I bet you mistreat his children secretly because you have some weird jealousy issue going on. He should run FAST from you and take yalls child with him!
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Don’t be this wife. Seriously.
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I’m not sure we are really getting the reasoning behind this. I don’t want to bash you but want to help. I feel like you are upset about something you’re not telling us about. Either way it is wrong to not want them to know their siblings. It sounds like the children don’t come over to your house? If you get along with the ex and don’t feel comfortable with her taking the baby, then go to the party. If not then have the children come to your guys house and throw your own party. You just need to accept the fact he has other children with another woman. It’s just the way you worded this that makes me think that.
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You need to let your child have a relationship with their siblings. My husband’s daughter who he had with his ex calls my kids her sisters when they have no blood relation and her baby brother is her baby brother. Not her half brother. Same with my oldest daughter’s step siblings. The word step doesnt exist to them. And my oldest doesn’t call her 3 siblings half. We do not use the word step or half in this family. All the exes and new partners get along great and all 7 of the kids are happy as can be. We are a huge very happy family. You need to except he had a past and thank that woman for wanting you guys to be involved more. It means she’s developed a trust level with you. I would advise to avoid any sort of drama, don’t screw it up.
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Lord knows I want to rip into you for even being this selfish to even think this way but I won’t I’ll just say the bigger picture here is your child’s relationship with their family. You are NOT all they have.
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They are siblings whether you like it or not. Let them be siblings without constantly shoving the half part down their throats.
I seriously can NOT believe you’re even asking this! Siblings are siblings!!!
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Totally wrong of you i would give anything for my daughter to know her half and step brothers and her dad isnt even in her life.
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OF COURSE you should let them attend! They are still brother and sisters! Doesn’t matter if they are half. The kids are NEVER at fault for adults mistakes or their past. You are being SELFISH and a horrible person for even thinking like this. What is wrong with u!
If you accepted to be with this man you made a choice to take those children in EVEN if they are not yours!
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Is this a real question???!!! Like. What even? Wow. Just wow.
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Why are you with a guy that has other children if you don’t want his other children around yours?? Sounds like you could use a maturity lesson from his ex.
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Seriously??? Is this a real question??
If you aren’t comfortable with the ex taking your baby places then tell her that you will bring the baby to the parties or whatever. I mean… Why would you deprive any of those kids the right to know one another!!!
My youngest child has 7 half brothers and sisters. 3 on my side and 4 on his dad’s. I’m SO very thankful that the other moms and I get along and all agree that it’s not about any of us, but about the kiddos.
This picture is from my son’s last birthday party.
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So if you had another child before this one, who would also be your child’s “half” sibling would you want your child to attend that child’s party?
Idk if it’s jealousy or what, but this is ridiculous. All I can say is that I’m glad you ain’t my exes new baby momma.
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Damn if my boyfriends baby momma was like this idk what I would do… my daughters sister is invited to ALL our family functions and my side treats her as family. If they treated her any different then we wouldn’t come around them. Grow up and let your child have a relationship with their siblings. Sounds to me theres still jealousy over him having kids with someone else, dont make your child suffer from your insecurities. 
When you pass from this world… siblings are all he has left. 
I love my siblings 
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I’d let him take y’all’s baby to his kids birthday party so he can see ALL HIS KIDS… you got to that fiance level and sound like you don’t even like your future step kids… if you were posting this from his perspective we’d tell him to kick you to the curb…
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Yes I think that’s very wrong.
Shout out to the baby momma for being more mature than you. Wow. Just wow.
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Yes that’s wrong of you, wtf?
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Just go with your baby… why would you not want the effort to be a family? She’s putting effort, that’s amazing. I wish it was like that for me. It’s kinda the territory you take when you get involved with someone that already has kids.
