My child hates car seats: What can I do?

Does anyone else’s child HATE to be in the car seat? My son is turning 2 next month and he did fine in the car up until a few weeks ago. Kicking, screaming, pulls my hair, locks up his body… it’s so stressful and makes me not what to go anywhere. any tips? I feel like a terrible mom for getting upset with him when he doesn’t listen.