I have 4 half siblings on my moms side I grew up with them. I also have 4 half siblings from my dad that I didn’t meet until I was 15 I have bond to them because my mom was spiteful. I say let them have a bond
As long a shes isn’t mean or being rude and abusive to you or tour child that is their sibling. They should know their brothers or sisters
They aren’t “half” anything. They are siblings, period. They are family. Is there any reason you think the kid shouldn’t go to their siblings party??? Would the kids be in any danger if they go???
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Half sibling is still a sibling
I’m glad my parents didn’t keep me from mine✌
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Take the child yourself. If she wants them to be in each other’s lives, that includes you.
My husband didnt meet his half brother until he was 60, brother 80…so many years wasted…they love eachother as if they have known eachother all their lives, but they always say the years wasted not knowing eachother…let your child know his siblings
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I have 2 kids and 2 step children we do parties together mom me dad step dad all the kids 
. It’s about the kids and eventually you stop worrying about your feelings and start worrying about the kids cause that’s what matters.
My man’s baby momma (his daughters mother) babysits our son while we work and my son loves her and his sister he only sees that sister on weekend but lives with my kids it gives his sister some extra time with him that she wouldn’t normally get I have been with my man for over 4 years and she even considers my kids her siblings not half not step just siblings I love her as my own and that little girl will tell you her bonus mom has her back and always will
Hate it when people say baby momma 
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Those 2 are his kids just as much as yours is! Grow up! You shouldn’t even be stressing “half”! What is wrong with you?
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Those are the baby’s FAMILY MEMBERS…like it or not, it doesn’t matter what you want at this point…i come from a big blended family and I’d be pissed and resentful as hell if either of my parents kept me from my siblings…you sound too immature to have children in a blended situation
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I would take them to the party, but I wouldn’t let her just take your baby alone
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Let the fiancé take him or both of you take him to the party. He should know his siblings!
yes its not the kids fsult
Siblings should know each other. At the end of the day when they get older and ask why this or that. They’re going to have hard feelings towards you for hindering that relationship.
Jesus Christ.
I couldn’t imagine not being around my youngest brother (who is technically my “half” brother). He is my BROTHER.
Idgaf he has a different dad than my other brother & myself.
It is absolutely wrong of you. Children shouldn’t have to suffer because things didn’t work out with the parents.
Hell my daughter is having a brother this December who would technically be her “half” brother because he has a different father. But I’ll be dammed if I tell her he’s her “half” sibling. Nope. That is her BROTHER.
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Normally I’m kinda nice. But you are horrible. My God. That baby mama is your mans childrens mother and those children are your babies siblings. Grow the hell up. You sound ridiculous. Those kids are family.
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They are siblings. I don’t even see where the question is. Unfair to keep your child, or hers, from siblings. They deserve to know and grow up together. No matter how you feel about her, he is the father of all and they need each other, will need each other more some day.
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This is my HALF sibling. I have NEVER thought of her as only half. She IS my sister, just as simple as that and if anything ever happens to her a piece of me will die with her. I think you need to get over whatever jealousy you got going on her and see the bigger picture. Those are his siblings.
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Go!!! That’s there sibling and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with anyone taking my child to a birthday party or anywhere else just for the simple fact no one will watch and care for your child as you would . But if she’s being civil why not you and your husband go she’s reaching out to have yalls family blend that’s awesome.
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Were you not invited? Was dad not invited? These children will be your step kids, correct? So, do you and bio mom not have a relationship? Or talk at all? I just have a lot of questions.
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Seems like you’re the bitter one
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Really you’re fucking insane lmao. Let them have their siblings in their life.
Me and my brother have different dads. He’s not half anything he’s my brother. That’s it. That’s how it should be.
On the other hand my cousins family is very blended, my cousin has three kids - 2 with baby mamma 1 with current wife. They have shared custody of the 2 with baby mamma.
Baby mamma also takes his daughter some days that he had with his current wife because that is their sister irregardless. If my cousin and his wife need a date night or if baby mamma is taking them somewhere special.
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Half or not that his SIBLING and u are wrong to no accept his other kids as ur babies sibling
Go as a family or not at all
The kids should be the top priority. Siblings are siblings and they need to know each other. If not there will be regrets when the kids get older for being a part of each others lives.
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Selfish of you to keep them away from their sibling. The kids did nothing wrong in this. Put petty ADULT differences aside and stop involving kids in ADULT problems.
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It doesn’t matter what you want, it’s about your children. Always. It became that way when you decided to have them. They are half siblings, they deserve to grow up and be a part of each other’s lives!