Huh… you dont want you kid to know their siblings??? Wow. Yes yes yes… you are wrong for that. Very wrong. So sad
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They’re his siblings! Also wouldn’t call it “exposing” him to them. I’d call it letting him grow up knowing who his siblings are 
. How very toxic of you to prevent your child knowing his siblings just because they have a different mom.
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Is this a real question? The kids are siblings whether you like it or not. You should’ve thought of this before you decided to have a baby with a man who already has kids! Kudos to his other baby mom for being mature and thinking of the CHILDREN!
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LMFAO how is this even a real question
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Don’t let her just take her baby. Go with the baby, ya hag.
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Yes it is wrong and selfish the child needs to know his/her siblings. There is no such thing as half anything they are siblings thats it!! Smh
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Is she really even a Mom?
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Let them see each other and stuff they are siblings half sibling don’t mean shit , blood is blood
Um. She is willing and wants to allow the kids to know their SIBLING. You are P-E-T-T-Y. You petty.
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Sad that you really have to ask this
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I’m in my half sibling lives glad I was. This isn’t about you, lady. It’s about your kids, you better act mature around his ex and treat her children well because she will do the same. It so sad to tear siblings up due to parents insecurity. The way you write this is absolutely sickening, so don’t be surprised when you get hate coming your way.
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Wow petty and immature. I’m so glad my parents weren’t idiots… I have2 half brothers and2 sisters and 1 whole younger sister. My dad was married twice before my mom. So it was nice that their moms and husbands would come to birthdays and holidays…if they wouldn’t have tried to get along I’d not have known them. I’m grateful that mom was not weird ,insecure or petty like your acting she did what was best for my sister and I and helped my dad keep his relationship with his other children. So maybe try to expand your heart and kindness instead of letting those negative feelings overcome you and cause unnecessary drama and hurt.
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Wait WTF?! You got to be trolling
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Depends. If she is a good influence and actually likes the kid, then not a problem. No hidden agendas tho
That’s cruel! My kids see their siblings half or step or whatever they don’t even use that term themselves the kids refer as brothers and sisters with a blended family we may not all get along but it’s not the kids who have the dislike with eachother
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Very immature on your part I honestly hate that word half sibling. That is their damn siblings! Please she wants the kids to be apart of each other’s lives honestly you need to really sit down and think about everything you wrote and reevaluate a lot in your life grow up and don’t punish the kids !
That’s fucked up. She came before you, not during you, why wouldn’t you let them around your kid??? I don’t understand the reasoning. Those are his siblings, and if their father is any kind of real man, he should have his kids part of the time… so where do the kids go when with him??? You knew he had kids before you had one with him; wtf were you thinking? And it sounds like you may have other kids, “his other half siblings” so why does your husband allow your mutual kid around your other kids? See what I’m saying 
Siblings are siblings
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I literally cant even with this post. Of COURSE your baby should know their SIBLINGS. Petty asf.
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Oh wow you’re kind of an asshole, aren’t you?
Of course the baby should be involved with his siblings half or full they are all still connected by the father.Go to the party or let the father take the child if you feel uncomfortable or both of you go together with your child
Is She Serious Right Now? 
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Tf is wrong with you
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My daughter has 4 half-brothers. She is included in all family functions regardless of which “half” brother is celebrating. They’re blood related, family. She should be included in family events. Don’t make this about you, it’s about your child being there with her family. Grow up
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Okay I have literally read every single comment on here and they all say the same Damn thing… LET THOSE BABIES BE IN EACH OTHERS LIVES!!! YOU DO NOT MATTER ANY MORE ITS ABOUT TGE KIDS!!! I AM THE OLDEST OF 8 AND ONLY 2 ARE MY BIO SIBS BUT WE ALL CONSIDER ONE ANOTHER NOTHING BUT SIBLINGS!!! IF I WERE YOUR LITTLE BOY I WOULD LITERALLY HATE YOU LATER FOR KEEPING US APART!! YOU ARE PETTT YOU ARE SELF ABSORBED YOU ARE JEALOUS AND YOU NEED TO GROW THE HELL UP AND STOP THINKING BADLY OF A WOMAN WHO WANTS TO GIVE THOSE BABIES A CHANCE TO BE IN EACH OTHERS LIVES! SHE HAS HER HEAD ON STRAIGHT YOURS IS BACKWARDS AND UPSIDE DOWN FIX IT!!! (I appologize for all caps but this really burned my butter they are SIBLINGS and should be raised as such!)
