Just tell the man the truth, sometimes things are just f-up, stop lying by omission
Deceptive from the moment she walked in that door knocked up, what a horrible woman.
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There’s no easy way!! Depending on how strong the marriage is, most likely it’s going to break it
I’m glad I’m single lol
if husband loves his wife very much , husband may take this child as his - or even adopt him /her to give the baby his name if not there maybe a lot of hard ship in the marriage - cause husband may feel left out by love because of baby ! honey u should tell your husband NOW that this baby is not his- before it’s too late
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That poor dad. And I’m sorry, but your POS friend needs to put her big girl panties on and tell that man the TRUTH. The audacity to complain about his work hours when he is out trying to support his lying wife and HER ill conceived baby. Smh.
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I think she should tell her husband… its a scary situation to be in, and she must expect that perhaps they will part ways again… and its a horrible burden to carry that will surface eventually… but the truth here is the ONLY WAY ANYONE INVOLVED will find peace! Good luck to your friend…
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Playing with people’s lives. This is disgusting. “Said” women should be ashamed of herself.
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That is really selfish. That’s not fair to the dad, the husband or the baby. The baby deserves to know the father and the husband deserves honesty.
She should have told her husband the moment she found out she was pregnant before getting back together. If she would have been straight forward and honest about it, he may have agreed to raise the baby as his own anyways. But she has forced his hand. I feel so bad for all involved.
I can’t imagine how hurt he is going to be, especially when your baby (or so you think) is born, you are immediately in love and have a strong bond with the baby. His whole world is going to implode
It’s better to tell the husband now than to wait. The longer she waits the more it’s going to hurt.
I know if the roles were reversed and my husband knocked someone up even while sperated, then got back together and he didn’t tell me until to the baby was 3 months old, I would leave. That is deceitful, dishonest, and selfish.
But if he told me from the get go I would try my hardest to understand that we were separated and it’s part of a package deal. And if I couldn’t love the baby like my own I wouldn’t put myself or my husband through it and leave.
Tell the husband now, he deserves the truth.
You should be honest. It’s never too late to tell the truth