If they are scared of it try a cute potty seat. Or put a cute sticker on the lid
Let her do it on her own. Offer treats but donāt force her she will not do it if you make her. Canāt fight in the potty
Have her wear regular underwear. A few times soiling her clothing should cure this.
Most girls, if they have an accident. They will understand cause they DO NOT WANT TO BE WET, use UNDERWEAR
My son would also refuse. So l let him be, 1mth before his 4th birthday, he startedā¦ he 5 now
When she is ready, she will go, leave her alone
Make her wear big girl underwear and take her shopping and let her pick her own potty out. Might help. Worked for my sister.
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Sheās not ready if she refusing Iād just take her to the potty with me when I go and when sheās ready she start going
Can you get a seat over the toilet bowl for her to use?
I have a 2 year old (3 in August) and sheās the same way
Take your time. We did lots of pantless days in summer out side. 
No one is walking down the wedding isle in pampers.
In Africaā¦come for advice
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Should have started this LONG before now. Whoās in charge here?
Have you tried training straight on the toilet?
My first was ālateā with potty training. Heās 7 now and nobody cares or reflects on it 
Let it go for now. Start again in a few months. One thing you canāt make someone do is go to bathroom.
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Put panties on her. She will hate being wet. Girls arw different than boys. Prayers for you and your famā¤
She isnt ready !!!dont force her it will Traumatize her .
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Put her on the potty an then turn the water on in the sink, the sound of running water helps .
I say take it at her place! She will when she is ready
Stop pressuring her. Try again later.
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Leave her be. She will when sheās ready
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Sheās not ready, she will be donāt worry
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She refused and freaked out. Stop buying pull ups
I wouldnt push it! She will when she is ready.
Meh. My son is almost 12 and still not potty trained 
oh well. It is what it is but yāall got me beat for sure #specialneedsmom
Meeeee right now!! Sheās afraid to seat on the potty 
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Chill. When she is ready, she will do it on her own. When she is 16, no one will be able to tell .
Be Patient !!! All in time. Keep in mind every child is different.
Donāt force this on heršš»
Have patience! Let her do it on her own time.
I gotta be honest, mine potty trained at the day care. Let the professionals do it, lol!
A cute toilet seat and a find a book celebrating potty training.
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Just give her time and donāt stress over it,she can sense it.
Of my seven kids, theyāve trained anywhere from 18 months (decided she wanted princess undies like her big sister) to 4 for our first-born, brilliant but strong-willed son. We found that if we played it chill, introduced the potty, and let them decide when to do it, the potty training happened in about 2 days. When we listened to the pediatrician and were trying to make it happen at a certain time with a certain method, it was a complete disaster that scarred us for life. After our first kid took over 2 years to potty train, we were so reluctant to try again that our 2nd and 3rd kids trained themselves in 2 days with the minimal effort of us buying pretty undiesāwe didnāt even have a kid potty at that moment. After that we just bought cool undies, showed them how to use the potty and waited. Iām a no-drama mama, I guess. I wish I could go back and slug the pediatrician who told me I HAD to start training my 18-month-old son or it would be too late to do it right and Iād be walking my kid to his first day of school in a diaper. Thanks for the 2 years of hell, Doc.
Mine was 4 before she was potty trained ā¦ She would hold it all day till we put a pull up on for bedtime ā¦ She will go when she is ready ā¦donāt force her just roll with it ā¦ Or try a potty chair ā¦ She will get there hugs
Sheāll start learning when sheās ready, just give her time.
She will eventually get it. Donāt stress Mama !
Doesnāt sound like she is ready!!
I offered my daughter treats after potty time!
My 4 yr old daughter refuses too.
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They always learn to goā¦
Let her be and just observe you ā¦donāt make a big deal of it ā¦she will when you least expect her to be ready
Maybe sheās just not ready.
Sheās not ready. Revisit in a couple months.
Take the diaper off and let her walk in her undies
The Elmo potty time movie is good too.
She will when she is ready, try her with the big girl toilet
Wait. Sheāll do it herself. No need to panic or rush it.
Sheās not readyā¦ They have to be ready or it wonāt work
It takes patience make it fun make it exciting like a game
It has to be on her time!
