My fiances recent and only babymomma wants to take our baby to her children’s party and or be around them more often. She has two by him. Since baby is their half-brother. Is it wrong of me to not want baby in their life or should I expose him to them as his other half siblings.
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If you can go too, I don’t see why this is a problem. They are siblings
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Wow is this a real question that is your child siblings don’t be so insecure
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They’re siblings. Unless she’s abusive I’d allow it
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Expose him to them so when they get older they can have a sibling relationship
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Family over everything and those children are family
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My half sibling is one of my favorite people in the world.
And if the ex is offering this olive branch, I think you’d be crazy not to accept it.
Children can’t have enough love in their life.
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How would you feel if you parents kept you away from your siblings? Look at it in that perspective. One day you child will ONLY have siblings left.
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They are siblings. Are you for real? Like wtf
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I’d allow it, they are siblings. Maybe she just wants the kids to be close
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If this is even a real question then you should probably just put your child up for adoption like right now. 
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They’re siblings and didn’t ask to be don’t punish them for whatever problems you have with the other baby momma…be the adult
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Yeah but no to her taking the baby should be no issue with the dad or you or both of you all going to the party it’s co parenting
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She’s trying to be nice!! What’s so wrong with that! They are still blood. Smh
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Those kids are blood. Don’t be petty or insecure!
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What did those children ever do to not deserve to see their sibling?! 
That’s family whether they’re half or full blood. Grow up lady!
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In my opinion yes it is wrong of you to keep them from their siblings for selfish reasons.
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Woww you shouldnt even be asking the question
This is there sibbling half or not …i is not your decision wether your baby should get to bet around his sibblings. Therefore you can take te baby and act like a mother aand suck it i
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Um…yes. You should go and take your kid. They’re siblings. They deserve to be in each other’s life. I wouldn’t just let her take my kid without me though
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You don’t keep siblings away from each other. Wtf is wrong with you.
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Theyre siblings… Suck up your own feelings and go.
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OBVIOUSLY, They ARE his siblings. 🤦
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I have a half brother and sure as hell wouldn’t wanted them cut out of my life for my parents selfishness , if anything I don’t see him as half or anything less than a brother his been in my life since I was-born I wouldn’t of wanted it otherwise? She wants your baby there to socialise with her children to? Because there FAMILY how is it even difficult?
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Yes its wrong of you and selfish to not want your child in its siblings lives. If i was your bf id get rid of you
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Family is family. Don’t keep them from their siblings.
Their older siblings yes?you knew what you were getting into kids dont know half step etc unless its taught sorry lady those kids deserve their father and the baby.
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They’re siblings, they should be in each others life… Are you really asking this?
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Why would you want to keep your kids away from their siblings? Don’t punish the kids, because you can’t co-parent and be an adult.
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why b a bitch, do it
Idk my kids arent in their half sibilings life. They dont even know about them. But then again they dont have anything to do with their donors per donors choice so…
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Unless the kids are illmannered and mean to your child, the mother is abusive verbally or physically to you, your child, or her own then by all means let them get to know each other. I have a better relationship with my 1/2 sisters then I do my full siblings
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Siblings are siblings. Why wouldn’t you have them go?! I would resent my parent is they told me i could not be around my SIBLINGS
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Stop being a petty bitch, they are SIBILINGS. dont be one of those. 
Seriously??? Those are siblings, why would you even consider not letting them go?
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They are his family, his siblings. He should absolutely have a relationship with them. If the childrens mother has issues , I could see why you wouldnt want them around HER but there should be a relationship between the siblings. I dont have half siblings…my brother and sister are my brother and sister period. It doesnt matter that we dont share both parents. Plus, if the father is an active father in his childrens lives and you are getting married, then they will see each other often anyway. Dont marry someone if you do not accept his kids as your own. It sounds like his other kids mother is extremely mature and doing what is best for her kids. Id never marry someone who didnt acknowledge my children as their own let alone my children as siblings. Wtf
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This is the most ridiculous question I’ve ever seen posted on here. How petty, they’re blood, SIBLINGS …
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Those are his family members. Dont be selfish!
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It’s about the kids not the adults
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So you got with someone knowing they have children, and refuse to just acknowledge them as your child’s SIBLINGS? Girl that’s your fiancé those are your soon to be step children fix your whole attitude or leave him and be “baby momma” #2 because clearly you don’t know how to act.
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Yes very wrong very selfish of you
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You are so wrong. They are a part of your child and the man you love therefore they are your family.
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Let them be apart of each other’s lives I think it’s great she’s inviting your child to their bday parties but you should go to
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my youngest is almost a year, i am very close with his dads ex wife. even though my sons father and i are not together. they are still siblings and should be able to know their family.
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I have 5 siblings and all of them are my half siblings… that doesn’t change my love for them at all!
I’d much rather be close to all of my siblings than to be an “only” child!
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If you even have to ask this question, you already suck.
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That’s selfish of you
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You knew he had kids from a previous relationship why would you not want to expose him to his siblings? She’s not bitter, she’s trying to get along and accept yalls new baby into her life you should’ve already accepted his kids before even having your own by him.
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I don’t understand why you have an issue with this? Full blood sibling or not the child should be allowed to have a relationship with the other children. If you have an issue with the other mom taking them then have your SO or yourself go along but there is absolutely 0 reason to keep the children apart it’s extremely selfish on your end
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In my opinion yes you should involve them in your life and theirs. When you join a family you do exactly that JOIN. You are now apart of a mixed family and the other children are apart of your life now and forever. They are not his kids, they are y’alls kids now. Show them that you love them as well. You will be their step mother not a neighbor. Children need love above all things, dont let jealousy or anything of that nature come between what can become a loving relationship with your step children and their mother. It will make you look better and teach the children that just because their parents arent together doesnt mean you can’t still be family.
