No youre not wrong. What hes doing is wrong. If he isnt already cheating, hes headed that way🤷🏾♀️.
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Would he like it if you did it? Answer that and you have the answer to your question. Don’t do anything you wouldn’t want your spouse to do
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my advice…serve him with the D papers. It won’t stop. Not the first time…really??
I think it’s wrong my opinion, ask him how’d he feel of you did it…
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Shes obviously sending him mixed messages while married…I’d have to read em if I were u…he wouldnt b cool if shoe was on other foot
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Oh hell no! It’s definitely wrong.
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If he can’t talk to you for 3 hours…tells you all you need to know. Invite her over for dinner…SURPRISE!!
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Obviously, it bothers you. That is your answer. Why does it bother you? Because it should! Tell him to cut it out or kick rocks.
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Dont stand for it, Sis. Thinking of you 
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It’s so wrong on many levels.
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It’s called emotional cheating! It’s not ok but it does mean you 2 are having communication issues yall need to work out
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What are they texting about for 3 hours if nothing gets personal? How do they know each other?
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Well I caught my bf of a size months texting all his exes and I barley get a text from him … I’ve been thinking to myself about this lately and it does bother me and if that’s what he wants I have no problem moving out of his way to give him what he wants … This week and last week he’s been very distance I am playing my position as his faithful women but it’s starting to get tiring cause he’s seeking approval from them like if anything has changed over the years but I guess… I know what kind of women I’ve grown to be and know what I bring to the table … So if that’s what he wants I will not persist any more … Hanging up my boxing gloves…
I would make sure her hubby knows too! Poor sap is clueless! Hope she gets what she deserves along with him
Sorry but I’ve been here, only gets worse if you turn a blind eye
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Bc it will lead to other things
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Because you allow it.
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Hell no! I caught my new husband accepting random friend request from Facebook women that he didn’t even know! Nope, not going to do that.
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If it isn’t personal what TF are they texting about for 3 hours ? 
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Oh hell no… not even up for debate… you got a man doing that he got to go
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Throw him away sis he’s not worth it!
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Guess it would depend on what they are talking about
Boo hes cheating but openly cheat just so u no
Just not right…plain and simple.
Sounds like you have a serious problem
Lmao i woke my husband up with a bottle of ice water at 4am because i found messeges he its not right its not ok they know that. Its flirting
About what? I think it might depend. Were they friends before? Are they comfortable showing you their phones and texts?could be innocent just because someone’s of the opposite sex doesn’t mean they’re attracted to them however very well could not be innocent I think it just depends on the person and the circumstances
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Been there, done that and got divorced
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Totally inappropriate
It is absolutely wrong
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Why would you feel that you are overreacting? He’s your husband and he has no right texting another woman. Your husband seems to be emotionally cheating. You should discuss this with him or seek counseling for the both of you. Something is going on and it’s important that you find out what it is.
Yes it’s very wrong.
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You’re not overreacting, I’d be pissed too. To me, it’s a form of cheating.
Your husband and this woman are playing with fire and they BOTH know it. And NO you’re not over reacting.
Overreacting? Not at all, where there’s smoke there’s fire. Pack his crap and hire an attorney. For him to even think this behavior is acceptable speaks volumes of his character.
Because some men were raised that way. Ijs
Relax, freakazoids…He’s talking to his Mom.
Next thing won’t be texting , they’ll be meeting having sex orsexting with masturbation.
#1 Trust is key if ur snooping to gain the info leave if he told u then that means he isnt hidding anything
#2 remember there is a difference between talking and fucking u can have an emotional bond and not want love or sex or a relationship
3# talk to him sit down and talk use I feel statments that way he actually hears u instead of it becomeing an argument (alot of ppl don’t/wont listen if u go i feel this xuz u do this stead go when this happens I feel like this or I feel like this cuz of this)
4# that or u can play dirty when my ex would do that shit is messege the girls pretending to be him and once the conversation got sexual throw in that he has stds and like 14 kids (it got the hoes to leave him alone… Then I relized he is a hoe d left)
But then again ive had plenty of late night 3 hour convos with men that was just talking and one was my sister boy friend