Give her more timeā¦ she may not be ready
Give her time sheās not ready
Give her time donāt push it
Iām going through the same thing
Donāt push. She will when sheās ready.
sheās 3 give her a breakā¦sheāll let you know
Wait til she is 4. Iām serious.
Girls go when they are good and damn well ready. You cant ask, beg, plead or bribe them into it.
Give it time. She will get it. 3 is when I started with mine. Tried to do it before they were 3 and they just were not ready.
Wait til sheās readyā¦sheāll let you know.
Shes still a babyā¦when she is ready she will let you know
Sat her on the flush backwards and let her write on the cover with maker that erases
Wait 6 months, try again
Wait donāt force her, she not ready
Sheāll do it when sheās ready
Just keep trying sheāll go eventually
She will when shes ready. U cant force it
My 3 yr old also so following my dr said dont force it.
Wait until sheās ready
Sheās 3 calm down and wait til she is ready
If she isnāt ready donāt push.
Take diaper away completly put pantys on only
She will do it when ready
Wait till sheās ready.
Make her change herself
Do not use pull ups or disposable diapers. The absorbent material makes them comfortable. Use cloth diapers and the plastic covers. When it is uncomfortable and takes a lot of time to change, she will decide to use the toilet. Because it is faster.
Put her on her potty every time you go & keep explaining how sheās big & doing if girl stuff just like mommy even how her big girl panties are like mommyās ā¦
Play a game you go potty then tell her now you do it
Wait. 6 months till her tiny no d matures. Sheās still little
Wait until theyāre ready.
Sheās 3, give her a break.
Itās not time then! Donāt force it
Hey. 3. Age isnāt a miracleā¦ Treat each child. As there maturity Is
Wait till she is ready.
YouTube Princess Polly Goes Potty
Leave her , ever 21 year old know how to go pottyš
Have you been trying all along?
Take her with u and put on the tiolet
I let them decided because once they are really ready, they just do it. My boys were three and a half and the other was almost four. My girls were almost three too . One day, they decided they wanted to be potty trained and rarely had accidents after that day . With my sons, I gave them the choice to go to preschool or the babysitterās house if they wAnted to still stay in diapers and guess what! They chose chose school instead and I will say, I was really nervous about the first week with both of them that I would get a phone call but it never happened. Please donāt make it a battle. Your girl will do it with no pressure when she is ready
This type of seat that fits on the toilet seat made a huge difference in assisting our adventures with grand babies. Consistent trips to the potty and a special celebration with clapping, encouragement or a small sticker helped. Each child gets it at their own stage. Just sitting on the potty could be stressful. This insert helps to feel safe.
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They make these cute little pottys at walmart/target that are an exact replica of a normal toilet. Cool thing for girls, it comes in hot pink!
Iāve been in preschool for 8 years and I worked with 2 & 3 yr olds the whole time. I also have 4 children of my own. Donāt put too much pressure on her. She will eventually become interested. Too much pressure will have the opposite affect many times. Just keep trying to encourage her.
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Iām a firm believer in waiting until they are ready. I waited with my daughter after pushing 2 separate times, when she was ready, it literally took her ONE DAY! She never went back to diapers after that. Even at night, she would cry if we put a diaper on her. Follow her but donāt be afraid to be a little more assertive if you feel she is ready but just being lazy. Best of luck!! You got this!
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Tough love. Playing games she is. Kids are naturally ready at 18 months so no way she is not.
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My daughter was potty trained before 2. Pull ups did not work for her. Waste of money in my opinion.
Put panties on her. Yes she had a few accidents, but hated wet or dirty underwear. Worked for her.
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What I did with my son, took 1 week and no accidents. Take her to potty every 2 hours, if she doesnt go, take her every 20 min til she does. Once she goes, every 2 hours again. And mnmās are a great reward. He got it in days. I was sick of buying pullups thatd hed pee in anyway.
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Book for potty train is a big help for my two kidsā¦ now my 3yrs old boy can pee and poo on his ownā¦
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Wait until she is ready! My middle daughter was the same way! Would flat out tell us āno, Iām not ready yet!ā 
she was damn near 4 before she even considered it, like would almost cry if we tried to put her in the potty (big or small) one day she just decided it was time.
At first we tried to push it since my oldest daughter was potty trained at 2 and my middle was already 3 and just wasnāt ready!
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