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Seriously? They’re your child’s family… half or not it’s blood
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Whattttt?
Sounds like bm is a million times more mature than you
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How petty and selfish for not wanting the siblings to know each other
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Is this for real? Lmao…
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It’s about the kids, not you! Let them be siblings!
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They are family… why would u even think this way? Wow…
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This whole thing sounds selfish and petty. 
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Your selfishness is showing and it’s ugly.
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What? There is no “half siblings” in “family”.
Yes it’s wrong of you to prevent a relationship. Those kids are your kids siblings. Grow up.
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siblings are siblings… you and your fiance should both be going to his kids’ birthdays anyways
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If it’s all safe, good environment…I’d be okay with it.
Expose? Even your terminology is disgusting. Should I “expose” them to their own family?
They are brothers, yes they should be allowed to be in each other’s lives. And your step children no less.
I have an inkling that this has more to do with his ex than anything. Time to pull up your britches and be an adult with a blended family.
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My boyfriends son hangs out with my kids at their dads house and theyre not blood at all. Thats family whether you like it or not
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I’m confused, why would you NOT want this? “Her” children’s party? Those are your fiancé’s kids too, are you not involved with them??? I have so many questions
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Um, nothing wrong with it. We keep my “bonus sons” half sister all the time. It takes a village.
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Hugs as I’m not in your boat so what I’m thinking is would it be possible to all be involved happily so you can all attend things together so its partnership and done as a team not them and u x hope this makes sense x
There’s no half siblings or step siblings with me. Family is family. Unless the situation is bad and u have to not communicate I would try to get along
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As long as she is a good person and treats your child right I don’t think you should keep your child away regardless that’s still their sibling. And the kids deserve the right to get to know eachother
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I hate when people say HALF and STEP. Those are your kids siblings. Brothers and sisters. It blows my mind that there are actually people in this world who think those relationships aren’t important. This isn’t about you, your feelings, or the ex. This is about doing what’s not only right but what’s best for your kids. It’s selfish and it says a lot about you as a person if you keep your kids away from their siblings.
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I feel sorry for your fiancé. He should have stayed with his ex.
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Dude. They’re siblings. It’s not the kids fault their parents aren’t together nor is it their fault they’ve got other siblings. Why on earth would you punish the kids from getting to know their siblings?
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First off stop calling her a fucking baby momma, you petty bitch. She is the mother of his kids. And you’re being ridiculous. Jealousy aint cute. 
Omg you sound like my exes new “wife”. Grow up
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I have 2 half brothers and wished my parents let them be more involved in my life (I’m the youngest). You should definitely support them knowing each other and let them bond.
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It’s immature of you to keep your child away from their siblings.
BM is thinking of her children 
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What? Seriously why would siblings be separated?
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I see a sibling as a sibling to me there is no half and honestly they may resent you for it later if you dont allow it. Think about it “my mom kept me away from my brothers or sisters”. If your not comfortable then be there too they will always be in each other’s lives I have a cousin whose wife treats her kids with him so much better than his other kids and they’ve said it hurts them so think about the other babies too when we become parents it’s not about us anymore
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I have four half siblings who are not even remotely closed to be considered as half siblings they’re my full blood in my eyes I also have a twin.
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You sound like a douche
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How old are we? Geeze. Grow up!
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She wants to take your baby to the party? Without you?
Personally, id allow them to be around each other. Theyre siblings and they deserve to know each other. If my fiances ex ever had another, id allow all my girls to be around them.
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So you don’t want your child to know their siblings? He had kids before you, I’m sure you knew this entering the relationship, you now have a child, who shares blood with those other kids. Most baby mothers are bitter and rude and keep the kids away when the dad moves on… and yet here you are, complaining about having a decent woman who can act like an adult.
Yes, you are wrong. Go with your man and baby to your STEP CHILDREN’S party. Like it or not, you are with their father and he WILL be in their lives. Grow up.
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Why would you keep your baby from his half siblings? They are still blood. You sound very petty and insecure.
First of all STOP with that half sibling bullshit! They’re siblings.
You’re even lucky that she despite to be in contact with them and wanting them to be in each other lives instead of being toxic and making your life difficult… you mam are very lucky that she’s trying. You’re not. How rude not wanting siblings be together. I love spending time with my step daughter and love how my son and my step daughter gets along… Im amazed for this post.
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Your kidding right…
This is a blessing !! Some people pray for that relationship !
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Very wrong. Very very very wrong.
I would be so mad if I grew up and knew I was kept from my siblings. I don’t even consider my “half siblings” to be my “half siblings” they’re my siblings, period.
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Siblings, why is this even a question?
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It sounds like the ex is trying to do the right thing and include your kid in her kids lives because they’re family. You’re just being childish.
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Oh wow unless the Dads a threat to the child or the step mum is then you can’t decide if your child sees his brother. I hate my sons Dad for what he’s done but he’s not a threat to our son nor was his ex and I certainly don’t think your child will want to be kept from siblings either
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Wrong and selfish. Your child has every right to know their siblings and if you keep your child from their siblings they will grow up to resent you. It’s not about you. If you can’t handle having his other children in your lives you never should have had a child with him and he definitely shouldn’t marry you.
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Wth those are his siblings my oldest son has 4 half brothers we dont use the word half in our family 2 of his brothers our mine and my husbands. The other 2 our his fathers sons you are being selfish he should know who his siblings are damn its not about you its about the kids.
My daughter’s father has other children, hell yeah I want her to connect with them.
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Grow up, you sound so horrible! That’s the best I’d hope for from my partners baby mother!!
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Dude. Just be nice and share and put a phuckin smile on
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What the hell is wrong with you?
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