If there is nothing unhealthy about it and her children are taken care of then yes all of your mans kids should know each other.
Let them be around the baby…no matter how you feel about the whole situation it is still their brother
Half or whole, they’re still siblings. It’s a shame to not allow a child to build long lasting relationships with their brothers and sisters because of something you have against their other parent.
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Me and my husband have 6 kids my eldest is from a previous relationship and he has a son from his first marriage, they all know about each other and have from an early age we have been together 23 years and are all known as brothers and sisters why an earth would you not want your child to know about other siblings I have seen first hand the damage this can cause be careful how you handle this it’s not about you it’s about these children
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All I can say is shame on you. Co-parenting is more than just mom and dad. Especially with blended families. Grow up and let the babies have a sibling relationship. Because one day that may be all they have.
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Grow up. It dont matter if they are “half siblings” they are still siblings and should be able to spend time with each other. My oldest brother has a different mother and I see him no different.
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It is wrong of you to not want your child in their life. If you don’t want her taking your child, that’s somewhat understandable, but those other children didn’t do anything to you and your child will grow up very resentful of you for not allowing him to have a relationship with his siblings. If she is all there and civil, I would absolutely let her take my child. Gives me a break! If she doesn’t have any motives and it’s very big of her to want anything to do with the child with her exes new woman. I’m in a blended family and I could only wish that my exes baby mama would want anything to do with my kid LOL
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Wow… they are siblings. Regardless of half or not. Put your big girl panties on and get over it.
Take the kiddo if it makes you more comfortable, but don’t cut them off for no reason either.
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I think you should do what’s best for the child, not your ego
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What the fuck?
That’s their sibling…
Tbh you know for a fact you made up your mind so why even ask this ? Just to get a rise out of people
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I wouldn’t let her take your baby but insists I should go along. I wouldn’t trust anyone with my child but you should definitely raise your child around them.
Sounds like you’re just bitter and can’t deal with your fiancé or children having a healthy relationship with them 
grow up,
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Uh ya. My ex husband has nothing to do with either of his kids, so myself and other siblings mama are super close and get the kids together for play dates. Don’t be selfish.
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Wow. That’s messed up. If shes willing to open her arms to you’re children that makes her a wonderful person. Seeing as most baby moms are petty like you seem to be… like you knew he had kids from a previous relationship… not like you went into this blind… if you didnt want youre child to have half siblings then you shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship with a guy who already had kids… so grow up and do what’s best for you’re kid and let him have a relationship with his siblings
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Wtf is wrong with people… my god. That’s your babys FAMILY regardless of your petty ass feelings.
It’s their sibling why not smh and it will give you a break as long as your child comes back good I don’t see the problem
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Why deny your child to know his brother/sister.
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Wow. That’s a very selfish way of thinking. Those kids didn’t do anything to be separated. They didn’t ask to be here and they have a right for all of the adults to get along. You’re being selfish and honestly kind of stupid. You sound bitter and childish
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Let me tell you about me. I have 7 brothers and 2 sisters. Same father for all of us, I have a different mother. I just this past august met my oldest sister. I have yet to meet any of the others but thankfully have made contact with all but 2 through facebook. I am the youngest. Do NOT hold your child away. Your child will resent you for keeping him from his siblings. Trust me. I would recommend you take your child, the bond between siblings is strong, I found that out. I knew of them my entire life, always knew something was missing but didn’t know exactly what. That first hug with my sister that hole in my heart was filled. I am almost 40. She is in her 60’s. 40 years I will never get back that I could have known my siblings. Do not with hold your child from his siblings.
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That’s your child’s siblings, it’s not right for you to keep your child from them. You sound bitter 
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I think you and or your fiance should go with your baby… It shouldn’t be a question about letting your baby have a relationship with their siblings that’s really selfish on your part
There is not full or 1/2. There is only family.
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Yes, it is wrong of you to willingly keep these siblings away from each other. Shame on you.
Wtf is wrong with you?
Why would you not want your child to be in his siblings lives?
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My daughter and son what people would call half siblings but I call best friends brother and big sister all the way.
Her dad also has 2 kids with his wife and we have 3 together and I have the baby boy with current bf.
Yes they are all siblings yes all of us parents get along
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I wouldn’t let her take my child. But I would absolutely make sure baby was available to bind with their siblings when the siblings are at my house. Co parenting is tough.
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This is stupid, you need to grow up. At the end of the day they are family. Hopefully you don’t have any 1/2 or step siblings.
