Immediately get a lawyer & go to family court and file for 50/50 custody. If she did this before he even got to meet his child it’s not gna get any better and no parent has more right over the other with a child. Unless there is reason for the child not to be placed with your brother then a judge will not look lightly on a parent not fostering a relationship with the other parent. Father’s have rights ( document everything & absolutely get a lawyer and file for custody)
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This is only one side of the story, but she as the mother has every right to deny him being at the hospital, the only thing he can do is a paternity test and seek legal advice
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GET A LAWYER and fight HARD!!! that’s all I can say.
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He doesn’t need a lawyer, he has rights and can file himself for 50/50 visitation and custody, file for custody and they will do DNA and he can be added to the birth certificate.
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DNA test! lawyer to fight for custody! End everything with this heartless women!!
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He does have legal rights n needs a DNA test 2 get that ball rolling. She needs 2 grow up n doesn’t sound like very capable mother material.
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He needs to hire a lawyer as soon as possible
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Go to your local office of child support and request a DNA test. It will establish paternity and look good on him for trying to support his child when he goes to court for visitation and joint custody.
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Lawyer and court, they will do a DNA test and he’ll gain his rights.
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The hospital could of brought him the paperwork for the birth certificate. But you can file online for court hearing to get visitation and on the birth certificate.
He can prove he’s the father without a DNA test. My brother was left off the birth certificate and they wouldn’t allow baby to get a DNA test. He was able to prove to the courts via text message. So text , voicemail, domestic reports anything can prove he’s the father.
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Man, I f’kin can’t stand it when parents (typically the mother but not always) use kids. Grinds my gears! I have been on this earth long enough. I have been thru some horrible things with custody and visitation, and I’m gonna tell you right now that child will grow up resenting everyone. Mom for denying her an opportunity to know her father and his family, and her father for not trying hard enough. At least 1 can be avoided… he needs to get a DNA test ASAP, screenshot those messages, and get a lawyer. Courts generally don’t take too kindly to parental alienation… it is a form of abuse.
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Go to court and get a paternity test. After that’s established he can fight for rights. My advice is a lawyer. Normally dad is allowed every other weekend but with an attorney he might get more. My sil b.d recently fought for rights a year ago. He always came and went as he pleased, would be inconsistent with visitations & would go months woth no contact. Judge automatically gave him every other weekend with no supervision. Niece is unhappy there and hates going, sil has put her in therapy to deal with trauma. Recently he took her to court again and has gained every other week rights.
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How was a DNA not allowed? If the courts ordered it it would happen.
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I feel like its control. My fiance ex did the same thing. Didnt tell him when she was having their son and left him off the birth certificate. He saw his son a week later at her moms house and didnt even get a voice in his name.
Lawyer and court. They will make her pay for a paternity test and everything. Dont waste any time!
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Get a good attorney. He could easily get visitation rights
Nothing you can do as the aunt. This is up to the baby’s father. He’ll need to go to court, pay for DNA, and do his best to coparent peacefully. Best of luck.
P.S. he needs to stay away from the hospital right now. He’ll get arrested if he keeps trying there. She’s made up her mind for now. Sit and wait till lawyers can help.
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Go to court , Petition for a DNA and go from there
One word, COURT!!!
Tell him to get on top of filing a motion! They will establish parentage and once that is established he can get visitation. Also, tell him to document everything. Make sure he is texting her or emailing every day asking to see his child so he can document all of it to show that he’s been trying and reaching out. Documentation is key in a lot of these cases!!
Good luck; I can’t imagine how incredibly painful it must feel!
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Sounds like she knows it isn’t his baby but doesn’t have the balls or respect to say so.
Nope nope nope I want to hear her side of the story
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Go to court for child custody. First step is DNA testing. It’s a process but he has legal rights if it’s his biological child. She sounds like a weirdo.
COURT COURT COURT. Seems like he’ll go through that a lot with her pos self. Once they try n keep the baby away for ANY reason, IT WILL KEEP HAPPENING
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Lawyer up. And if she wants child support things will change.
P.S. so sorryhesand your family are going threw this it’s sad.
Needs to get a Court to order blood test and get him his rights and put on the birth certificate
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Take her to court. Prove paternity with a DNA test. Get a lawyer.
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He’s got to take it to court. Save any text/messages if he tries to see the baby and if she denies any visitations. Save everything. Court is really the only way to go.
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Well if she didn’t put his name on the birth certificate she could forget about getting child support from him. Because I don’t know about what state you live in but in this state if you can’t prove who the father is you can’t get public assistance
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Tell him to take her to court for legitimation that will give him all his rights to the child. If your in ga I don’t know what ever county charges but my county is 215 in costs for court to get legitimized. And taking her to court for that will also allow him to request he be put on the birth certificate.
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Put himself on child support and have the establish paternity ASAP…
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Lawyer up and get ready for a lengthy battle. It will be worth it in the end. No child should be kept from a loving parent
Get an attorney and file a motion 1: for DNA, 2: visitation 3: child support.
If she didn’t want him there during birth, sounds like bigger problems that you don’t know about. I think you need to listen to her side, there is some reason she doesn’t want your brother around. Sounds like your brother has hurt her bad.
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First step DNA then straight to family court
It sounds like she doesn’t know who the father is. He can file a paternity action with the court. They can order him added to the birth certificate.