Does anyone elses husband tell their mom every little argument we get in? I feel like she is constantly thinking I am a bad wife because everytime something happens he runs to his mom to talk abotu it and vent…she is starting to treat me differently and now I feel like she wants him to leave me…what can I do to let him know this is NOT okay? He doesnt care
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Sounds like a disaster… Sit him down and express your feelings. If he disrespects you by continuing, I’m sorry, but you deserve better because since you mentioned she’s now treating you differently, it’s only going to get worse.
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Know what that is like only it’s the whole family and now they think I am nasty and even them seeing things doesn’t change as they think I drove him too it .
Beat him to the punch. Ask her for advice the next time you get into an argument. She most likely isn’t hearing your side of the story, so of course is going to side with him. Once he realizes the she getting the full story, he may stop running to her.
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My brother used to do this until I told him to stop because you’ll forgive your wife, forget about it and move on but your mom won’t.
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Really? Is he 12?
We live real close to my mom and I don’t see her for days at a time.
What happens at our house stays at our house. It’s none of her business.
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Seek marriage counseling if he’s open. If he’s already disrespecting you by running to his mom about every little argument, chances are he won’t respect you by telling him to quit. He may need a professional to tell him how unhealthy this is.
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Sounds like he hadn’t moved into his own manly grown up energy for some reason….when things are calm between you try to figure out why this might have happened be slow and gentle……possibly look at family constellation therapy as this can give great insight into these types of issues……good luck 