I mean I wouldn’t let her run off with my baby but that’s their siblings… of course I’d like the baby to participate. I’d be honored she offered. Shes acting like an adult why the hell cant you?
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I have a ‘half’ brother, I do not call him my ‘half’ brother, he is just my brother! It does not matter if he has a different mother! Grow up and dont keep your child away from their siblings because you are petty.
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Wtf? Children don’t see half or full brother sister. That’s adults putting that nonsense in their heads. Yeah, technically, my brother is my half brother but he’s still my brother. And I consider his dad my dad because he raised me from 10 years old and i’m in my mid 40’s. It doesn’t even make sense to not want your child to know his/ her siblings. So what if you didn’t birth them, they’re still siblings. Also, are you keeping your fiance from seeing his other children? Sure sounds like you are. You need to get over yourself and grow tf up. Shame on you for not wanting your child to know their siblings.
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Wow everyone sounds so mean to this mama couldn’t we all be a little nice instead of so mean, I do think ur baby and the half siblings should be able to know each other if u dont feel comfortable leaving ur child with them have u tried being with ur baby over there where the siblings are? Sorry but every child should be able to know there siblings I dont think its right for the child not to, half siblings or not there family that may be hard for u to accept but its true
Uh yes! Do you really need to ask? Those other children are your child’s siblings whether you like it or not. If you don’t then you shouldn’t have gotten involved with a man who had children.
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Are you kidding me sweet heart blood is blood and by no means do you have any right to denie your children or their brothers and sisters the right to be best friends
Expose your baby. Makes it sound awful.
My daughters sisters (there is no half they are all sisters) are my family too. I babysit them, we get them birthday/xmas gifts. I have photos of them in my front room. They are excited when they see us both, I love them girls they are our family. It’s a great situation and the kids r all happy with it.
Your baby is missing out on a relationship with their family if you dont allow them to be around each other. Ñ
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Let the kids all spend time, keys their siblings.
Ok so as a woman who has a half sibling and a mom who’s daughter has a half sibling… those kids didn’t do anything wrong and if that woman wants her kids to know their sibling… I say embrace that family love. You got involved with him knowing he had kids elsewhere and now you’re mom too… you should only want the best for your child just like she’s trying too. It’s a sign of maturity to be open enough to want these kids to grow together . Set boundaries and if you’re still uncomfortable… ask if you can come with to watch how the kids interact. My daughter loves her half sister and Her sister mom and we do everything we can to ensure our girls know they have each other in their lives always. Be that mom that when your baby gets older, they’ll know you did what was best for them first and foremost and then for yourself. Show love, be kind, let them be involved with each other… I know first hand what It feels like to be accepted by half siblings and to be rejected by step siblings…it’s a mix of emotions.
My 11 month old son has 4 step sisters and currently awaiting the arrival of his half brother. I do not refer to them as such. The girls are his sisters, even though his dad is not married, and when the baby is finally born…that is his brother. No halves or steps in my house. We are a whole family raising our children as a team.
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you make your childs brother and sisters sound like some sort of disease.These half siblings are their blood whether you like it or not.If you prevent their having some sort of relationship you are storing up a huge load of trouble in the future. Do you want to loose your kids the chances are you may.Is it a risk you are willing to take ???
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Yuck those are his SIBLINGS and your bfs kids wtf is wrong with you?
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Where is your fiance at with taking care of his other children if this party is what will “expose” your child to them?