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First of all wtf is a half sibling? My sister has a different dad and I have NEVER called her my half sibling nor have i ever let her think she’s only half my sister. Siblings are siblings and I can promise you if you keep them from each other they will hate you. Also if he’s your fiancé you need to claim his kids are your kids as well to make a WHOLE family not a HALF family.
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Half or not they are siblings! They share some of the same DNA
Definitely let your baby be with the siblings. Don’t rob them of they joy siblings can bring
What. In. The. World.
They are not “half”… they are family! Half, step whatever… family is family. We have a “blended” family. I have 3 kids, my boyfriend has 1 and we have 1 on the way. His daughter is my daughter, my kids are his kids… and they are siblings.
If she hasn’t done anything bad to you or you child then you should be open to having a good relationship. Why wouldn’t you want to have a good relationship with her and let all the siblings have fun and be able to spend time together vs you hating her or whatever your problem is with her. It takes so much energy to be hateful and negative. Be grateful that she is not trying to keep their kids away from you and your child! Now I do understand not wanting her to take the baby, but you can take the baby there and spend time at the party.
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Jesus another bored housewife asking stupid questions
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Yes absolutely they should be involved their siblings half shouldn’t even be a word used in my opinion doesn’t matter half or not their are still related and they have the right to know their siblings and keeping them apart is only gonna hurt the kids and they could possibly grow to hate you later because you kept a piece of them from their life. Not to mention in order for you to keep them out of each others lives youd be keeping them out of your fiances life and thays wrong like it or not those are his children and yours and you should all be able to get along and be a family together
I didn’t meet my brother until I was 15. The whole 15 years, I wanted a brother so bad and my parents didnt tell me, mostly due to my dad’s ex. However, I was mad at my dad for keeping that from me. Now I have 3 amazing nephews and have been consistently in my brother’s life.
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Nothing is wrong with it because they still related to your child . It’s also could be a really good thing just more people to love the kids
Its their sibling. Dont be arrogant
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Its siblings…get used to being a family. You’re not wrong to not want BM to take your baby alone without you, but its not unreasonable to expect all the kids to hang out together. 💁 If you didnt want this, why did you reproduce with a guy with kids?
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When I was a baby my parents divorced and both remarried and had step children. My stepsister and I were very close(from my dad and step mom) and she would come with me to my moms house on weekends. I see nothing wrong with letting his other children’s mother taking yours. It might not be a normal thing anymore but give it a try. And if your still having doubts (this may be hard to do) but sit the other kids mother down and express your concerns. And come up with a solution. You both share something in common. The father to your kids so you both will always be in each other’s life’s. Sometimes we have to buckle down and do what is in the best interest of our kids. And having brothers and sisters (half or not) is a great thing! They shouldn’t be separated just because they have different moms or dads. We all have our demons we face each and everyday don’t let anyone try to knock you down. Be a mama bear but also let your child have a “extended family” even if you don’t see eye to eye our children can never have to many people that care about their well being. Good luck and I hope it all works out!!
All of my sisters are technically half…but we dont use that term. They’re the only siblings I have…and I’ve always just thought of them as my sisters. You have to think about what happens when you both are no longer here…your child will need that support system.
Why wouldn’t you want your child to know there siblings and why wouldn’t you want a decent co-parenting situation? I have a friend who’s husband has custody of his two children but they take the ex-wife’s and her new husbands kids (who are her husbands siblings but not his kids) all the time. Children should see cooperation and understanding and love from every adult in there life and if that includes you significant other having children with other people than like it or not there family.
I’m confused. Why don’t you want your child going? I know they are half siblings, but a lot of kids grow up considering them to be their full sibling.
At the end of the day everyone is family, and you shouldn’t exclude your child for no reason. Let them get to know their siblings and grow a strong bond.
Unless something happened, where they were rude or disrespectful to your child I don’t see why they shouldn’t go
I’m sorry all but there is NO WAY IN HELL that MY child would be going to attend or spend time with the other mom without ME! BUT I am more than willing(and already do so!) To BRING my child(ren) to attend things/spend time with half siblings! But if I can’t attend, my kids aren’t. That’s MY line. Straight up! My hubby totally agrees! He brings them to things top but NEVER leaves them there EVER. Only so much trust thanks! Lpl
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My daughter doesn’t know her half siblings but that’s because her dad never tries with her. I do keep a line if communication open incase they want to meet her. Children don’t choose their parents. But they are siblings and family so try to let them meet and no one said you need to become friends with the ex just go and focus in birthday kid.
This is a joke, right?
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YES most definitely your child should know their siblings
Is there a reason you wouldn’t want to foster a relationship between siblings? I would hope you would want your children to have a good relationship with their family unless there is something we don’t know??
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I’m just kind of lost here. Shouldn’t these kids be important to your fiancé and be part of his life?