You sound petty as hell. That is your child’s siblings. They are blood. Shouldn’t of had a baby with a man who has other kids if you didn’t want your child to have half siblings. And honestly if you keep your kid from its siblings, your kind of a gross selfish human being.
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As long as she is a good mom/person, I dont see why not.
I’d go with the baby! I mean family is family. They are kid’s
This sounds like my kids sperm donor when they were younger!!
Those half siblings are siblings… I have 5 half sisters and no full biological siblings. I’d have no one if it weren’t for them.
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Shame on you! Do you think it’s appropriate to teach your kids that there’s a difference between siblings? Half-siblings or step-siblings, does not matter. Let children love their siblings regardless of what happened between your fiancé and his ex. Seems like you are a bitter, miserable person to bring children into the hate you have in your heart.
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Why would you not want your child to have a relationship with his/her siblings? That’s the part I need to understand.
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Definitely let the baby see the siblings but not sure on her herself taking the baby. Probably wouldn’t be okay with that for awhile.
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My mother being one of them, I know a few women who have taken their exs kid with their new SO because they are still siblings and that’s more love all around for the kids. And it went both ways. So many women complain that their exs don’t do anything so I get confused when people complain that exs want to do more. Unless the intention is detrimental in some way I see no problem with this. However, you did say baby, so I understand being hesitant on letting her take a baby. Maybe just start off slow, meet at a park, at your house, her house… Who knows, you guys may even become friends. I’ve seen that happen too.
You should let them be around each other. Because no matter what they are family. My ex has kids with another girl. And their mom lives in another state so when he has my boys he facetimes her so they can see their brother and sister. They come tell me about how big their younger siblings are all the time. They get so happy telling me. Why would you wanna take that from them?? Its not the kids fault thwir parents are not together anymore and keeping them apart is selfish and a way of punishing thwm for your deep down sialike for the mom or the fact the the father had a relationship with their mom.
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If she wants the baby there then you guys should go aswell. They are siblings half or not. I have never once called my sisters half sisters even tho they all are. They’re that babies family even if you and baby mom don’t get along. Suck it up for the kids.
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First of all, family is family, whether they’re half siblings or not. They are brother and sister. They deserve to know each other. Now, I wouldn’t let her take the kids, but I’d go with them. Don’t be petty.
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My childhood would have been a shit show had my mother not kept my sister in my life. Half sister or not, that’s family 
kids aren’t pawns and they deserve to know their siblings
Just my opinion
If they aren’t in harms way and you are comfortable with them going. It’s all up to you.You are the mother
If it’s a baby then you stay, if their walking and talking sure
Me and my husbands baby mum are good friends and we have there daughter living with us and her other two children play with our two youngest children sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture, children are the most important thing x
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All 3 of those kids belong to your fiancé. They should be very close.
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Let them know their siblings!!!
Why would you not want your child to have a relationship with their siblings? That’s the part I need to understand. It isnt about you , him or her. Its about that child having that relationship with their blood . 
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My mans ex is a nutter there’s not a prayer our kids would be allowed anywhere near that crazy woman even if she invited them to the kids party. Last year we just had a little cake and gave her bday pressie when she came to ours one weekend.
Suppose it just depends what sort of relationship you and your fella have with her. If she’s nice or a nut job.
Myself and my siblings didn’t find out that we had half siblings until we were teenagers. Which bother way we don’t say this is my half brother we say this is my brother. Now with that said my siblings and I resented my parents for years because we found out of my brothers thru non family members. Until this day( I’m 48) my siblings and I still talk about how unfair and selfish our parents were. We missed out getting to know them. YOU are being selfish. You need to put on your big girl pants on because you knew he had children and learn to co parent. This is not about you it’s about your baby.
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Holy fucking shit. You don’t want your child to know his/her siblings just because YOU are jealous of their mom,…which you obviously are. Your fiance should run now cause just by what u say u can tell you won’t accept his other children. That being said you should have steered clear from a man with children.
You should be ashamed of yourself. They are siblings no matter if you like it or not. They need to know each other. Don’t be such a bitch. This post really pissed me off. I have 4 half brothers and can’t imagine my life without them
Wow. Why would you deny that for your child? I love ALL of my half siblings. They’re not even considered half siblings to me. They’re my SIBLINGS. I would be so pissed if my parents would have kept me away for their own selfish reasons. Growing up I was really close to my sister. She lived with her dad and I lived with mine. We didn’t see our mother but we stayed the night at each other’s houses ALL the time. My heart would have been shattered otherwise. Our parents didn’t have to let us see each other but that’s my SISTER. You should never keep your child away from their brothers and sisters. Those kids did nothing to deserve that and for you to want to deny your child the love of a sibling is just flat out selfish. I wouldn’t ever do that to my child.