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Children should always know who their siblings are. I have a step son that doesn’t live with me and we are a family there is no step or half added. He is my son and I am his momma.
That’s their sibling. They are always gonna be in each other’s life. She could be mean and not want anything to do with your kid. People like her are rare.
My family unit is fairly unique: my oldest is 22, he is my husband’s biological child. He has 4 “half” siblings through his biological mother, those are my kids too.
My exhusband has 2 children older than our son and 1 younger, those are also my kids.
My daughter’s father has numerous children from too many women and if I could know, they’d be mine too.
Point is that kids deserve to know their families if their families are safe and want to know them. Our egos don’t matter.
Good luck
Wow that seems pretty messed up. The ex is doing the right thing asking ur baby to be there. U had a baby with a man who has kids and that comes with the package.
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Embrace that she wants your baby to know their siblings. Your babys life will be fuller with them in it.
My sons father has two kids older then my son and a daughter younger then him. I love them all because they r my sons brothers ans sister. Let ur baby jnow them. As said before it is rare to have his ex wanting ur child to be apart of their lives. At keast shes nit a butter bm
I think that’s lovely of her…they are family at the end of the day…half is still blood. You’re lucky your kid gets to have the opportunity to have siblings in his/her life
Why dont you go too if its that much a problem
N what’s wrong with that?
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I rather say sister then siblings they have the same blood
They’re his siblings, has nothing to do with the baby mama but you should go too.
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Interesting, one of my parents kept me from all of my half siblings. Since we met when we were older we had no relationship, no bonding experience, everything was weird and uncomfortable. So now I just live knowing I have 9 half siblings that I didnt have a chance to really obtain a relationship with.
Just so you know how it will feel if you dont just let them get to know each other when they are younger…
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Stop being petty and jealous she doesn’t want that man. She already threw him away. Let the kids be siblings.
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As someone who is made out to be such an evil step mother and wishes my kid was invited to his half brothers birthday parties ect, do it!! Let your child have a relationship with his family. The more love the better!!
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From a personal standpoint dont do that to your child. Sibling relationship is very very important. Thats their baby brother. He needs a connection to them. Does your baby dad not see these other children on a regualr basis ? If not that’s a totally separate messed up situation. Youre being petty and childish and trying to punish children for adult situations that they don’t control.
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Ok so what happens when their older and the “like” their half sibling… Just because you were too damn selfush to tell your kid.
My daughter has 2 half siblings. I despise the ones mother but that’s not my choice…
Be friends with her. She has 2 with him? You have 1, a baby. How old is your baby? I don’t know what the situation is between you and his baby mama. I mean if you trust her and you know they’re completely done I will be a very good thing for all the kids if you and her could be friends.
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Yes of course. What kind of question is this?
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I know a family that get together r there are 6 of the them but different moms even the moms stay in contact they love each other and work on staying that way it can be done they are family
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Wow! You treat the term half like they are somehow less than or unequal to. Like its disgusting. They are siblings point blank period. She is trying to include her childrens sibling as she should. If you were to marry your child’s father they would be your bonus children. You are so lucky for her to want that kind of relationship for y’all’s children. Embrace it.
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Wow. What kind of person wouldn’t want to let their kid know their siblings. Grow up and act like a reasonable person
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Well said Angelina. Angelo
If you let your personal feelings get in the way of your kid getting to know his brother’s and/or sisters than your kids may end up feeling pissed off at you when they get older because you kept them away from their FAMILY. Let that baby go spend the day with his family and stop being petty and jealous. My son has a half brother and I have custody of my son but I would never keep them apart because of issues with BM or her significant other, why punish kids for shit going on between adults
Why would you not want your baby to be in their lives? My kids have “half” siblings but we don’t call them that. To me ,a sibling is a sibling.
