You kissed her first?? Actions have consequences & that sounds like your karma to meeee.
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Sorry but drunk or not if my friend’s husband/bf attempted to kiss me I would lose it not kiss him back. She’s looking to hook up with you both. My other question is if you were all drunk why are you driving? You said she was in the backseat which means you two were in the front. Make better choices
You both assaulted your blacked out drunk friend. You both suck dirty anus
Sounds like y’all need to take a break from drinking 
cuz none if y’all can be responsible enough to handle ur liquor.
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get rid of that woman! she will be a problem to your marriage
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I feel more sorry for the friend…Couldn’t even have a good time without her own people coming on to her while she was drunk.
You could’ve just ignored what she was drunkenly saying instead of kissing her. You and your husband made it weird and it’s probably about to get weirder now that feelings are hurt. I agree I think most of us would hope our husband wouldn’t decide to kiss our friend and that’s definitely a conversation you should have with him. Maybe everyone should ease up on the social drinking too.
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Pretty grown to be blackout drinking and playing those games… you all need to grow up lol.
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Try God instead of drinking. Makes life so much better!
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You said it yourself, it was a DUMB night. Leave it at that and y’all maybe don’t drink til you’re blacked out with no self control.
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This sounds childish but; you did it first. Literally right in front of him and now you’re mad he did the exact same thing? That’s called being a hypocrite. It sounds like something you need to just let go of and move on from.
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Sounds to me like there was something on going with them
- Who doesn’t freak out when your bestfriends bf kisses you
- Why did she kept asking you if u had kissed her?? (Provoking it)
3 . She blacked out drunk and can’t remember? Come on now what are you guys 17?
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Shouldn’t be drinking and driving jus sayin
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Drinking lowers inabitions you do lots of things drunk you wouldn’t do sober
Why were yall drinking and driving?
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I feel bad for your friend. If you know she blacks out why are either of you kissing her?
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Neither 1 of yall should have kissed her, simple as that. Maybe he felt the exact same way as you, maybe he thought that’s what yall were “doing” that night, etc. Good luck
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So. You guys were in a car drunk and kissing each other?? More concerned about your husband driving drunk. You all sound like teenagers. Grow up before you hurt someone or actually seriously damage your marriage
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Maybe stop drinking like you’re an irresponsible high school student.
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Y’all over did your drinking & drove??? Fuck no.
She knows and remembers damn well what happened. The friendship sounds toxic , she manipulated you into kissing her and she was down to kiss your husband. You’re a naive fool to think this is your friend. She’s a wolf she will take advantage and she will fk up your marriage. She’s a mess and you’re letting her in because you think she’s nice. Warned !
Please stop driving drunk 
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You both kissed a girl knowing she was blackout drunk… That’s not okay on either part. You both are wrong. And both of you need to grow up and learn to drink responsibly.
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He used you as an excuse to kiss your bestfriend and she was hoping for it which is why she didn’t push him away… I’ve been pretty black out drunk in my life and never once made a decision to kiss my best friends partners … Ive kissed my friends that are girls out of fun and whatever but I def think ur husband took it to far and that girl isn’t ur “best friend” … My husband would never ever do something like that because it’s just flat out wrong and weird…
Your both in the wrong. Sounds like you shouldn’t be heavily drinking together if these kind of situations happen. You both need to apologise to each other and move forward and stop getting friends involved.
Perhaps y’all need to lay off the booze.
She gets blackout drunk?
Not cool. And if this is something that you know, you both took advantage and that’s gross.
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You both kissed someone else. It’s no different the only thing is you’re the only one having feelings about it even tho you did it first!! You’re being ridiculous and need to get over it. Don’t do something to your hubby if you don’t want him doing it back to you
You guys were like initiating a threesome, maybe its true, maybe not. But that friend is not to be trusted at all.
Y’all need to quit drinking if you’re going to act like this
Maybe you all shouldn’t go out drinking
Ok…I’m not normally a judgy person… But the way you described the incident in the car, and you said you all had too much to drink…were you drunk driving? If so that’s just wrong on all levels. 2nd, you have been together 18 years, and have children up to 16 years old… So it seems like you are probably my age, maybe a little younger, I’m not saying it’s not ok to go have fun once in a while, but the level of immaturity here…wow. And it seems like the partying happens pretty often, considering you have known her 4 months and said she usually blacks out while drinking. This just seems so crazy,
Oh well its only fair you kissed her why can’t he Lmao
You have four children? Stay home with your children , so is your husband. Be a good example to your children.
Bet your 16 year old child would be proud! Parenting fail 101… Maybe slow down on the alcohol.
When alcohol is involved, things happen. You are all to blame.
My best friend— drunk or not— would have punched my man in the throat for even trying! THATS a best friend. Period. My ex husband kept trying to get me to kiss one of his coworkers when we were all out… she was kinda egging it on as well… I wasn’t even a little bit interested (even tho I’m bi) and next thing I know… they’re kissing — BOTH “trying” to blame it on the alcohol. Girl… alcohol LOWERS inhibitions— it doesn’t make you want someone you don’t. They just stopped caring if it would hurt you and went for it.