Is this a serious question!!! They are siblings and should spend as much time together as possible xx
Those “half siblings” are your childs siblings there is no half i have a brother same mom different dad he is my brother not a half brother and my daughter has two siblings by her father and i encourage they try to grow up together as much as possible to have a strong bond DO NOT take that away from them
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Ok so her taking your child to attend a birthday party alone is a no for me but you all going to attend a party is a yes…those kids are siblings regardless and they have a right to be apart of each other’s life’s…if you didn’t want your baby to have half siblings you shouldn’t have gotten with a man who had kids…your wrong for even throwing that half siblings card out there…the damage you are going to Cause by saying that is not okay
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Put your selfish feelings to the side, stop thinking about yourself, put the kids first & allow the children to be the siblings that they are.
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Why wouldn’t you at the end of the day it’s your baby’s blood
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If they’re not abusive then you should let them know their other family. Don’t be bitter.
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Siblings are siblings. Period. I dont see it as half. I never have. If where being technical, I have 1 half sister and 1 half brother. But I have NEVER thought of them as half. I mean ik everyone is different. And every family is different. But, idk it kinda sounds like your keeping your child from his siblings? Correct me if I’m wrong? But, you should go. I went to my moms ex boyfriends daughter’s party on her moms side. It’s odd, but you all should get along. Those kids are apart of your life. I would go.
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Does their dad get them? I mean if they have shared custody or visitation with dad the kids are going to see their brother. Also, when you say she wants the baby there, I’m assuming with at least their dad attending that party. I wouldn’t send my baby off alone with the ex, but if both or at least dad is going what’s the problem? The kids didn’t do anything not to know each other…
Yeah its wrong imo. Let your child grow up with his siblings
Wow… I have a 6 year old from a previous relationship and a 1 year old now with my new partner and my oldest son attends everything for his little brother. Honestly, if his father was to try to not allow it there would be a serious issue. They are brothers… full, step, half it doesn’t matter. If my ex was to have more children I would love for my son to have a good relationship with them too. It sounds like you have some jealously or control issues and you need to realize that whether you like it or not they are siblings.
You should be happy the baby momma isnt being bitter & is including your child.
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First, why they have to be half siblings for? My ex and me have 2 kids together and him and his wife has 1 and they are brother and sisters. Simple as that.
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Of course they said b around each other but I wud attend the party with the baby if he she is under 3 so they can tell u if something is wrong
You’re a dick. It’s your babies siblings. Enough said.
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The kids are sibblings. . They need to love one another…and know each other
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Why is are you trying to keep these babies from their siblings. This is absurd. Became civil with her and let your babies be siblings. How awful to grow up and know your mama kept you from your brother.
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Family is family. I grew up wishing I knew my siblings on my biological dad’s side and I reached out when I was 18 only to get rejected by his spouse and I never got to know my bio dad ethier… It hurt like crazy. However, she actually is willing to get to know them…
Be humble.Not bitter.
Be grateful, honestly…
Let your kid be around siblings.
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Wow this just amazes me. They are siblings. Would I just hand my baby off to her? No. Would I go with my husband, bring a gift and show my love to my childs siblings? Yes.
All I have are technically half siblings. But they are just straight up my brother and sisters, because that is how my parents raised us.
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So, my ex has a child (possibly 2 but that’s a “secret”) with another woman before me. We tried for years to have a decent relationship. Sometimes it was rainbows, but now its all thunderstorms because her son molested our two kids. So now, it’s not that i want her son to be kept away from our kids, but, he also touched his sisters that his mom had with her new husband. The situation is super complicated now, but I won’t keep his son a secret. I will tell our kids that yes, they have a half brother, and whenever their half brother visits, I’ll have to find the right way to say, “never be alone with him” 
but if the other mom of his children is a good person i wouldn’t keep your child away. If she wants only your child to visit, just say “maybe when he’s older”
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Have all you people with your shitty comments thought that these people clearly have a relationship with this child and the siblings must all have a relationship. Maybe it’s just not a good relationship between the parents that is causing them to not feel comfortable in this situation and maybe it would better for them all to do their own birthday celebrations for this child rather than being stuck in an awkward situation.
Wow… Those children will always be related, whether you want them to or not. They are siblings regardless of being only “half”. Family is family. They should absouloutely be involved in each others lifes.
