Absolutely no… she is good at it n enjoys it… continue to cheer n support her
Absolutely not!! HUGE RED FLAG 
and incredibly selfish that’s he’s even suggested you do such a thing…
Never pull her out…I worked 3 jobs for my daughter to follow her passion
Absolutely not let her keep doing what she loves xx
Keep letting her do cheer, you are being a great mom. Don’t let your man stop her from doing what she loves.
Hell no! If your child enjoys it, you do what you can to support her in that.
cheer coach here…
I’m slightly biased…lol but NO. You keep that girl in cheer and foster those skills.
Should you take away what you just stated your daughter loves and has busted her butt off in being where she’s at? Wow… Why? Because others don’t get to travel with her… crazy SHIT if you ask me.
Let her keep at it. It’s not your fault the others are lazy/don’t want to do anything
NO if u make her quit because your boyfriend wants it what do U think u are telling her.
Nope, she shouldn’t have to stop
Sounds like he’s crushing her dreams…keep on cheering girl.
No let her continue it as long as she enjoys it and wants to do it
Absolutely not!!! Let the girl cheer.
Absolutely not!! Keep her in cheer.
Parents should support positive activities for their kids. Not all kids are equal in their interests and you shouldn’t force them to do or to stop something if you have the means to continue it.
No mama, do not stop her. He is wrong on this one.
Your kids come first!
Absolutely not. Let her cheer!
Dont choose him over your daughter. He needs to get over himself
Nope!! That could be unfair to your daughter.
Definitely don’t make her stop .
Honestly he doesn’t get a say. Keep her in cheer. Make sure the other kids know they are allowed to join sport or extracurriculars as well.
Your fiance is in the wrong. Get your kids into a hobby then as well. It’s not oh one gets to do something over the others. I was in wrestling my brother never felt I got to do more than him. I wanted to do it
I’m sorry but when u star a rel with someone the kids are involved as well ig speaking as a father of step kids I question why he would want ur child to be happy as well
I wouldn’t make her stop especially if you’re going with her. Now if my husband was tryna force that responsibility on me id be upset especially cause I don’t drive. But if he handles it I wouldn’t care
No you shouldn’t… let her keep doing what she loves
He needs to step back and realize that kids being in sports - whether local or travel is great for them. Gives them a goal, gives them focus, gives them pride in what they do and hopefully keeps them away from drugs and crime! Keep her in it and continue to support her!
This is why I’m staying single. 
Keep her in cheer! To bad if he don’t like it
I don’t understand why you would purposely take something from your daughter that she seems to love so much just to please a man that isn’t even her father. 
Id show him these comments. Theres no way id screw up my childs life just to please a man! He seriously needs to grow up and put the kids needs 1st, or i dare say it, i might actually consider moving on away from him. Treating my child like crap is a huge red flag and deal breaker for me.
Im sorry, im not trying to be negative. But you do have to wonder, if hes going to be like this now-what else is he going to be like this over in your families future??
That toxic controlling attitude is only going to get worse/come out more.
If I put myself in your shoes, I would go back to the hometown y’all came from and allow my daughter to continue her cheer. There is NO reason he should even suggest that. I was in Competitive cheer and then cheer for the football team. I loved it so much and my mother stood by my side every step of the way. She was at every competition and every football game. One of her exs tried to get her to pull me from it, she told him “if you don’t like what I do for my child, then there’s the door. Leave.” Your fiancé is being very very immature and I’m so glad you’re seeing this before the marriage. He sounds very controlling. Do NOT allow him to tell you what to do with YOUR own children. F that. I said what I said.
Keep letting her cheer. He should get over it. Encourage the other kids to pursue stuff if they want. Your daughter deserves to keep cheering
He’ll nah she did it before him that’s scholarship stuff did he move you in to be babysitter for his kids
your daughter should come before his massive ego on god.
Nooooo keep her into cheering not fair to pull her out
He is 100% wrong. This is why kids are fat and lazy these days because their parents don’t lead them in the right direction and teach them commitment and dedication. Poor girl let her keep cheering. I’d find a new fiancé before I had my daughter stop cheering 
You let your daughter cheer! Cheer baby cheer!! Don’t let anybody stand in the way of you being a mom and doing what you do to help her achieve her goals!
Hell no. Let her shine. She’s not the one asking to quit so he can F*** off.
Wow your fiance sounds like a hater.
tell him to back tf off.
I could totally understand a man being an ignorant ass on some “She doesn’t need to be doing all that… bla bla” type of thing due to him being new to the situation & suddenly seeing just how much money & time for the kids AND the parents is required for cheer (iykyk, cheer is literally life or nothing), BUT if you explained to him that she is 4 years in & has chosen to work her butt off for this & he is still pressing the issue, he is a whole entire douche. Idk how y’all could have possible gotten to the point of marriage without him seeing that cheer is big for y’all.
Hell no you shouldn’t make her stop.
Keep your daughter in cheer. If the other kids show an interest in something, you would support them too. If he won’t support her…is he really the man for you?
No… Toss him before you would make her stop… it’s not your or her fault he never had his kids do anything. The only time she should stop is if she wants to. You say this is your fiance, I would think carefully about if you really want him as a husband if he pushes this and has her stop. Your children should always come first
If your fiancé does not agree with things your daughters need , then maybe you should look for another one! One thing about my kids and grandson nobody absolutely nobody comes between me and my children/ grandson I have custody of… especially if he’s NoT the real father…
He is being ridiculous and immature. Please do not stop your child from cheering. It’s not like anyone is stopping the other children from doing anything. They choose not to.
No let your kid cheer. Also you may want to find a new fiancé or have some real life discussions. It sounds petty.
Huh?? You know the answer to this. And stop uprooting kids for a supposed “fiancé”. Especially one that is already showing jerk characteristics.
Do not do that to your daughter for a man. Or she will never have goals and dreams again for fear someone could take it away
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Don’t rip your daughter from something she loves for some selfish asshole who isn’t even her dad.
You giving him a lil too much power over your kids.
Stop…for YOUR man…not your hubby but a boyfriend…Hell TF no!
She should be able to continue
Don’t make her stop.
Nooooo way. Tell her good luck @ her new school and to continue to kick butt at cheer 
Do not make her stop for him, ever
Hell no don’t make her stop !!
Heck naw she’s worked harf
Do not make her stop.
No way let her cheer