Why would you not want all the kids to know and have a relationship with each other?
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Wow that’s selfish! She’s right for wanting your baby there. Siblings are siblings and they deserve to have each other!
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Follow up question- do you not allow your fiancé to see his kids? Does he get visitation? If so, his kids are already around your baby.
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Why wouldn’t you want your baby a part of their lives?
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That is awesome that ex is doing that .
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Why not there still RELATED TO EACHOTHER!!!
Grow up!! They are siblings and deserve to be together and know eachother. What is wrong with you??
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Is this really question it’s the babies brother or sisters of course they need a realationship
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I would absolutely let my baby be in their siblings life.
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Why wouldn’t you want your child to know his siblings. They are children they didn’t pick the confusing lives they were born into. Let the kids hangout and get to know each other. Don’t keep them away it will backfire later in life when they are old enough to do it themselves. If your afraid of the other childrens parents just supervise them. Start small meet up mc Donald’s or something then parties
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Either way your baby will be around his other kids regardless unless your not letting him see his other kids.
Children should know their siblings!!! Grow up, be mature!!!
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I would expect that behavior from the other woman. Woman don’t be silly.
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If there good to your kids and it’s a good safe environment , let them go and have a good time and enjoy there family , but if it’s not a good environment and if you feel they will bad mouth you , keep them away
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I would, but only if you and your SO are taking them. I would never send my child off with my SO’s ex without myself or him being present. If y’all aren’t welcome to attend then her intentions with your children aren’t sincere
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Your fiance’s kids. Your child’s siblings. You’re being immature and petty. Shes doing the right thing and you’re lucky she is willing to co-parent and have a relationship with you at all!
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Unsure what the problem is, they had children before you were on the scene presumably so of course they should know each other! They’re siblings, I’m surprised your fiancé hasn’t put his foot down about this as they’re all his children
Wtf is wrong with you. Count your blessings that she wants to be civil and let the kids see their new half sibling!! Most baby mamas are way too bitter. Damn. Grow up sis.
I can’t believe this is a real question.
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I dont see the problem, i always invite my boys half sister, their dad and their sisters mom to their birthdays, we do a family christmas on boxing day, and their sisters mom also invites them, plus myself my husband, his son, and our daughter to her daughters birthdays. I always thought it was just normal to try and get along and let them spend time together outside of the normal “visitation” schedule.
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How is this even a question? Ugggh some mothers do have 'em… and some fucking shouldn’t! How pretty can one be?
They are the babies siblings they have a right to all be around each other. Also how do you think it is it avoidable?
Grow up girl and open your heart.
That is your childs family aswell end of the day. This post is selfish af, aslong as your fiance isnt entertaining his ex or she is using it as excuse to get to him… there should be no problem as long as she treats your kids well and is a good mom.
My s/o and i have 5 children between us. We call them all ours, there is no half or step. They are siblings… To call them half or step shows them they are unequal, or implys that the love we have for them is unequal. Which is not the case. My s/o and his ex and i co parent well, we all go to his ex’s bday parties, she to ours, we also take all the kids on outings to the zoo ect. Its important for us, to show our kids that we are all a unit there for them. Not one household against the other… With that being said, not every co parent relationship is as good as ours is, but those kids are your child’s siblings, and your “step children”. If you can’t accept that, it seems you have had a child with the wrong person, as surely those children exsisted before you started dating… I’m just saying, why would you not want your child to have a relationship with his or hers siblings? I’m not trying to be negative by any means, but by having a relationship and starting a family with someone that has kids from a previous relationship, you’re going to have to blend those families into one.
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Are you a selfish bitch? Siblings deserve to know each other and have a relationship. Get off your petty horse and do right by those kids.
