Does anyone else have a spouse/partner that comments on everything you put in your mouth? I have 9 kids, I go most of the day without eating. Yet if by chance I get to eat when everyone else does, he’s like… is that your second one? I’m a bit heavy but I do not over eat. Last night I grabbed sushi…I had like 3 pieces of my roll and my husband was like…who many pieces did you eat?
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No absolutely not my man knows if I’m in a bad mood better bring me a taco plate to go with my rice and fried beans to put me in a better mood! Nothing wrong with how you eat, what you eat and when you eat if your enjoying it why make comments period! … Ever hear don’t bite the hand that feeds you! Respectfully, Rude of him and I’m sorry your tolerating it! Doesn’t matter how big you are or how many kids you deserve respect queen:rose:
No, that is not normal. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
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No not normal he is trying to get something across to you but doesn’t know how to do it. Sit him down and tell him how it makes you feel and what he is saying isn’t ok . Come to an understanding of why he is saying these things
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Whether your heavy or not- he doesn’t have a right to continously comment on what you are or aren’t putting in your mouth.
However, going all day and not eating isn’t good for you.
I’d sit down and have a conversation with your husband- ask him point blank what his intentions are in regards to his comments. I wouldn’t beat around the bush and I’d straight up tell him- he’s an asshole and to quit. If he isn’t willing- there’s the effing door.
No that is absolutely not normal, it’s emotional abuse dear… I’m sorry 
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I’d tell him if he’d like to continue eating with his own teeth, he’d shut his trap about what you’re eating. In my humble opinion lol
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Lose him, and gain your confidence!
Nobody needs that kind of negativity in their life 
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Lol … comments, my smart ass mouth would be hurting his feelings. As I stand with a entire cake and eat it in front of him. Nope negative. My husband has better things to worry about then what I put into my mouth
There’s ways to go about expressing concern over major weight issues… he’s being rude. I would tell him it makes you uncomfortable and to please stop
Start saying it back to him.
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Ask him if he wants his sushi
Ew.
No.
He would never.
You either need to put your foot down or kick this man out. Disgusting behavior. He’s insinuating a lot with his comments and none of it is acceptable.
Yuck…so glad I’m single
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no it is not normal and i would not be happy to have someone who supposedly loves me constantly commenting, its disrespectful and a form of control IMO
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Fuck him. Throw the entire 
out.
He’s Passive aggressive and being a insensitive jerk, by questioning you about what you are eating is Belittling you. Speak up and tell him in front of Everyone saying loudly I Do Not Appreciate your remarks about my eating, the next time my “plate” will go in your mouth instead of mine! Lol next he’ll be signing you up for weight watchers or a gym membership for your birthday, then wonder Why you’re upset about your gift? it could be a blessing, maybe you’ll find a caring Man at the gym!
It doesn’t matter if you’re big, small, skinny, overweight… you still deserve to eat!! Why is it anyone else’s business what you eat? It’s your body! Not normal.
Confront him. It’s not okay
“Do you have a concern about my eating”?
Go from there.
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I am working on not assuming and taking offense but that would send me over the edge.
Maybe just ask- why I noticed that you mention “xxx” can you tell me what your trying to communicate because how I am receiving it, isn’t helpful, healthy and causing my heart to hurt or be angry
You have 9 kids and he is bothering you about eating? If your caring for these kids he should be grateful. Also if you have a little weight on you that’s what happens when you have kids. Tell him to watch them all and you can go to the gym or go for a walk. Picking on you is disrespectful and you do not deserve this! Talk to him get him off your back. Hugs.
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That’s so wrong of him if I was you I’d tell him where to shove it 
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Why are u asking us when u know to urself what he doing is wrong… we allow ppl to treat us this way… from the very first time he commented u should have set him straight… if it was me the kind of response I would have given him he would be wondering if he should stay in this marriage… We must stop allow ppl to have power over our emotions…
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If his concern is your weight he’s going about it like a jerk and he’s incorrect. It sounds like you are under eating. If you are worried about your weight at all you can help by eating enough food in a day. When you under eat your body will hold onto fat as a reserve because it’s not getting enough nutrients throughout the day.
Absolutely not ok. I’d be so gone with my 9 kids 
Ask him what he ate that day. When he’s done, tell him that this is the first thing you’ve eaten. So unless he wants to give up his meals during the day, he can shut up
If you have 9 children then it’s certain that some of them are old enough to be absorbing the environment of his verbal abuse, (and thats what he’s doing), you need to decide if thats what you want your kids either doing to their partners or allowing it done to them in the future
That sounds demeaning and rude af. You let him put you down like that and still wanna “do it” with him?? He would never touch my body again. Sorry hun. Do it to him but talk about his weiner. 
You need to have a one on one sit down and tell him how you feel about that, leaving him is not the answer if you haven’t sat down and communicated how you feel, yes he shouldn’t be doing that, that is rude, disrespectful and just wrong. But have the sit down and talk about it. Communication is so important!
I’d start doing the same thing back to him and patting his tummy. Or just straight up tell him to stop.
If my husband ever asked me that I would say “none of your business I’ll eat what I want”
Tell him to mind hus own business, you don’t have to be subject to that, ot sounds like verbal abuse
Nope not normal. Have you ever just asked him why he’s asking?
Tell him to dig a hole…
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Next time he gets a hard on ask him if he’s hard yet
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I would tell him to mind his business or the kids
No, that’s not normal and your husband is being a jerk. I am normally one to stand up for the husbands in the relationship because often times, their efforts are overlooked, but not here. Husbands are supposed to be supportive and lift your self confidence and help you achieve your goals, not the exact opposite. It’s not normal. My husband is the exact opposite; he’ll say things like, “Hey babe did you eat lunch today? or Hey sweetheart, take five minutes and let me handle these kids while you sit down and eat your meal while it’s hot.” You need to tell him to stop being so mean.
Not normal at all. He’s implying things like a jerk. You’ve given him 9 kids and he doesn’t absolutely adore your body for that!? BTW not eating enough will make your body hold weight so he’s being really stupid.