You have to tell your husband
Sounds like he has other interests already.
I don’t think we’re the ones you should be confessing your sins and cheating on too.
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RIDICULOUS, weak women ! Either deal with your relationship or move on!
Excuses . I care too much about myself to do shit as such .
First of all, cheaters cheat when they depend on someone else to make them happy. You are not happy with yourself and you said it in your post, and maybe it’s why your husband is turned off…(I’ve gained a few pounds) either that or he is cheating…try initiating again, then ask him why if he says no.
Nah. You’re a cheater and he should leave you.
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How would you feel if he was out kissing other women ?
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Ask God for forgiveness ,if you tell your husband it could hurt your relationship forever and might eve promote violence you need to control yourself or leave your marriage
Before you start “checking “ on your husbands testosterone levels, check your own morals. You already know the answer to your question before you asked.
Change your ways before your husband changes his.
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I will never understand cheating of any kind
Either you’re in a committed relationship or leave
be honest that you cheated. suggest marriage counseling.
I wouldnt tell him…move on forget him and that kiss…
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the only reason I ever did anything like this to my ex husband was because I didn’t truly love him. I realized that immediately after and left him and divorced him. but he was and still is no good for anyone worth anything. that’s beside the point though. you say your husband is such an amazing man, well if you’re willing to cheat at all then that tells me you don’t truly love him and you need to let him go be amazing for someone who will value and appreciate him without cheating. just my opinion. not trying to be hateful, I just say what I feel. what you did isn’t right or fair to him at all. and remember the truth always comes out. so I would just be honest with him now. he’ll respect you more for that.
First you need to let your husband know about how you cheated on him
Second communication is key to a healthy marriage or relationship things should have been spoken of before it got to this point
Maybe there is something going on with him. He doesn’t initiate sex and he turns you down. Like a medical issue . I wouldn’t tell him about the kiss dont do that again losing trust can ruin a relationship.
maybe you should leave him before you do some dumb stuff like that again. that’s why relationships are so hard to make it these days bc of ppl like you …… begging for attention from another man when you have a husband and kids at home. that’s sad look at how you make your family look 
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Take it to your grave love, not everything good to tell.
Make a Sexy date Dress up get a sitter & dine with your hubby like He was a New guy. You may get the sparks going Again🦋 Been there… He did it on me me. Of course her being 13 yrs his Jr. no care in the word… us 2 kids & business. No… I was married too young I wasn’t happy
Is he turning you down because he’s cheating on you? Just a thought. No advice 
It was a shitty thing to do.
Either fix your marriage or break up. Kissing is cheating and cheating in any form is wrong.
Make a choice and act. Fix it, live with it, or walk.
Advice would be to tell your husband! You cheated! How would you feel if he did it ?
Have you spoke to your husband about how you felt before cheating? You need to tell your husband. Keeping the secret will eat you alive. Just be prepared for every possible outcome. If he chooses to leave you because you cheated you have to respect that choice. If he chooses to work it out with you dedicate yourself to it. I suggest marriage counseling.
Wow he needs to leave. Any kind if cheating unacceptable. Once a cheater always a cheater.
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Absolutely do not be honest! All you are going to do is ruin him. Suck it up buttercup and get some counseling and or a divorce! You are in the wrong! You need to fix what is wrong with you or maybe talk to your husband before you seek others attention! Marriage is hard and you are easy
Don’t mess up your 90% for that missing 10%. U will end up alone and miserable. Don’t do that again girl! U know better
It’s called communication. If he’s unwilling then that’s 1 thing and you go, but a whole other thing if y’all aren’t talking about BOTH of your needs in all areas of the marriage. Smh. I really don’t get it. You already F’ed up by cheating. Cause that’s CHEATING. I’m always 
honest with my husband. Good luck
Train wreck. Hell naw don’t admit that shit.Don’t go any farther. If you gotta cheat just leave.
Lesson learned. Use this as a reason to reignite the spark or whatever you have to do to heal your marriage and heart. Telling him will only make it worse. Stop feeling guilty and feel blessed that a little kiss is all it took to wake you up.
Tell him honesty is best and heads up the grass is not greener on the other side
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You were wrong.
The correct answer is to be truthful. The longer you take to speak on it the harder it will be in the long run.
We all sin, we all make mistakes. Nobody can judge what’s in your heart but you girl.
You know what you need to do, and certainly don’t need a stranger on the Internet to verify it… good luck!
It wasn’t right. In any sense of the word. It was just a kiss. Keep it to yourself. It will lead to trust issues. The grass is not greener. Have a conversation with your husband and possibly therapy on. How you feel
Couples lose spark because they don’t work on the non physical intimacy of their relationship. You sound like ever man that’s cheated and using sex or attraction to keep the spark in their marriage
Married to an AMAZING man, yet you kissed another guy? 
Forget the young guy and the kiss. Telling your husband will only be to try to relieve you of your guilt . You need that guilt to keep yourself in line.
I’m under the impression you aren’t a sweet young thing anymore and neither is your husband. Perhaps he has ED and doesn’t want to talk about it and that’s why he refuses sex. You guys need to talk and he needs to see a Dr .
Welp, expect your husband to walk away. Every choices, good or bad, comes with consequences