They are his siblings. Half/step who gives a crap. They are siblings. If you aren’t comfortable with her taking the baby. Then go. Develop a relationship with them. Kids are kids. They don’t know the BS behind the scenes. Encourage a relationship. It’s an olive branch and I would take it…
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Wow, don’t you know sooner or later they will look each other up …what are you thinking if she takes care of them and treats them right my hat is off to her
Yes let them be a part of his life
I hope you choose wisely.
“ expose” what an unpleasant term. You are exposed to disease and violence not other children for goodness sake 
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My husband has two by two different people and my little one’s know them as their brother’s and nothing else I feel sorry for your man if this is truly a argument at your house
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This fan is selfish and jealous. What a terrible human being. Grow up and go seek mental health. Fan sounds insecure.
Why would you not want your children to know their siblings?
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Not step, not half … Just siblings!
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Wow is all i can say… Sounds like you are the source of the problem …it does not matter if those children are half-siblings or not they are siblings… and your ex partner is trying to do the right thing. I think that you might need to come to terms with Jesus and go look in the mirror and maybe face the salty bitch your being…God bless you and I hope that you changed for your children…
This isn’t real, right? Like Ashton Kutcher is going to jump out and say we’ve been punked:woman_facepalming:
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Someone sounds insecure:/ you clearly knew he had kids before you . So put your big girl pants on . These “half” siblings are his kids too his blood . If you really love him you love his kids as well and want to be in their lives. Petty petty .
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You’re wrong as fuck for thinking like that🤦🏻♀️
I can’t believe you posted this
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Wtf!!! That is their brother don’t keep your kid from his siblings bc your a jealous idiot
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Your baby should be in their life, however the babymomma doesn’t have to. That’s your baby and whatever yup do is your decision don’t let all these other people tell you your terrible for it.
I dont know if this is just worded badly or what, but you sound selfish as fuck. You don’t want your child to know their half brothers? Good luck for when your child finds out you are the reason they don’t know their brothers
I have a half sibling and dont even look at him as HALF! That’s my brother…just from another mother…literally lol. But in all seriousness, u shouldn’t keep siblings apart…EVER! Granted, I wouldnt allow her to take your baby without u, but if u dont wanna be around the ex, then have dad take the baby. There are ways to go about it to make sure u dont have to deal w the ex, but the kids can all be siblings. Eventually though, u r gonna have to either stop being insecure or put your big girl panties on and deal w her for the kids sake…doesnt mean u have to right now, but eventually, u will. Let the “half” siblings meet their baby brother or sister n have a relationship! My siblings…all siblings…are my best friends. I would never take that opportunity away from my kid. I have 2 kids by 2 different dads n my daughter never looks at her brother as a half brother. My ex n my husband wants them to be close and of course, I do too
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Your incredibly selfish if you don’t encourage a relationship between your bby and his siblings! Point blank
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Very wrong. That is their sibling and they should know that. Get over it.
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Growing up I only had one brother. When he passed away I was left as an only child. Until I was 16 and found a copy of my medical card (my mom kept it from me) I found out I have 4 half siblings, that I know of. Imagine how much that fucked me up and made lose trust in my mom. Don’t keep siblings from each other. It’s not their fault. It’s being bitter. 
Dont be petty. Let your kids be involved.
Ummm sweetheart it’s called family. I talk to my bf ex wife almost on a daily. I
My “half” sister is my bestfriend and we were raised together. She is MY SISTER, nothin less. Let your baby have a relationship with his siblings… sounds like you’re insecure about fiancé and ex reconciling… be the bigger person
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Siblings half, whole or adopted is still a sibling. You are so wrong. You need to grow up or leave, your children have right to know any sibling.
Your not ready to be a wife if you can’t except all his children.
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My ex and I share a daughter, shes 10 now. He had a daughter by another woman, then met another girl who he now has a son with and she has 1 from a previous relationship. I think its important for my daughter to know and bond with her siblings.
Don’t keep your child from their siblings just because things didn’t work out between you and your ex and he’s building a family with someone else. That’s his kid too!