All I can say is that you are very lucky to have your fiancé’s baby momma reaching out to you to get the kids together. While I’m over here still trying to build a relationship with my partner’s baby momma so that my 3 children and her child can meet and know each other and spend time together.
I hope everything works out with all of you. The kids are not just their “half sibling,” that’s family.
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My twin grandsons attends my other two grandkids birthday party’s , my son has a daughter and son by his first wife and twins with his second and they love each other’s children so they attend each other’s parties. It’s great for families to get along.
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I’m upset at my mom from keeping me from my half siblings life, so I support siblings being in contact 100%.
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Yes. They need to know each other, but I would be going too. Sadly, adults are jealous of kids…especially in a situation like this.
Yes It’s wrong of you.
Family is family. Yes, you should definitely allow your child to spend as much time as you can with their siblings.
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Whatever problem you have with your kid being around HIS SIBLINGS is yours and YOURS ALONE!
SIBLINGS BELONG TOGETHER.
When you got together with your ‘fiance’ you knew his family, when you marry someone you accept them and their family COMPLETELY.
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Thats actually pretty cool that she is trying to keep the family together. Id say let the kiddo go. They get cake and goodies? Sounds like a good time to me.
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I would go with her to the party or have your fiance take her. This is her siblings and she deserves to have a relationship with them. Maybe eventually when you get to know her, maybe you will be comfortable letting her take your child. You will be involved with this woman until your children are grown so better to play nice now.
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What she is saying is, the only half sibling is the baby (I believe)! That she doesn’t want HER kids and the baby going! I would go if you dont feel comfortable with her with your kids… BUT we dont know if there has been drama between her and the baby mama AND they have a bday party already set up for his child! But if she hasn’t done anything but try to be nice then totally go!
These are are “half” siblings but they aren’t half they are brother and sister, my older sister is my “step sister” nah shes my sister through and through . Why wouldn’t you want your child to know their brothers/sisters
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If those are his kids, why wouldn’t y’all go to the parties? Or any event where it has something to do with them. Even if they don’t get along, everyone should try to fake a smile for the kid’s sake. They deserve to have both mother and father at important events in their life. And of course they should know your baby. It maybe hard but they’re your stepchildren and your baby, coming from divorced parents, they will one day thank you.
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I personally feel like this is very childish and petty. When my husband and I got married he had a 3 year old daughter, shes now 24. But her mother had a son some years later and my husband and I had 5 other children together. Her son and my 2 sons are the same age and told everyone they we’re brothers. Technically they we’re not but they did share a sister. So her son came and spent weekends at our house and my kids, have went and spent weekends with them. It is my bonus daughters mother! We are all one family now, like it or not. When you get with a man who has children by another woman she does not just vanish from the scene. We all hang out and go to each others childrens events. It’s called being an adult.
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Good grief the shaming on here. 
I’m a step mom- and yes! Since the kids are older- 9 and 15 -they actually want to call me that and don’t want to be called “mine” with their 2 step siblings. promise I tried. But that’s ok too. It’s their choice.
Reading your post you say she wants to “take” as in put in a car with her? I’m a cautious person. I wouldn’t put my baby in with another person. Our society can be rough and it’s hard to trust others with your beating heart 
that’s how I feel about mine. I couldn’t imagine something happening that I could have prevented just by remaining aware and being there. I wouldn’t let my husbands ex take our kids but I would encourage all of your attendance!
The baby should know their siblings you are being salty and selfish by keeping them apart. You are their step mother so grow up.
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I think you should go with. I wouldnt let my baby go alone. But yes let your baby know his or her siblings.
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Your a selfish asshole if you take that baby away from their siblings
Yes, it is very wrong of you.
I get my son’s half sibling sometimes or when they need a sitter. I am actually her Godmother. They said if something was to happen to them they would want her to grow up with her brother.
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Yeah it’s wrong of you, your kind of a bitch if you don’t let baby go… half or not it’s still your childs siblings
Personally I dont want my children around my s-o children all that often either … ts always fights and my children rent to et the brunt of the sh!t stick when his kids dont get their own way and they whine co Stanton and tears to the point my kids pick up on it and think they can act as such … He’s yelled at my younger boy because his daughter got on his nerves and he told her to go away …
It got to the point where I get nervous when his kids come to my house due non-stop bs …
I’ve tried to be neutral but it’s to much sometimes … my nerves are almost shot lol
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I have a half brother who I knew about all my life, but never met until age 30. I love him with ALL of my heart Life finds a way, regardless of how you like it.
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I have 5 stepsisters and a stepbrother.
My mum had two daughters when she met my dad. They got married and had me. So I’m their half sister.