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You’re being very petty it’s disgusting my dad’s ex did this with my sister and we lost so much time I grew up not knowing her , and it’s because of that pettiness jealousy you’re sick
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Let them they are kids don’t let them be bitter like adults
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They are your childs siblings. It’s not fair to your child or the other children. They are just children they didnt ask to have split up parents. Why can’t your fiance spend time with all of his children?. I wouldn’t want to be getting married to a man who wouldn’t want to take care of all of his kids and have them grow up together and I know if my husband had kids. I would do whatever it took for his kids, to be just as included as my own. You child should have a relationship with his siblings
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What is wrong with you…
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Is this a joke? They are family, they are blood. It would be very disappointing if his own mom wouldn’t let him around his SIBLINGS
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Wow totally wrong of you to not want ur child to be around their sibling, half or not. Selfish and down right cold hearted
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I mean… I didn’t know mine until my mid 20s. I was PISSED that I missed growing up with them 💁
They’re siblings they should be able to see one another. It’s not about you parents it’s about those kids. They’re your partners children, they’ve done nothing wrong why wouldn’t you introduce them?
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No problem with that… Just that if I were you I’d be going to Caz you don’t want to leave your child with no one…
Why would you not want this? Your causing more problems. Shes including your children which is very nice of her. She didnt have to. Be a good co parent not bitter
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Your dumb as hell to question that. We see who the bitter baby mama is…
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What why the hell wouldn’t your fiancé want his kids around each other? Yes it is wrong of you & more than likely him too if he’s going along with it jeez
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Why would you ever want to keep the children apart? They are siblings! The more people in your children’s lives that love them the better I think
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Not enough people in this world are going to love your children… dont deny them love based on your own insecurities …
Exception is if she has been negative/ toxic but if it is really a bonding thing then let it
Tf? Dad should be taking them. They are siblings. Why wouldnt you want your kids to know their siblings. ALL of them should be able to spend time together with their dad. Sounds like your jealous of the ex.
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Wow really are you really that selfish they are sibilings they should be allowed to be around each other! My kids visit there siblings every other weekend at the other kids moms house.
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They’re siblings man you need to not think about your feelings but of theirs at the end of the day they didn’t ask to have split families
I’m 34 and have a half sister out there that is 38 and I dont know her because her mom kept her from our father and his family growing up. And now she wont have anything to do with me still because her mother brainwashed her. It breaks my heart. Other than her I am an only child so my kids will never have an aunt or uncle and I will never have nieces or nephews. It’s sad. Let your child know their siblings.
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Selfish much? Those babies are your children’s sibling whether you like it or not! 
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You say “his other half siblings” and mention this is your fiancés only “babymomma.” So that leads me to believe you have other children yourself that are your child’s half-siblings. If this is the case (and based on what you wrote, I’m assuming it is) then it is beyond cruel of you to even CONSIDER keeping your fiancés kids from being a part of your family. That baby is just as much their brother as he is your older kids’ brother. Every. Bit. As. Much.
Also, by not wanting his kids in your sons life, you are creating a wedge between them and THEIR FATHER. Hate to break it to ya, but he’s their dad and him getting you pregnant did not change that one iota. He was their father before you were around and he will be their father forever- with or without you. Same to your baby. He’s his dad, no matter what the future holds for the two of you.
I’d suggest you grow up and accept that your family includes ALL of your collective children- yours, yours together, AND HIS. None are better or more important than the next. Try not to be an evil stepmother. Be GRATEFUL to his kids’ mom for wanting to include your child because so many women don’t. You are lucky. Act like it.
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If she is a decent person why would you not want your child to know his siblings? The other mom probably just wants her kids to know their brother. I can understand you not wanting her to take your baby alone so just let her know you’d like to come.
We do birthdays. If it’s her kid, my kid our their kid. It’s about celebrating. The more love u can give the better. Don’t matter
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Yes 
wrong. They are siblings. If you don’t want her to take the baby to the party but to say you don’t want your baby in their life is ridiculous. You need to grow up! He has other children get over it! 
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Yes. It’s wrong of you. You’re not EXPOSING. You’re creating a bond with the child’s siblings.
You need to get over it. If the baby is actually a baby. Dad and you can attend, provided you act like a non green eyed monster adult. Otherwise, dad can take baby and allow those bonds to be established.
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It’s super wrong to not want her kids around yours… That’s called being petty you will never change the fact that they are siblings and have the right to know each other… After all they share genes.
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I always allow! I don’t use the word or term half!! they are there BROTHER or SISTERS!!!
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I can sympathize bc my ex has two new children. My hestitation is he is barely in my daughter’s life but the perfect dad to his new family…she notices and feels rejected.
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