If my husband thought of my child from a previous relationship this way, he’d be out the door!
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They’re family whether you like it or not. It would be HORRIBLE to keep them apart and your kid will resent you later in life if you do that. If you can’t be an adult about it then let your man take the kid to the party (among otger family functions) and you stay home.
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Seriously? U realize that IS their brother/sister period… Whether u like it or not.
Dont keep a kid from siblings.
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Unless she or her family are dangerous, I wouldn’t keep my child from the rest of their family. Half siblings are siblings too. My kids miss theirs since they don’t see them anymore.
Those are his siblings and she is reaching out wanting them to be family. Why would you not want them to know each other? What do you do when he visits with his kids? Do they not come over and stay the night? I just dont understand why you would want to keep siblings apart. I have experience personally in situations like this and it sucks for everyone.
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“Expose”?? What are they, a communicable disease? Lord, girl.
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Ummm those are his kids, all 3 of them, they deserve to know eachother. Your child will hate you if you don’t let them have that relationship. Seema pretty selfish to not.
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Learn to co-parent lady, it’s their sibling, this should be a no brainer.
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Why would you want to keep them away?
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Why would she want to take the baby to the party are you not invited to the party is your fiance not invited to the party if she invited you guys of course take the baby cuz after all those are your step kids
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My sons father and I barley talk. However I take my sons brothers and sisters periodically. I talk to their mothers, go to their bday parties. They’re his family. Why would you ever try to keep them separated?!
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The father need a relationship with all his childern and all the childern should know each other as they are brothers and sisters or whatever the case maybe. It sounds like your jealous of her and thats no way to be espically since she is being nice and wants to include your child as well…i hope this situation gets better for everyone involved best of luck
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Grow up girl they are you child’s siblings like it or not they are family and will forever be conected by BLOOD
My older kids have a half sister and they all adore each other and she loves my youngest like a sibling even though they are not blood related
Family is important
You sound very childish and insucure
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That’s their siblings, half or not.
If you are marrying this man, those are part your children also. The word half siblings really bother me. Siblings are siblings and it would be wrong of you to NOT allow your child to be apart of there siblings lives.
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My mom did this to me. I never got to meet my half brother. Now I don’t even know his name. I’ll never forgive my mom for being that much of a petty bitch.
ANOTHER bitter baby momma!!! I know she said “fiancé “ but they have a child and still aren’t married 
#bitterbabymomma
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How old are you? If he’s involved with his children, then I’d absolutely take your child to the party. I wouldn’t just drop him off, but I would definitely go. Grow up
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Um. Whoa. I even became friends with my ex’s second ex and my other ex’s ex, I know confusing, but with the mothers of my kids “half” siblings because children deserve to grow up knowing and loving their siblings. It’s your job as the adult to welcome this and help make it pleasant for the kids.
Oh and buy that baby a gift as well and take pictures of ALL of them together. Shame on you. Sorry not sorry.
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WTH kind of question is this? He is their brother. Why would you want to keep them apart? The more people a child has in their life, as long as they are good influences, the better! You should be ashamed asking a question like that
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Yes it is very wrong of you to keep your child from their own siblings. Y’all’s relationship should have nothing to do with your kids. Family is important and you are hurting your children and being completely selfish if you keep them away for that simple reason. You would be putting your own jealous feelings over your own children’s well being and right to know their family… I have a son by a man I want nothing to do with and his other baby momma acts this way. My son has a brother within miles of him and knows nothing of him. Completely selfish. Don’t be that mother. Your kiss happiness in more important. Let those babies go to that party with their brothers/sisters.
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What the eff is wrong with you! THEY ARE FAMILY! Let those kids know their siblings🤦🏻♀️
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You are being selfish and immature. Grow up
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Um…ya. A sibling is a sibling. My daughter has 4 “half” siblings, she doesn’t see them as anything less than her brother and sisters. I think it’s selfish of you to keep your child from their siblings.