Utter twaddle. They’re my big sisters. I’m their little one.
I have a 7yo. I told his dad (now my ex but still v involved) thst if he ever found out he had another child out there then I’d be all for our son meeting them.
Likewise if he had another child following us breaking up i would want our son to know his sibling.
Not the kids fault.
So yes. Denying your child a relationship with their siblings is wrong if you ask me.
I have my two big sisters. I have two nieces and two nephews. None of this half stuff. We’re all our mums children
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If shes willing to accept you and your baby and being nice then do it!
Go (or just the dad) with your kids to the party. She’s part of his family and now yours. If you don’t like it that’s tough but don’t keep your child from its siblings. Hell your kids ad her kids might really like each other
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Expose them. I think that’s awesome on her part. I’m 10 years into being a step mom and if it can blend seamlessly you’ve won !
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It’s 2019. More often than not families are now blended
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Dont see what problem there could be with children knowing siblings… those children are part of your babies family like it or not. Dont be the person to push them out really.
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Not allowing this is selfish! Unless she and those kids are satan in skin, grow up!
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Now the group will perform the piece “dragging the OP”, in C minor
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Yes your wrong is the simple ans. There ALL family
Look my ex has another baby momma. He’s no longer with her, they have a baby girl. I was there thru it all. I took my kids to the hospital when she was born. I’ve baby sat and she’s stayed the night. She gets my kids anytime she can, and I do the same. We’re not best friends, but we are family. I was one of the first people she told when she found out. I love that little girl to pieces. Even when they were together, I would come over and play with her.
I agree some people will hate kids simply because of their parents. But some of us will love those babies like our own. She is invited to every birthday party for my kids and I am for her kid. You could find a great mom friend in her if y’all are willing to focus on the kids.
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My kids are “half” siblings by blood but I promise, say “half” and my 18yr old will go off.
He doesn’t use Step with his other sister either. Why?
Bc it’s dumb.
You’ll have to deal with her so you may as well slap on smile and try.
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Imagine being so self centered that you would keep your child from their siblings because you don’t like the parent. 
this is why we need an eye roll react
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Tf you mean EXPOSE them to their siblings? They arent a disease… they are family. 
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If you’re not comfortable with her then ask if you can join as well. But those are your babies siblings. There is no half or full. They are siblings. Being “half” siblings doesn’t make them less. That’s still brother or sister
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You forget your feelings and let siblings have each other in their lives.
I have a sister, she has a different father and we were kept apart for the majority of our childhoods. There are people I will never forgive for stealing that time from us.
It’s their sibling. Whatever the reason you dont want them in your babys life, you should allow them to know the baby
Let your children know their siblings. It’s selfish of you not to
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You let them babies go see their siblings! it doesn’t matter if it’s a half a quarter or a 10th related… I personally think you should be ashamed of yourself for even ask such a question. Family is family even if it’s a drop of blood. 
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I wouldn’t let my baby go with others.
I don’t think I followed the post/question right.
But no one would be taking my baby anywhere
Siblings are special.
You need to grow up. You’re only hurting your child.
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My ex and i aren’t together anymore. So there’s mummas family daddys family and he loves both sides
We may not be a family anymore but we’re still his. If he moves on and has another there is no way I’d stop our son getting to know them.
Yes, yes it is wrong of you.
Well, it’s weird that BM wants to take your baby anywhere, but the fact that you don’t want baby in their siblings lives, is completely ridiculous, immature, and selfish. What reasoning could you possibly have for not wanting them to know each other??
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If you don’t want to be apart of it, that’s fine. But let dad take him to his siblings party.
I am extremely biased on this as my children have a half brother that they are not allowed to meet. His mother cant put her own feelings aside to allow it. It infuriates me but I stay out of it out of respect for everyone else involved…to include her! 
It is childish and selfish.
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I honestly believe family is family whether adopted, half, or step…not wanting your child to go to a party for his siblings isn’t fair… they will grow up siblings let them have that… not to mention is sounds like you dont want him there for your personal feud with the ex which is selfish
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It is absolutely, 100%, wrong for you not to want your baby in their lives or for him to know them. It is not wrong for you to expect to be included in that life, equally, 100%. Where the baby goes, you go. The ex can’t have the baby if she doesn’t want you, that’s completely unreasonable and creepy. But likewise, you can’t have a baby with a man who already has children and expect that baby to live as an only child, because that’s petty and hateful. Time to get on board, Becky. lol
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“Expose” them to their siblings ?! It doesnt matter if they’re half siblings or whatever, they’re still family. U sound like a lot of fun lol. Feel bad for your kids actually lol
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I would hate my mother if she kept me from my siblings.
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