My husband refuses to add my name to his company bank account: Advice?

My husband and I have been together for a couple years now, and together we built our company. But he will not put my name on the company bank account because he says it’s his money. We have another bank account that we got set up together and he puts money in there for me…but I just feel like couples should share everything. I’ve told him I’m not going to spend the company money…I just would like to be apart of it because I helped him build this company. I feel like it the tables were turned he would demand to have his name on the bank account as well. We also have 3kids together and I just feel like his girlfriend and not wife if that makes sense. We have build a life and family and it just doesn’t seem fair to me. I’ve also had this talk with him but he just says that it doesn’t matter if my name is on it or not and that I’m not allowed to touch that money. Now I feel like I should go get a job and that money be mine