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Family is family no matter full blood half blood or whatever. Why would you want to keep your baby away from his family? I wanted my son to know his siblings. His dad married and had 2 kids of his own. Ironically he never introduced my son to his kids and my son is now 23. I wish they had had a relationship but my exs wife…anyways, my son and my dsughter have different dads, but my daughter loves my son and my son never refers to her as his half sister just his sister. In between the 2 I have a 19 year old son. Both my boys and my dsughter don’t say half… they were never taught half. My ex husband remarried a lady with a daughter and my ex and his wife had a son. Both my boys have a great relationship with their kids. My ex lives in a dif state with his wife and kids, my 19 year old chose to live with him due to hs and college. My 23 son and 3 year old daughter live with me. Anyways it boils down to family doesn’t have to be blood to be family and family can have “step” or “half” sisters/brothers, but what matters is how parents respond to it. I never said this is your half brother/sister etc when they got older they learned the words but never refered to the other as half anything only sister/brother. These bonds can’t be broken! Don’t sever them before they get started! Let them grow bloom and develop!
Wow. Those are his siblings. Dont be a selfish person. Your kids (and their siblings) will resent you later on in life if you deny them the opportunity to know each other. They are sibling who tf cares if they have a different mom, bc I can sure as hell tell you that the kids don’t care about that side note at all.
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Don’t put your insecurities with his baby mama on the kids. They didn’t ask for any of this. Let them get to know their sibling.
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I think your fiancé needs to look long and hard about marrying you. I myself couldn’t be with someone who didn’t want our child around my other kids. You sound like a jealous and petty person. If the ex wants to take him herself then you can ask if you can attend and be there but it seems like your only problem is you don’t want your child knowing his siblings. It’s not about your feelings it’s about doing what’s best for your child. Is your fiancé kids even allowed to visit their dad? How do you handle it when or if they visit him? You have a lot of growing up to do. I hope you make the right choice and have your child be a part of his siblings lives
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Sounds like you’re a grade a cunt.
They are siblings! Half or not they still have the right to have a relationship. Sounds like she is trying to do the right thing and be a bigger person. If you are not comfortable with letting your child attend alone, that is understandable, but you should make the effort. Why wouldn’t you want your child to have more loved ones in his or her life?
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For God sake…dont be petty. Let the kids see their siblings and grow the F up.
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He is their brother. Let him get to know his siblings.
Every one is saying negative shit to her I think there’s alot more going on that’s why she’s saying “half” give her a break she’s asking a question.
Why would you NOT want your child to have a relationship with their siblings? Its very important. Dumb question. And if u can become friends with the babymama, thats even better for everyone. Family is everything!
Siblings are siblings …
I have 2 “step sisters” one is from my mom and her ex husband, and the other is from my father and his ex wife. I have never called them anything but my sisters. Never half nor step.
What? Do you not like BM? If so, you just need to get over it and let y’all’s baby have a REAL; good relationship with their sisters/brother’s.
This is some Bs. If she wants y’all there, then you need to try. Not once have I ever told my friends or my husband’s family that they’re my half sisters. They’re just my whole sisters to me. & I have very good relationships with them.
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Half, step, whole…they are still siblings. My mans baby mama and I make sure my kids and their daughter have a relationship. If I were you, I’d put myself in the child’s position and think as they grow would they have appreciated that. I always try to put myself in my kids shoes.
Uhhhhh they’re your child’s siblings. Wtf are you even talking about? They’re family. Be an adult and accept that. You better be accepting his kid’s as your own, too… you got with someone with kids… those are your kids now. Grow up.
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Half step whole are family or even just friends can be family so you need to re think your values… I would never keep my kids from family unless it wasn’t a safe situation.
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Tf? These are children! What is wrong w you!? Leave them babies alone and be bitter to yourself. Smh 🤦🤦🤦🤦
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I wish badly that my daughter could meet her sister. She has met and has a relationship with my husbands ex and her partner trying to make thus happen. Long story behind it and its the girls missing out. Don’t be so selfish. The kids need to be in each others lives