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This woman sound dumb
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Honestly I would love for my kids to be involved with any of their siblings if it were to ever come to that. My older brother is my “half” brother. I’ve never considered him “half”, it’s my brother period. I think it’s awesome of her to include your kids.
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Going to have to co parent. Let them be in their siblings lives
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Why would you not encourage the bond between the siblings? Because the mother is the ex? Is that the only reason? It is in the children’s best interest to get to know one another. Whether you like it or not, they are family! Those are his children too. It isn’t right for you to segregate his children in that fashion. I applaud the ex baby momma for encouraging the relationship between them. That’s a sign of maturity and putting the best interest of the children first. Yay for your fiancé and his ex on the positive co-parenting!!!
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You’re an insecure female to even be asking a question like this. Smfh.
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So like take as in me not being present no I couldn’t do that, but bring my kids around their other siblings yes…
They’re siblings no matter what. They didn’t get to a choice in it.
What the hell, why wouldn’t you want your child “exposed” to their siblings?! Half, full, quarter, whatever. They’re siblings and should be together. You really need to learn to co parent, and if you aren’t comfortable with her bringing your child alone then send your husband or go yourself
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I think you’re being selfish. Point blank. My fiance has 3 other children and I went out of my way (3 years ago) to get them every single weekend. Why ? Because those are my babies siblings (even when they weren’t) I love them like my own.
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I have stepchildren who I love as my own, and let me say, I hate using the term “step”. Clearly I’m not their mother but I would fight for them as if I birthed them. I have children of my own from prior that my husband now loves as his own. I feel that DNA shouldn’t determine a relationship between siblings. Let them know each other and love each other. U might not have birthed the other children, but those children are a part of your children. Why don’t u be the bigger person and tag along? My husbands ex and I are civil. It wasn’t always this way, but we both realized it’s the best way, the only way, for his and her children. My children are way older and so am I, not saying i know any better but I made sure she has nothing to worry about when they’re in my care. My kids are 18 and 13 now while my “bonus children” are 11 and 9. They’ve been in my life for 7 years now so yes in my eyes, they’re my kids. Don’t be salty and deny him taking the baby, if u have a problem with her, face her woman to woman civilly and talk it out. Sometimes that’s what needs to be done to have peace once and for all.
Seriously. That’s the babies siblings. Unreal.
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To simplify the answer to your question: yes, you are wrong for that.
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Is this really a question?
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Nah they family let them spend time with eachother. Dont be like tht cause of the past
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If you choose to have a baby with someone that already has children you should be accepting of his children that’s just messed up. My boyfriend has three kids and I have three kids and they’re just siblings we don’t say step or half or anything like that it’s just family.
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They are siblings I have 3 half siblings and one full and I love them all so much my younger 2 are full siblings my older 2 are from different dad’s and they all love each other do not keep your kids from there sibling that is not ok
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i have a daughter with a man with a son from a previous relationship and i couldn’t IMAGINE withholding her from him. they have no idea they’re ‘half’ anything… they are brother and sister and they ADORE each other.
also is your fiancé not in his other kids lives? that’s kinda shit…
So selfish. Unless legal reasons there isn’t any to keep the siblings apart…
Not half anything, they are siblings!
Growing up I got on with my step siblings better than my full blood siblings! Please don’t stop them knowing their family. At the end of the day they ARE family. Your child won’t appreciate you stopping them in the future.
Your child def needs to be in their siblings lives. If you are marrying this man, they are about to be your bonus children too! Whether you like it or not. Its better to go into this in a positive way. My husband’s ex and mother to his other children get along and its better for everyone this way
I have a “half” brother & sister my son also has a “half” brother & sister and to us they are our brother and sister not half I wouldn’t dare keep my son away just as my parents didn’t you sound jealous tbh
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Its his brother or sister! Yes they should be involved! I always invited my daughter’s sister to her party’s!
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