My fiance took a loan without consulting me...advice?

He was dishonest with you from the moment he applied for that loan
Tell him this is his debt not yours
Him and his co-worker are responsible for the repayments

I would go out of my way to find out who this so called co-worker is
And confront him/her
And demand an explanation
Then hand over the paperwork
Don’t you dare pay a cent towards it

You need to explain why your fiance took out a loan for his “coworker” and why your fiance is the one paying back $300 a week. That sounds very weird.

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Good thing he’s a fiance not a husband. Lying by omission is still lying. I guarantee that coworker has a vagina he’s visiting he ain’t paying 1200 month for a man friend. Unless it’s a bromance :rofl:

ITS NOT YOUR MONEY . Are all the bills paid? Already they to take half and your not married

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Yeah, I would get out of that pretty sickly. Sounds fishy at best, and like he’s hiding something and is soso being an arsehole about money at worst

So… I’m guessing your just doing all the domestic work and parenting for free then… like a free live in nanny and maid ohh how fun :sweat_smile: guessing he expects head too :rofl:

Nah fuck that

He made a decision that effects him and his paychecks he works for. As a SAHM you aren’t contributing financially and it leaves you no room to dictate what a working person spends their money on.

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Sounds like a him problem. I’ll say what others may not… His decision could cost him your relationship. You can only do you anyway, don’t stress. Don’t pay his tick bill g :kissing_heart:

Sweety. I think you’re married. He on the other hand isn’t. He’s still pretending he’s single.

Red Flag… a look into your future my friend…

Youre Not married so its still his money and his debt, but atleast you know how shady he can be by keeping important financial decisions from you… SO that should give you a clue about what to expect from him if you get married… I’d quit while I’m ahead😬

Things like this is a huge contributing factor for a lot of divorces. If he’s not communicating with you now about big stuff (a loan in thousands of dollars is big) as is, what will it be like when you guys do actually get married? Put the engagement on hold and have a sit down and talk this out, he’s clearly not ready to be married if he cant even communicate with his future wife about a financial decision that effects the SHARED household. There are so many facets to a successful marriage and yes love is one of them but not the only, nor the biggest percentage.

Not your business. When and if you marry then you have a right to know how the financial situation is handled.

I think this person phrased this question in a way to make people be on her side. First of all it’s prolly her (boyfriend) she just wanted to put fiancé to make it seem more legit. Either way you aren’t married. Co worker could be co-business partner or a family member that works with him or for him. To me this woman seems like the shady one who just wants attention. The reason he didn’t say nothing is because she is a stay at home mom? No he didn’t say anything cause it isn’t your business. But obviously he has told you now or you wouldnt know? Lol. There is literally not enough information to have an input. If I was dude I would find a new girlfriend. You are an attention whore!!